Why do most men stare?

In my particular case I’ve noticed a LOT of men staring down at my crotch region and I don’t understand why. I get it kind of, I mean guys like boobs so they stare at those too but why further south? I don’t go around staring at guys bulges or dicks so wtf?
Why do most men stare?
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  • Naturally, it should be a fine balance of being respectful in appreciating the beauty and view of a potential female mate. But nowadays everything is openly so sexualized that it goes beyond the border of being respectful into objectification. Make no mistake about it, men are created visual and for good reason. Otherwise there wouldn’t be any more babies. It’s the beauty of the female body and specifically the parts on the female body that facilitate creation that catch the visual interest of a man. I’m very much a naturally wired male who is heterosexual. I definitely have the urge to want to look, date, mate, and procreate 😂 But I also have the ability to control myself and to be respectful when so many others don’t care to be respectful of womanhood. So naturally I focus on the beauty of a woman’s face and smile, and her personality. If we start to go further than that into a relationship and physical attraction, then sure I definitely want to see everything down south. There isn’t anything wrong with it at that point. But at that point, I respect her and love her as a person, not a mere sexual object.

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  • Men are attracted visually, and we've developed those skills and instincts over millions of years. Why do women respond so strongly to the cry of a baby, or to a cute kitten? That's also instinct - you didn't ask for it, it's just something you do automatically.

    A man's reproductive strategy is to have sex with as many women as possible - this shouldn't be new information, and it's the same for nearly all mammals. This means that men are always on the hunt for a potential mate, hence we are always looking. The fact that we are civilized and educated (well, most of us are), means that we usually don't go further than simply looking, but we're always going to look.

    • Indeed, we are.

    • Well said Mr Oracle

    • Most od the things you said right except that men are attracted visually part. Women attracted visually not men. Many men date with ugly girls. Even the handsome men date with ugly girls.

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  • Maybe you're wearing tight clothing and it's showing a camel toe or something and they just look there.
    Or it's because you're hot and they just want to give a hint.
    I'm more of a butt guy so girls don't see me looking lol

  • I mean maybe you have camel toe or maybe you have a particular thigh gap… lol! You look super cute if infect this is you in the pic. Maybe someone got word that you taste really good?… haha! I doubt that that’s the reason but I suppose it could be. I know I have a hard time looking away when a girl has a nice figure and camel toe… and an even harder time when I’m thinking about how taste pussy can be.

  • Because women are beautiful everywhere.

  • You a beautiful girl with attractive physical appearance and mostly men's love to see a hot girl like you specially if you in this sexy outfit..

  • I’m staring

  • When the shadow is large you don't? I have a penile implant that is well behaved at this point but I had to replace an older one that responded to any change in abdominal pressure such as repeated coughing sneezing, or laughter. It would auto inflate partially to create a shadow that attracted attention. My supervisor would ask me to go to the restroom and deflate it. Simple enough depress the valve and crush it down. I always checked with her when I returned to the lunchroom for a thumbs up.

  • Typically I don't, now if you're wearing some yoga pants and there's camel toe that's visible then yeah I'm probably going to check it out

  • Bruh are you aging faster than me? Wtfv

  • Men are visual. Boobs are pretty obvious but scanning a crotch can be looking for hints like camel-toes and puffy areas we see as labia build-up. And we like to imagine what she has under that suit. I like imagining what she has for nipples (big, small, pink, brown) and the grooming of pubic hair (or the lack of it) and whether she is an innie or outie.

    • And I'm not a pervert. I just love women's bodies. I'm so glad I'm not gay.

  • To answer all questions as to why guys look..


    We're wired to be visually stimulated and will look at anything and everything that sparks a good feeling between our eyes and penis.

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