Do they think that hookers are trying to steal their man? Or they think that hookers have more fun than chaste girls? Or is it just double standards and hypocrisy of girls - guys force girls into prostitution and other girls hate these prostitutes thereby condemining them to a life of prostitution.
- loveslongnails Master1 y
I believe it's all about the moral judgment - selling your body for money is not just illegal in most places, it's immoral, unclean, and means you're letting yourself be objectified and are therefore a horrible disgrace to yourself and ALL women !!
However, if a girl sleeps around a bit because she enjoys sex, she's "just a slut", but she still has some decency because she's not "selling her pussy". As a slut, she doesn't get paid to have sex, she just does it because she likes it, but most girls will shame that too. Seems to me the only REAL difference is the money, and once you've crossed that line, you can never come back - according to most girls?
On the other hand, all of this could be wrong because WHO REALLY KNOWS what "most girls" are thinking? LOL
0 0 0 0 - Kaneki05 Master1 y
Just as their is toxic masculinity there is toxic femineity. Granted a lot of toxic femineity comes from the male views.
If men hate on women, women internalise and start to do it to each other. So if a woman does hate a escort it's because men have told them that's wrong.0 0 0 0
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- rachel776 Master1 y
I don't know any hookers and I don't think I would hate them if I did.
0 0 0 0 - swettannie Guru1 y
jealousy and hypocrisy
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0 3- TheSpaceGnome Guru1 y
Because prostitutes are bad people.
Spreading stds is bad.
Polyamory/cheating is bad.
Unplanned pregancy outside of a family unit is bad.
Charging people money for physical affection is bad.
So any sane person is going to not like whores.0 0 0 1 - In_Trance Master1 y
hate is a pretty strong word. are you sure they even give a shit?
0 0 0 0 - Anonymous1 y
It is human nature to look down on women who sell or flaunt their sexuality. That is not going to change.
0 0 0 0- TheSpaceGnome1 y
flauntiijg sexuality while single is fine, having casual sex or cheating is whats bad.
- Opinion Owner1 y
@TheSpaceGnome I disagree on the flaunting while single. No one respects women who use their sexuality for attention seeking.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
I do, if the intention is to attract a husband and not to be a whore or slut.
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- Opinion Owner1 y
@TheSpaceGnome I guess it depends on what kind of woman you want to marry. Personally I have no respect for a woman who flaunts her sexuality to attract a husband. That's not wife material in my opinion.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
I think it is wife material I can't stand prudes so I wouldn't want to marry one.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
Granted, she would also need to flaunt her mind too, one or the other isn't enough to convince me she's worth it.
- Kaneki051 y
"I can't stand prudes" oh the irony.
- Opinion Owner1 y
@TheSpaceGnome A woman can respect herself enough to dress with some class without being a prude. Trust me, classy women can be animals in the bedroom. You and I just have different criteria for what it means to be a quality woman.
- Kaneki051 y
I don't think you guys understand what prude means, lets just put it this way if you are using the word slut as insult to women who like to be promiscuous then you are a prude yourself lol.
- Opinion Owner1 y
@Kaneki05 Did I use the word slut?
- Kaneki051 y
Nope but SpaceGnome did and you sound even more conservative than him so no doubt you also use such a word unironically.
- Opinion Owner1 y
@Kaneki05 I may be "conservative" by your standards, but that's really not saying much, is it. Guys like you will have sex with anything that moves, and call people who won't "prudes". I think it's you who doesn't understand the word, but that's cool. You do you.
- Kaneki051 y
Trust me the word prude wasn't made by conservatives to hate on other conservatives. Because a prude by definition is not a promiscuous woman it's typically a conservative man hating on promiscuous women.
- Opinion Owner1 y
@Kaneki05 My first impression was that your panties were in such a wad because you frequent the red light district and these women are your only "friends'. But then I remembered you were the 21 year old dude who is still a virgin and has a mental disorder. So the reasons behind why you have such low standards for yourself and the women you are attracted to became clear. I'm sincerely sorry for your troubles bro. I'll leave you alone now. Cheers
- Kaneki051 y
It's funny how much you deflect this to all about me when in reality it's just about the word prude. Strawman arguments do be real.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
@Kaneki05 A prude is a person who thinks sexuality/lust itself is obscene/evil/rude/disgusting, its usually abramamic religious zealots, or asexuals, or paranoid parents, or old fashioned women with low sex drives, or gay women, or women with unslightly looks that want to discredit hot women by calling it immoral to find their bodies desireable. it is NOT a person who condones being stupid with sexuality. Being a slut is having physical sexual interactions with multiple people, being a whore is charging people money to do that. If a woman walks around outside naked or in skimpy clothes, but is not humping anyone but her SO, she is neither a prude, nor a slut, nor a whore. STDs and unplanned pregancy exist, as does the moral judgment that sex and love should not be monetized or made casual.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
The exception to that rule, is csm whoring, where its still being a whore, because its still a sexual interaction for money. Even though its not physical.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
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- Kaneki051 y
@TheSpaceGnome The fact you don't see you are following that religious view is funny "if the intention is to attract a husband" it's pretty simple dude. Your a prude if you find casual sex a bad thing. If your views are to only have sex inside relationships aiming for marriage while classing other women as sluts that's a prude lol. It's like you've never heard anyone call you it before but I bet they have.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
@Kaneki05 I don't agree with you at all. 1. Thats not what a prude is, I already said my piece on that, I'm not repeating it. 2. I'm an atheist who knows souls and gods aren't possible because dementia, opposites, and infinity exist. 2. Casual sex is bad for emotional and scientific reasons, it promotes spreading infectious diseases, single parenthood, loneliness, child rearing during poverty. None of that is religious, buts its all negative consequences, and only a retard thinks birth control and condoms prevent that shit, failure rates make them worthless as concraceptives, they don't prevent infections, and most people are not rich or surgically steralized. The real world has dangers in it, and as someone who thinks all religions are bullshit, i'd like to protect the only life I will ever get. I'm still interested in seeing tits and pussy though, I think sex between a couple is amazing, and i hate all forms of censorship and am pro pornography so long as its not paid or abusive, so how is THAT being a prude? It's not.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
3.* forgot to correct the bullet and numbering after adding the middle one.
- Kaneki051 y
@TheSpaceGnome Not everyone who has casual sex has stds nor be single parents thing called abortion and protection your only looking at the negatives here that can easily be avoided so I don't see how that's a fair measure at all.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
@Kaneki05 Lol you keep living in that fantasy land of yours, almost all people who have casul sex eventually end up as single parents with stds, it's not if, but when, and I'm not about that idiot life. Having regular abortions is financially costly, and stresfull on the mother physically with nearly all women, and with some women emotionally, so its not practical, better to just prevent it. You also didn't tackle loneliness, I actually want love, compansionship, and loyalty. Companionship in relationships are even more valuable to me than the sex part, because if i want to cum, i can masturbate, I can't clone myself to have a permanent best friend to share my hobbies with and relate to, but a wife can be that. And of course i'm only looking at the negatives, I don't want any negatives LOL, and all of its positives are present in monogamous sex. Thankfully, if I only have sex with a loyal, clean, sterile woman (or i could get a vasectomy), who shares my hobbies, I'll have no negatives. Casual sex is logically a shitty deal, so no, not interested in your promotional ad for being dumb with my penis and balls.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
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- TheSpaceGnome1 y
Basically its just math, monogamous relationships have better safety, better longevity, better reliablity, and added bonuses not found in casual sex.
- Kaneki051 y
@TheSpaceGnome Negatives of monogamy then can be cheated on and nvm if you get a std from that because that does actually happen, you can get pregnant by mistake still and will still need abortion or you decide to have a kid but aren't ready so everything wrong happens ruining that kids life. You can get divorced in fact stats show that divorce is likely. Broken home once again for your kid or just a huge commitment to wasted time. Nvm if money now becomes an issue. Hmm seems like to me when I only look at the negatives what a shocker it always seems bad.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
@Kaneki05 false premise, if they cheat its no longer monogamous. You can't say something is bad because a person refuses to do it, you just find a better person who will. It would be like saying technology is useless because someone sucks at using it. The risk of stds from cheating is MUCH lower than the risk of stds from intentionally humping lots of people who also hump lots of other people. And people who genuinely love eachother don't cheat, so selectiveness and patience descreases the risk further. The entire point is risk reduction and benefit increase, and in this battle, casual sex loses by a landslide. Divorce rates are the result of thinking that things like shared hobbies, interests, goals, lifestyles, and intelligence levels are not important. People settle, so people divorce, its two peas in a pod life or gtfo. Some acknowledge this, the rest either divorce or die of stress while married to a person that they hate that made them horny for a while. I don't want any kids, but if I did, I'd be 100% sure that she was mentally exactly like me, or no sex. I'm not willing to have accidental kids or fuck a woman that I'm not staying with for good. Prenup and not dating a woman with lower income (unless I build her income up first), avoids the judge from being able to issue alimony orders, and vasectomy/tubocoagulation avoids pregancy.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
I bet you hate refridgerators because some people leave food on the counter to rot instead of putting it back in the fridge. Because thats basically your argument about sex right now. The problem is the idiot, not the fridge.
- Kaneki051 y
@TheSpaceGnome Still plenty can go wrong you are truly deluded if you think it can't and it's somehow a holy grail protected. At the end of the day everything has risks whether you want to do one or another is 100% your choice but to shame other's for taking that risk is when I say you are becoming a problem.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
@Kaneki05 Avoiding reasonable risk prevention just because 100% of risks cannot be prevented, is a fool's mentality. If you run into the middle of a busy highway at rush hour traffic, just because you can technically be hit by a car in a quiet neighborhood while using a crosswalk during a red light, then you're an idiot. Avoid what negatives you can as best you can, and don't increase risks when you don't have to, is generally the smart choice.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
Whats the point if all risks can't be prevented? because you are more likely to live longer and be happier. It's just common sense..
- Kaneki051 y
@TheSpaceGnome Trying to compare two highly different situations is not a good argument. Having sex casually is nothing alike to rushing out onto a busy highway the fact you think that probably means you've never experienced it nor been around people who have. My bestfriend had sex with many women and ya know what? He's still clean and fine. It's not like he's dodging a bullet every-time. Now if he starts doing more idiotic things it could become like that but currently it really isn't. A lot of casual sex is really safe compared to the worst situations you can think of.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
@Kaneki05 It actually is analagous to rushing out into a busy highway, if you can't see that, then you do not take the risks involved with casual sex seriously, because they also are a life threatening minefield that doesn't need stepping on. If your best friend continues that habit, he WILL eventually get stds, he IS in fact dodging a bullet everytime, and that is exactly why casual sex is bad.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
Having casual sex is never safe, and thinking otherwise is placing an unreasonable amount of trust on a person who doesn't even care about you enough to stick around.
- Kaneki051 y
@TheSpaceGnome The fact you can't see it's a very wrong comparison is funny. And no he won't and hasn't because that's just simply not how it works, you really need to learn about it more. By your logic the world leading killer would be sex because a shit ton of people are more casual with it then restrictive. But I can tell you now cars kill more then sex and look how many people are willing to drive? lemma guess you don't drive? Or are you a hypocritic?
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
@Kaneki05 I don't see it as a "very wrong comparison" because it's actually correct, not wrong. He is going to get an STD, unless he stops having casual sex before then, when dodging a bullet on routine, it is not if, but when. The world leading killers are actually infectious diseases, malnutrition, and unhealed physical traumas, sex is usually not the transfer method of most of those infections however, insects are, and yet just like sex, insects play a vital role in life. I'm still not fucking casually or keeping wild mosquitoes as pets though. You are bad at understanding how analogies and evidence work, You are bad at forming common sense choices based on probability, and your perception of reality is based on falsehoods. No one but idiots have casual sex.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
Typically only the few people having casual sex think its the norm. Most people are monogamous.
- Kaneki051 y
@TheSpaceGnome Your the one making bad analogies and comparing oranges to apples next you'll be talking about guns or whatever else you want to bring up as a bad analogy that has nothing to do with what we are talking about. Hell your talking about random insects now. All I know is your more likely to die by other things that you probably do everyday without much thought but good on you for been so worried about this when billions of people do yet come out just fine and some didn't like anything we do.
- Kaneki051 y
@TheSpaceGnome Not true at all most people have had many relationships, and had young experiences of fooling a round it's very rare to find someone who's only ever been committed to one person smh.
- TheSpaceGnome1 y
@Kaneki05 Thank you for proving my point even further I guess about you being bad at understanding how analogies work, I said nothing off topic, nor anything that was not analogous to the topic, or false in any way. I stick to everything I previously said, and there really isn't much else that needs further explaining to prove my point that casual sex is more dangerous than monogamy by a lot. Nothing I say is going to convince you of anything because you sternly believe in falshoods. So I'm just going to block you and end this conversation.
- Kaneki051 y
Also monogamous and casual sex are not separate. So I think your getting a bit confused here. I ain't talking about polygamy which is also fine. I'm just talking about when a person is single, you can still want to monogamous relationship eventually but fool around while searching. Or have multiple ex's until you find the right one.
- Kaneki051 y
@TheSpaceGnome Go ahead prude
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