Why do most women claim to love/frequently enjoy sex when most of them will go out of their way to AVOID sex or reject men?

If women loved sex, why is it so fucking hard for a typical man to get laid? It seems like most women don't like or enjoy sex whatsoever and merely "tolerate" it.
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  • I would believe any woman who claims to love sex, but it’s not as simple as “it feels good so why not do it all the time with just anyone”.

    Men have the cheap and easy role in reproduction. You’re assuming it’s the same for women and it’s not; it’s the opposite. Sex can still result in pregnancy. That’s at least 18 years of caring for another human being, perhaps after being abandoned by a guy who just wanted to get laid.

    Because of that, women have evolved to want and need an emotional connection. Raising offspring works better when two parents cooperate on the task. That’s true today as much as when humans were hunter-gatherers. Offspring of two parents have better odds, so the trait perpetuates itself. It not enough for sex to feel good. It has to be the right guy.

    If it seems like your partners don’t like sex the way you wish they would, try prioritizing their pleasure. You might be surprised.

  • Women don't avoid sex.
    If that's the case, something's not right.
    But that's when their shortcomings come alive. They don't tell you why for fear of hurting you or because they are their own reasons, most often than not not involving you in any way, shape or form.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because it’s not the case look beyond a one night stand most women enjoy sex as part of a loving relationship

  • I personally only have sex with people I'm romantically involved with. I don't like casual sex or ONS.

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  • Lol I mean we dont like being used at the end of the day. I believe some men dont like it either...

    • Who said anything about "using" women? Why is the only options "treat women like shit" and "marry them and wait on them hand and foot?" Some men want sex AND the rest of the woman afterwards, you know?

  • Sorry you are having that experience. Maybe it's time to change your approach to women.

  • I got divorced and started dating and was surprised how easy it was. Three dates and they invited me home.

  • Because they want an emotional connection and know the guy will not leave after sex.

  • Perhaps you are running into mostly lesbian women?

    • Lol. I dont think that's the problem.

    • @JustACuriousLady Well it accounts for why women would like sex but not with him. I can't account for his personality as I don't know him from Adam. Which would be the other major reason. Then again in this hookup culture it favors guys who are handsome but not monogamous; such that women are able to get sex with these guys leaving the vast majority of guys single and unlaid. Granted this third option is more speculative; but the rumors (why it is only speculative) I have heard bear this out.

    • @Opinion Owner I wasn't even referring to me personally with the question. I'm not looking for anyone. I'm just more so annoyed at the hypocrisy. Women on this site talk about sex all the time, yet at the same time, shit all over men and they're all garbage and unworthy of their standards. And by "sex," I mean with a man, not a toy. It makes no sense how so many women on this site are frigid and prudish like feminists, but also always asking questions about genitals and their tits and sex positions and shit. The hypocrisy is obnoxious.

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