Why do people judge men / women for dating / fucking someone a lot younger than them if they're legal?

I never really understood the judgement. If they enjoy fucking someone really young and they're legal, why does people and society look down on it?
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  • it's typically an American faux pas.

    In other countries, it's EXPECTED and even ENCOURAGED for younger women to marry and fuck older men.

  • It's not the problem of people being judgmental it more like younger minds haven't developed as much compared older people, so people tend to feel extremely worry for the younger people having sex.

  • Well there are a lot of older men that take advantage of younger women. Then there's just a bunch of jealousy.

    Doesn't matter to me though. My wife and I love dating younger women.

  • Because it's fuckin gross... The younger one is fucked up and has inferiority urges... And the older one is a predator and taking advantage of it... I'm not old by any means but I got those 17-19 girls (aka different age group ) crushing on me and not once I found it okay in my head... I'm not surprised by how many sick fucks are here just like real life.. It was actually the norm a few hundred years ago... humanity is sad and disgusting

  • Because apparently..
    .. 18 year olds are still children.

    This whole thing is a fucking joke..

  • It is a widespread deadly diseases.

  • It's simple. People unfortunately judge each other for everything they do and say. Some people are less or more judgmental than others. I think it's just what people do. Also we're judging each other all the time.

    For ex I'm judgmental in that I don't care if someone dates an older or younger person if they're of legal age. We are constantly processing the world around us and the people in it to understand our surroundings. There isn't a way to not judge because it could be subconsciously happening.

  • Because people are hypocrites and a false sense of their own superiority.

  • Baby girl I love you.

  • I guess it looks like they are taking advantage of the younger one but it’s really their business not anyone else’s

  • Jealousy

  • Oh sorry, I can't hear their complaints over the sound of my 19 year old girlfriend moaning "Daddy" hehe..

  • There are a million different reasons people judge, but I think it mostly boils down to a jealousy or misdirected piety.
    When I was 34 I was dating a young woman of 18.

    • Ya I think its jealousy

    • Yeah people see others that are their same age and with a dime piece attending their freshman year at a local community college and they look over at their dries up mate and their emotions become flooded with jealousy

  • It's around the idea that a 55 year old dude doesn't have much in common with an 18 year old girl, so either either one takes advantage of the other, it's prostitution, etc.

    • that's just their opinion though, it seems weird to pre-judge

    • Humans judge everything in one way or another, safety, attracting, etc. That's just basic survival. Can't escape opinions and judgement.

  • I don't think that's a problem. Everyone can decide for themselves, as long as they're over the age of consent.

    • The age of consent changes depending on where you are. For instance, it's a lot different in Thailand than it is in Utah.

  • Jealousy or cultural uptightness.

  • It's funny cause if you actually pay attention to who says it, it's always either older jealous women that are past their time in the limelight, or it's men agreeing with the older pass their prime women so the older women will be more likely to have sex with them XD

  • Cuz thats what people do now, look to complain on others without looking at themselves first. With all respect

  • Guess that is the way society is. I fuck 18 year old girls and really enjoy it. They know how to move those hips really good.

  • Because it's taboo, problematic and in some places illegal or frowned upon.

    • She clearly said legal age

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