Why do my LGBTQ friends no longer accept me now that im married to a Hetrosexual man?

Question

I'm still asexual, I've not changed.

PositiveFlight · Accepted Answer

I am very sad to hear that. It would seem that all the calls over the years for “love is love” and equality we’re not valid unless it was for a specific narrative or agenda. So in other words you are accepted so long as you practice LGBTQ, but heaven forbid don’t you dare love someone of the opposite. Love is love so long as you fit the mold for the narrative. It all sounds very hypocritical to me. I hope you can find some peace and realize that perhaps those friends were not true friends to begin with.

TooHot2Care · Accepted Answer

You guys weren’t friends, you were just using the same drug.

the drug was “were sexually different and treated badly by society.”

your “friends” didn’t realize you are asexual, not a romantic, and now they are ostracizing you. They are acting like twitter queers in real life, they did you a favor. I know it hurts, believe me: I know….. But you will look back on this and realize they were trash friends and that the signs were always there.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

if this is not a troll question then all I can say is HYPOCRITES. They cry and play victim card wanting everyone to love and praise them and then hate you for who you prefer. Gross. even if this is a troll question, this is actually very common.

lightbulb27 · Answer

they feel like you've left them, you are one of "them". they are not an accepting group of all... they exclude hetro's in their title don't they? they are the most unaccepting of groups, because theyfeel cast out.

just let them know you love them, but don't want to mate with them.

integrale77 · Answer

Hmm in the all inclusive world we are in today clearly LGBTQ is missing a C for CIS gender relationships.

I hope you can sort things out with your friends just remind them through all there struggles being alienated and ignored they have done to you what they don't want done to them!

Berethor · Answer

Usually Queers don't like Hetrosexual Men, and they might see you as traitor, also as it says in TV Tropes it's not uncommon for LGBT to exclude Asexuals for not being Queer Enough, Bisexuals can be excluded for similar reasons, both Asexual Women and Bisexual Women can live more or less like Normal Women if they married to a Hetrosexual Man, and a Woman who is frigid and/or sexually fluid is not really that surprising.

Lionman95 · Answer

Because they might feel betrayed but that's their problem not yours. I would rather say it's time to find new friends because those friends don't seem to be real and healthy friendships.

Summeroflove · Answer

Seems they’re not very open minded or accepting…. Wish you both the best. Maybe you need better friends

XavierSteele · Answer

Because most of them that preach tolerance are indeed intolerant

_Just_A_girl_ · Answer

wow fr so much for loving community

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Because they want to push there agenda to get everyone they can gay or lesbian. But they don’t have same energy when it comes to accepting what the other side is doing?