Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health So I was recently having sex with a doctor I have been seeing and he asked me if I was on BC and I said no and let's use a condom. Here's the thing I don't just "hookup" and I still religiously use condoms bc I'm terrified of getting an STD. I lectured him and said "what about diseases...: also what if I was a lying women trying to "trap u" you are just going to take someone's word that they are on the pill?"
His reply was that he still pulls out and that he thinks the only disease that is a big deal anyways is AIDS.
I think this is a TERRIBLE PHILOSOPHY what's your take?
Why do people have sex without a condom?
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I should also mention which is really going to trigger people, is he feels you can dodge most of them by not having sex with blacks bc of the statistics. But that still leaves a lot of margin for error, plus I don't know it kinda sounds racist. I'm not into black guys but I don't see something wrong with it. (I should mention he's not black but he is not white either). Also for people commenting I'm not sleeping with anyone else although I am dating
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17 44I never used one haha. My ancestors would laugh at me if they saw me putting a piece of latex on my penis...
Keep it natural
@Agape93 natural is the best 😍 For spiritual reasons too 😊
I agree completely on both points ❤️
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Typical mentality in teenagers today.
ALWAYS use a condom, unless you are TRYING to have a baby, or you have both been checked and have no STIs/STDs
It is terrible. Maybe someday he will win the big prize of AIDS in this game of Russian Roulette.
Because it feels the best for a guy
because they can feel the hot wet vagina without condomn which is fucking sexyyyyy
Cuz they stupid, allergic, or want a kid
the so-called "condom allergy" is bullshit its a lame excuse people use, thats all.
I would do without condom if I am doing a girl.
If it is long term then you should not worry but if you are sleeping with multiple guys then you are at way greater risk
I feel he is not racist because there is a trigger for AIDS and usually it is girls having multiple sex partners and racially it is more incident on black people. It is again based on a statistics however it is possible that stds are reported by them because they are more inflicted by them
that's true just anal in general is more risky stat wise no matter the race but avoiding them does not keep you safe still from others
Exactly but even condom isn't considered safe. We might as have chemical suits for safe sex.
true that's why see casual sex as russian roulette and I do not play
Yup.
For many flesh to flesh touch is greatly exciting and satisfying.
It is but not worth it unless you are in a long term commitment and you are both clean for sure.
I agree.
Why do some people walk around in public without a mask?
condoms are for lesbians and whores.
Terrible
If two people have sex they should use a condom. Even if the girl is on birth control. And that includes giving a guy oral. STDs spread orally too.
The only reason to not use a condom is when both partners are monogamous.
Well i won't be having sex with anyone tell i see something saying there clean or i might just not do it at all
I never use them. I just get tested regularly.
Because condom sex sucks ass that's why as a guy when I'm wearing a condom I can't feel shit and it just takes the fun out of it
I will have sex without a condom once my girlfriend gets a STD test, unless she is a virgin. 8Ince she's clean it doesn't matter if she's on birth control since I can't get her pregnant anyway.
It’s more pleasurable
Because they're idiots
definitely
How come I got more uppies, than the MHO's But didn't get MHO?
this is gnarly
First conforms aren’t full proof. I think it’s the same as the pill honestly. It just feels better without the bag. My wife and I use the pill and then some type of spermicide from Cvs. Kept us kid free for 10 years!