Why do people have casual sex with so many people?

I only had sex with one girl and the rest I’ve gotten like handjobs and oral to two other girls. And I’m a 26 year old guy who is good looking too. I hear people like on TikTok and in real life say they have like 11 and up people who they slept with. I’m like how can people get the feeling of wanting to do that? Like sex doesn’t fulfill you. A relationship is more fulfilling

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Superb Opinion

  • We all are different with different values, cultures and backgrounds. You do not have to keep up with other guys... if you are happy with who you have been with and shared some orgasms with then that is great.
    I was different than you in that I wanted to just experience a lot of sex with a lot of girls before I got married just for the pure fun of it (with no attachments) it was fun to get naked with some strangers and share some fun orgasms. I am very happily married now with no regrets but just be yourself and stick with your valuses!

Most Helpful Guy

  • Vast majority of sex I've had in the last 20 years had been casual sex.

    Last year :-

    39 ONS.

    5 friends with benefits (all 3 started out as a ONS) Generally don't stick with a friends with benefits longer than 3-4 months.

    Some years one of those FWBs goes on to become a girlfriend but rarely so as I don't do LDRs and I move around a lot for work.

    Do I enjoy it? Absolutely without a doubt as I enjoy the chase and hunt, also enjoy that feel of being with a new girl.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Now sex and love are totally different from eachother one can get sexually attracted to a hot guy or girl and end up in bed it varies from person to person some have high drive some have low drive some believe in pleasure some believe in emotional investment i think everyone is free to make their personal choices whatever suits best for them

  • There's fulfilling sex and fun sex. While I'm young I want to have both.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Agree with you but to each their own. It’s just a matter of opinion. I’d bet they say casual sex is more fulfilling. Just guessing, but a real relationship is probably too tough and too much work for them.

  • Because they want to. And because people are different.

  • Not sure why. From as guys perspective, you are increasing your chances of bedding a girl who is just sick and tired of men using her for that reason and you have no clue what she's willing to do?

  • 11 is not many people

  • I don't think most people are out there fucking around with a million people. Most people will have only a few sexual partners in a life time. Much of it is overhyped media bullshit to make us think that people are constantly fucking around and will sleep with what ever walks by.