Why do most men don't like to moan?

[Thatgirl77]

Why most men don't moan while getting bj or having sex

I mean don't they know some of us get off by listening to erotica for men moaning and whispering (good girl)?

[ImHere22]

I'm getting more comfortable moaning with my partner during sex.! Especially when I'm inside her pussy- she feels absolutely amazing- I can't help myself from moaning when I'm inside her

I used to get told that I was too quiet, hah so I'm trying to change that. Having been on the other side, it always made me feel kind of weird when I would be sucking some guy's dick and he barely makes a sound. Like the only indication that he's enjoying it is when he's just about to cum. The guy might groan or even grunt and sigh as he's cumming in my mouth. After a couple of those experiences, I started being more vocal when my partner and I had sex or I was getting sucked or stroked, even when I jerk off I've begun moaning

[Effably]

Porn possibly? Paired with earlier experiences often requiring being more quiet - no one wants to be caught at home.

Realistically for most men entertainment is the only time we will get a representation of how to behave as men during intimacy. Moaning is quite rare there.

Personally I learned to just keep my lips very lightly parted which for me results in sounds and noises coming out naturally. I did have to re-learn being expressive though. Would imagine most men do.

[chrissykerdock]

i always thought it was because they were so used to blowjobs they didn't necessarily scream anymore although when they cum you may get an uggh or two... i've also given blowjobs to random guys and it was a mixed bag silence and an uggh or two... i always thought i gave good blowjobs because they got really hard for me and they would always cum for me as well... often with a good amount of cum... as i'm a swallower and proud of it.

[Akam93]

I always wondered that myself. I like moan that men tells me their enjoying it.

[Thatgirl77]

Same here Like tell I'm doing a good job without actually telling me 🤣

[Billlewis]

Because guys are so used to masturbating, and having to be quiet, so no one hears us.

[Mystery1900]

I usually do moan when having sex.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'm not quiet. I never was. I've been thanked/complimented on that so many times. It always seemed strange to me. Unless we're in the library or something why am I trying to not make any noise?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

It's kinda cringe.

"Uuuhhhhhhh. Oooohhhh. Oh! Oh! Ohh fuck... AAAHHHHHHHH! 😪"

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I accidentally moaned like a girl once. It was embarrassing

[WanderingLoveWizard]

(I lied, I did it on purpose. I was trying to make her laugh)

[Thatgirl77]

I laughed out loud 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Your comment is everything It's like something my boyfriend would do if I asked him to make sounds 🤣🤣

[WanderingLoveWizard]

😂😂👍

[WanderingLoveWizard]

He sounds like a good man

[MementoMori777]

It's just more comfortable for a guy not too I guess

[RavVid]

I like to keep the groan in during ejaculation. It goes with the body arch. You get more a deep sudden exhale and an ARHHhhhhhhhhhhhh out of me. Is that good enough? I'm told I have a fierce face at that time - does that help. Do I need to work on this?

I do like telling her to take it and that she is a good girl but I don't whisper. Should I do this ASMR?

[ProbablyClueless]

Usually it's because the bj/sex isn't that good. Also, some guys are self conscious about the noises they make during sex.

[Hithere4567]

I don't moan on purpose. I just can't stop moaning loud when I'm cumming, I can't control myself.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't mind intentionally moaning it if she wants, but it's not an orgasm reflex for me to do so.

[hardboiledink]

Because I'm in control and really even thought it feels good few women can make me come through a blowjob, sex I moan a bit and I prefer still being in control and talking $hit to the girl as I has sex.

[smilelots]

not sure if that is true I have no problem letting the woman im with know how I feel about what she is doing to me with me and together. moan away. smiles

[jeremy_09]

I will grunt like a caveman sort of when I'm about to cum and when I'm cumming but the rest of the time I'm just enjoying it. I do like when girls get loud and crazy.

[shades777]

rather grunt or speak in a deep voice , moaning is not masculine in the slightest

[B4851]

I like to.

[Luckycharms12]

I moan loudly

[bananathunder]

I don't know... I moan when it feels good. I can't help it lol

[bananathunder]

i listen to erotica too though lol

[Thatgirl77]

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[bananathunder]

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[bananathunder]

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[elontesler3]

ill moan nonstop if i see my girlfriend having sex with another man

[Amxx_]

It's not natural for me. So I'd rather give a groan during that time

[Anonymous]

well, I mean I don't moan softly I mostly growl or scream "Fuck" etc. or simply grunt deeply

[Anonymous]

It suggests a show of emotion and that isn't a masculine thing to do

[Anonymous]

I learned to be quiet when masturbating. So that carried over to sex.

[Anonymous]

I don't know I moan really easily and I hate it.. I always try to stop myself but doesn't work. I think its an ego thing

[bananathunder]

I think it's super hot when a girl moans (as long as it's real)... especially when you are trying to hold back but you can't

[Opinion Owner]

@bananathunder lollll ok then

[bananathunder]

just let it out girl! LOL

[Anonymous]

It is hard because of their ego, but I can say for sure it is a beautiful thing and such a big relief to moan