Why do most people in this day and age still equate anal sex with homosexuality?

So, I like anal now and again but only with a woman. I would never have sex with a man. I’m just not attracted to men. I’ve seen a lot of men naked, some very fit and good looking but they just don’t arouse anything in me at all. In fact if you put a gun to my head and compel me to fuck a man my dick would refuse to comply. But show me any average woman’s butt my dick would get hard in seconds. So why do people automatically assume if I like fucking a woman in her ass I’m gay?

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  • I wouldn't know, that prejudice honestly doesn't seem very common where I live (Europe).

    Here in the past years people were extremely Catholic and this often meant no premarital sex - so many couples would make do with the "back door" as a way to keep chastity and have some fun.

    Personally I am indifferent to anal - it's just not my thing and my wife's neither so we are well matched on this.

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  • Who assumes that? Maybe it's a older generation mentality but everyone I know and all youngers to not refer to anal as being gay or referring to having sex with men. Anal is so mainstream today that no one associate it with the term gay. At least not to my acknowledge.

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  • any person actually assuming that is more retarded than anything and not worth listening to anyway

  • It isn’t if you are doing it to a girl. Just not something I want to do, not that I’ve tried it.

    • Granted it’s painful initially and it can be messy if you don’t prepare but if done right it can be wonderful for both.

    • Inexperienced with sex. No comment.

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  • I have never had anyone say that, as in not in the real world, it likely gets said online by uneducated people who do not understand what gay or bisexual actually is.

  • Most people? I don't know anyone who does. Maybe you should move to a place where people are less bigoted.

  • Are you talking about anal sex as is pegging? Like she is fucking you in the ass with a strap-on?

    Or you fucking her in the ass?

    • No. I’m not interested in pegging. I only like fucking women in the ass. And not all the time. Just now and again, but a lot of people seem to think it’s automatically gay and I’m not attracted to men at all.

    • Then tell them based on that logic then wouldn't a BJ be gay as well? If putting your dick into an asshole= gay because a man has an asshole then men also have a mouth, and men also give BJs If your fucking a woman it's not gay regardless of what hole you put it in..

  • I only equate it with homosexuality if two guys do it to each other,

  • Because they are repressed, puritanical, uncreative homophobes? I don't get it either. Tell them to Google prostate massage and get educated.

  • There is no reason for it to draw any comparisons.

  • If you are indeed straight you have better options.

    • But anal feels good, so why not do it, especially if the woman likes it as well?

  • Because they are dumb as a rock.

    Gay men have anal sex because it (and oral) is their only option, not because they are just sexually attracted to buttholes.

    What defines a person's sexual orientation is what gender they are sexually attracted to, not what hole they put their dick in.

  • People who think that way are idiots. The mindset is usually religious in origin.

  • Where do these facts come from?

    • Just the sheer number of people saying if you like anal you’re gay.

  • because there's no other reason to put that there.

    • According to that logic there’s no reason to put it in the mouth either but most people do

    • not really.

  • Brainwashed and simple-minded people.

  • Because it means u liked getting in in the behind. And only gays like it

    • I don’t actually. Life would be a lot easier if I did because I wouldn’t need to spend a lot of time and money chasing women.

    • Wanting anal means wanting ass fucking

  • Because that's what it is!

    • It’s not for me. How is fucking a woman being homosexual?

    • Because u are fucking a ass.

    • If you had the choice between fucker her pussy or her ass and you chose ass, that makes you gay. What if someone blindfolded you and had your hands tied behind your back and told you there was a girl in front of you, bent over, that wanted you to fuck her up the ass, they put your dick in there for you and let you go to town and then, when you came, they took off the blindfold and you found that you'd been fucking a guy? Or, you go to a glory hole requesting anal and, instead of a girl getting on your dick, a guy takes a ride? How would you know the difference? And, if you still had a great time in both cases, wouldn't that at least make you bi?

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