Why do people say this?

When a man has sex with an older woman, men say he's getting experience, but when a woman is having sex with an older man, people don't see it that way, when girls have lots to learn about sex too.

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  • It's a double standard and it shouldn't exist. Me personally I don't think younger should be with older. I think that at some point the age difference is too big and the younger is just being taken advantage of even if she or he is willing. But on point It doesn't matter if the man is older or the woman is older, It's the same thing.

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  • Because of a pair of assumptions: first, that women are fundamentally incapable of making their own decisions, so they MUST be being manipulated, and second, that men are always seeking to exploit and manipulate women, so that MUST be what they're doing if they succeed with them.

    It's hypo- vs hyper-agency.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't ever think experience is necessary. Sex is a natural skill. I would never be with a guy that thought he needed experience to be good in bed.

    • haha oh god

    • I will say that some people might have a hard time accessing their natural skills because they might be in a bad mental state or not be physically able to. Obviously rare cases tho

  • Great question, duel society, just like the justice system

    • Thanks for the MHO 💕

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • What exactly do women need to learn about sex? If you just lay there, you are a rock star. Guys don't care at all. Sure, blowjobs. You need to learn not to let the teeth hit. After that, there is nothing a woman can do wrong.

    • lol you contradicted yourself there. Besides women need to learn what to do in bed too, in different positions. how to enjoy themselves etc

  • Girls don't really need to learn, girls tend to be passive anyway, unlike guys.

    • This is factually wrong

    • Yeah, no. Every Woman can ber herself, autonomous and liberates to the fullest. She is free to do as She pleases. Women have not been passive they have been oppressed for 1,000s of years. And when Women are made equal they become superior. It's happening currently. I'm grateful and Surrendered to all Women. You may as well give it a try as it is becomes more common all the time. ♀️

  • I've never understood the disparity. Younger women have the power in the dating field. Especially with older men. It's flattering as a guy in my 50s when a girl flirts with me.

    Did I say "flattering"? I meant "terrifying".

    I view guys my age trolling for younger women with the same disdain I have for women my age trolling for younger men. It's disturbing.

    Trust me, all you have to learn is regret.

  • The thing about that is that girls mature faster than boys. So a woman dating an older man would still mean they're about even in terms of mental acuity.

  • It's assumed the girl is getting used while with the guy with an older woman it is assumed both are getting what they want. Basically a lot of guys are okay getting used for sex while most girls are not.

  • It's the ongoing double standard of our society! Lol The same as men can be whores and we call them studs and a woman is a whore than she is a whore, slut, or whatever negative things you can think of. It's that horrible saying, " boys will be boys", meaning they get a pass for everything they do wrong because they are males. This double standard is just another example of providing execuses for men! 😁

    • You are too kind!

    • Why?

    • Should of said a simple thank you for the liked comment! Lol

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  • Yeah it’s a double standard. Either way, teens should date teens, anything else is between adults.

  • Sex is a natural skill

    • It is most definitely not 🤣

  • It's called hypocrisy

  • Dual standards in the society.

  • They think either hemanipulated her, or she is a gold digger

  • I agree.

  • It all goes back to what men and women value in each other. Men are valued for their capabilities, their confidence, their utility and their experience. Women are valued for their nurturing qualities, and yes, their purity.

    Call it sexism if you want, but it's human nature and it's coded in our DNA. It's not going to change no matter how hard some people try to change it.