Why do people get shamed for there sexual fantasies and desires?

[Anonymous]

When everyone talks about their sexual desires and how or what they want to do why do they get punished for it or bullied by so many others?

[SueShe]

If those people would not make their perversions public, then there would be no shaming since nobody would know about them.

Unfortunately, those very same people that complain about being shamed are the ones that seek validation and attention and that is why they make it public.

If they had a tiny little common sense, they would refrain from wanting attention. Problem solved!

[Asker]

Or people can learn to live with it regardless of if it’s public or not no body should get shamed for what they like sexually

[SueShe]

Disagree. If someone openly tells me about disgusting stuff that are against my beliefs, then they do it because they want to know my reaction and I am not shy to tell my opinions, even if it hurts their feelings. They could just have avoided talking about private and personal things if they don't like the reactions.

[Asker]

Or you can just leave it be and not comment or not say bad things just because it’s against your beliefs doesn’t mean others feel that way. And it doesn’t mean you have the right to shame them for it especially if there wife agrees to it

[In_Trance]

There's an easy way to stop this. You keep your fantasies to yourself until you're with someone that asks and has an interest in you and them.
The technique is called STFU.
While this technique can be used for many things successfully, it works really well for this situation
Find out if STFU is right for you

[RobT312]

Sex is personal. Fantasies are different for everyone, I guess it’s too bad some people don’t realize that. If someone shamed me for mine I’d just move on and not talk to them about sex or fantasies

[LazerBean]

Because they are shameful.

[Asker]

You shouldn’t same anyone for how they feel sexually

[LazerBean]

Yeah, you should.

[Asker]

No you definitely shouldn’t just because people like threesomes or being cuckolded for example doesn’t make it disgusting and doesn’t mean you should same them.

[LazerBean]

It does make them disgusting,

[Asker]

No it doesn’t it’s just something they love to do

[MementoMori777]

Cause some are just morally wrong, for example that cuck shit, terrible stuff lol

[Asker]

How is that terrible?

[MementoMori777]

Maybe it's cause I'm not someone that likes my girl being fucked by others or not even the thought of it

[Asker]

Gotcha well others like it you don’t have to smash on what they like to do?

[MementoMori777]

I don't lol

[Asker]

Oh gotcha I thought you were kink shaming for a second

[MementoMori777]

Nope, I'm saying why other do it lmao

[Asker]

I like to do it there is nothing wrong with it at all

[MementoMori777]

That's something we will have to agree to disagree with bro lol

[Asker]

Absolutely my wife has been doing it for years nothing wrong with it

[MementoMori777]

Well personally I prefer a wife to keep her body and heart for me, same applies for me for her and I'm not going to share her with anyone, I see it as wrong but if you want to see it as a positive then you do you bro

[Asker]

I totally get that and appreciate you not hateing on this. That’s true not everyone’s wife will always be with them and only them sometimes they may wanna try something different or spice things up that’s where this comes in. To me it’s just sex it’s not love so no big deal

[MementoMori777]

Fair enough

[Nikki1989]

Because some are just disgusting.

[Asker]

You might have a few that are disturbing but you can’t really shame them for that. Besides 90% of them are harmless and not bad

[Shedzij567]

Some people have weird fantasies

[Asker]

So if they are weird why does it matter?

[LiamJHayden]

People in a free society have the right to disagree and be disgusted by things that others like, and to say so. Far better than conformity forced by authoritarian leaders.

[YesToLife]

Some are definitely disgusting hence

[Asker]

I don't know it depends even if so still shouldn’t shame them for it like people get all bent out of shape for people loving the cuckold fantasies when I see nothing wrong with that

[jakesanterden1]

no idea. i have those fantasies

[Asker]

Which ones

[jakesanterden1]

dm me