Why do people have sex without a condom?

So I was recently having sex with a doctor I have been seeing and he asked me if I was on BC and I said no and let's use a condom. Here's the thing I don't just "hookup" and I still religiously use condoms bc I'm terrified of getting an STD. I lectured him and said "what about diseases...: also what if I was a lying women trying to "trap u" you are just going to take someone's word that they are on the pill?"
His reply was that he still pulls out and that he thinks the only disease that is a big deal anyways is AIDS.
I think this is a TERRIBLE PHILOSOPHY what's your take?
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I should also mention which is really going to trigger people, is he feels you can dodge most of them by not having sex with blacks bc of the statistics. But that still leaves a lot of margin for error, plus I don't know it kinda sounds racist. I'm not into black guys but I don't see something wrong with it. (I should mention he's not black but he is not white either). Also for people commenting I'm not sleeping with anyone else although I am dating
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