Why do people want someone with a low body count but they themselves are nasty and sleeps around?

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  • Egos can be quite fragile. My boyfriend slept with probably hundreds of women (many he paid for) and I've slept with 8 dudes. My body count pales in comparison to his and so I don't delude myself into thinking that im the best he's ever had. He did however assume he was the best I ever had. Breaking the news to him that he infact didn't even come close to being the best, ruined him for about 2 weeks. He felt that I was saying because he wasn't bad that I just put up with him sexually. Not the case at all. I explained to him that the best guy I ever had was also into the same fetishes I was and so performed better in my view. Since my boyfriend doesn't like what I like he doesn't stack up as well. I learned that men have very fragile egos and expect that because they have had lots of women that they should be the best in bed. On the plus side our sex life has really improved 👌

Most Helpful Guys

  • Insecurity, the idea is that if you get with a woman who has had few, or no partners she has less chance to cheat. Though regardless of your past, if you're a cheater, you will do so regardless.

    Also too many sources of unrealistic expectations, Tate, fresh and fit, harem isekais, there are so so many that will cater to men on that note, especially men who aren't able to have a relationship, and will readily offer that up as an excuse for why they can't.

    Where for women you have more soap operas, the view, and BL catering to them. They're both just as improbable. Same audience, different gender.

    I simply don't ask how many people my partners have been with. If it's something they want to talk about, I guess they have a reason for it? Who they were is far less important than who they are, and are trying to be, especially towards me. STD tests are quick to get anyway, with the HIV ones being like 40 bucks at walgreens with 5 minute results.

  • you have it all wrong. But it's not your fault, listen you're just going along with what everybody else thinks. which is wrong in itself. Us guys think about having sex a lot more than women. This is a fact however if you were to ask 10 guys over the age 25 would they be comfortable being a porn star, and letting the female members of their family know. They would say NO. Regular guys just want to start having sex In H. S. After that "yes"we want to fuck everything, just the way girls only want money... thats just the way it is. We're not pigs..

Most Helpful Girl

  • Because some people want to have their cake and eat it, too. Mostly men for some reason, saying that being a slut has no negative effects on men even though that is statistically incorrect.

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  • Most people who want a partner with a low body count don't sleep around because they have standards.

  • that's why it shouldn't be talked about by either one

  • Because a man is like a key, a woman is like a lock no? also villainesses want heroes trope.

    • Bump key? lol

    • Master key but when a woman get used by a bad boy then he might be a bump key.

  • OHHHH so you didn't meant like asasinations

  • hypocrisy makes the world spin square!

  • Hoes that are hypocritical

    • Even the men?

    • That’s a universal statement

  • i'm the opposite

  • I don't even know what the big deal is about body counts. Does it really matter? It doesn't to me

    • Yeah it really matters

  • They're hypocrites.

  • Because those people are selfish and have no self control. There’s no good reason for that.

  • Online is the only place I even see or hear people discuss body counts. I have never had the topic come up with any lady I dated nor with any of my friends.

  • Everyone wants the best partner they can get. No one thinks "I'm only a 6 so I will make sure I never date anyone who's a 7 or higher. And yes, you body count definitely factors into your rating as a woman.

    Here's the problem. Men hold women to a higher standard when it comes to promiscuity. Said another way, women don't hold men to a high standard for promiscuity. As a result, men with higher body counts often end up with women with lower body counts. Because they can... because women allow it.

    So the real question here is... why do women have such low standards on male promiscuity? Why don't you raise your standards? Because I can promise you men are not going to lower theirs.

  • Because statistically women who sleep around dont stay married when they do get married, The same is not true of men. The more a woman sleeps around the less loyal she is..

    • I don't know who taught you that I guess a dumbass because apparently there are some married men who continuously cheat on their wives.

    • Some.. But not all, and not most. nice try though. The majority do not.

    • Usually both supposed to wait until they are married because men just going to want more sex and it increases his lust. So multiple partners aren't good for neither men or women. You must not like women or grew around men that don't like women.

  • b/c women like the guys that get all the girls. She feels excited b/c this desirable guy Chose HER over all the other women he could have. Guys on the other hand don't give a flying fuck whether a girl has the ability to bed other guys all he wants is a clean treasure that puts him first.

  • I don't want low body count girl