Why do so many guys always talk about how much they want a threesome with two women when in reality they typically can’t even satisfy one? ?

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  • First, it's a fantasy.

    Second, if a guy can't please a woman, then chances are he doesn't CARE about pleasing women (because, though women DO vary and, yes, you have to figure out what each one really likes, it's really not THAT difficult). Yes, it's possible that he cares but it just inept, but I suspect that's less common than those that simply don't care. And if you don't care about one woman's pleasure (rather, just your own), then it's not going to bother him if he disappoints 2 women as long as he gets his. Just being real.

    Third, there ARE guys who CAN please women, and who date women who also like women, and actually ENJOY threesomes.

    But I get your point.

    My point is: why would you stay with a guy who can't please you - especially if it's that he really makes no effort to please you - much less "reward" him with a threesome? If you do the former, much less the latter, then you have to take some of the responsibility for his poor performance, because you're enabling it!

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  • It's a massive turn on to see two girls rolling around in our bed when we wake up to enjoy. It's just super feminine and sexual. What's not to love? I'd assume the same could be said if a girl got to wake up to 2 hunks in her bed, on both sides of her. Must mean she's done something pretty well to end up in that kind of a situation to enjoy.

    • If that’s all you are after stay home and watch porn, don’t waste my time. I don’t need permission form anyone to have lesbian sex except the other girl. MFM is a completely different experience than FMF. With an MFM threesome the guys tend to take turns which helps the whole experience last longer. With FMF it quickly turns into FF and then a dude in the shower.

    • Not saying you need the guy to enjoy being with another girl. I think that's great. Your question stated specifically about why a Guy would want a threesome with two other girls in bed with him though. This is the reason why for most dudes. And also there are tons of positions that work really well with three people involved simultaneously. Can be a really hot experience to try for everyone involved.

    • Spoken like a man who has never actually been involved in one.

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  • They think they’re hot shit, and they’re right. They’re steaming piles of crap. :/

    • Nice.

  • So true. Wish guys would start taking our pleasure more seriously.

    • Might surprise you to learn that I feel the same way about women, so its not a gender issue its a people issue. Some are giving and others are not.

    • @Guffrus Really dude? Because the vast majority of guys are always in a rush to just stick it in, blow their one shot then go to sleep.

    • @Quackthulu Exactly. I think most of them don't really care about whether or not they make us orgasm.

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  • The orgasm gap is real and I know there are plenty of selfish and inept men. Not sure I’d go so far as to say typical. Plenty of men enjoy satisfying their partner thoroughly. Sorry if that’s not been your experience.

    I agree that FMF might be better left as fantasy, at least for me. I put every last bit of energy into a partner’s pleasure when it’s just one woman, so I would feel like I was short-changing both of them.

    • Oh, I know how to pick my partners. But even if it is pure selfishness doesn’t it still make more sense to keep them satisfied so they keep coming back for more?

    • Yeah, sure, unless novel partners are your thing, not that I claim to understand the selfish mentality at all. For me, satisfying a partner is at least half the fun. Expected reciprocation and repeat sex are inevitable byproducts of performing well, but lame-ass motives to do so in the first place.

  • I don't know, be kind of cool to look down and see 2 girl almost fighting over who gets to suck my penis🤷‍♂️or eat one while getting a rim job, or rim and blow job, or everything at once like 69 with one and the other rims me.

    Just a fun dirty fantasy that makes a guy feel really attracted my the other sex I geuss🤷‍♂️idk

  • Lol this is gonna be good :)

    • Lol, some guy already got butthurt

  • Fantasies don't have to be grounded in reality. And maybe they are unware of their inability to satisfy a woman or perhaps just don't care, neither of which are necessarily a prerequisite for having or wanting a threesome.

  • I'm more than happy with my girlfriend. We both only have eyes for each other.

    • Okay… so why post anything at all if you aren’t actually going to post anything on topic?

    • Sorry. Will be more mindful of that in the future.

    • See that you do that.

  • I don't know why, but "ego" comes to mind.

    • You aren’t wrong.

  • i think for many its more about the visual aspect 9f it.

    • So just go watch porn.

    • not me. i hear a lot of guys make comments about sitting back and watching, partially participating. my last ffm 3some i had 1 on each end of me though.

  • Is it typical that a man can't satisfy even one woman?

    • It isn't in uncommon

  • Lmao, good question! In my mind the women please each other... But I am not one of those guys who even wants a threesome to begin with. I choose my girlfriend alone, every time. The only threesomes I've had have been ones where the girls initiated and I was single, and I said fuck it why not?

  • We call those guys posers

  • Many people have a hard time making realistic comparisons between wishful thinking and reality.

  • I've done it a couple of times, once with second wife. And couple play arounds with girlfriend. We had a friend of the girlfriend round for a meal. girlfriend after dinner, sat at side of me and started playing, her girlfriend was getting a little frisky, and sat at my other side. It was good fun the next time. We did it up stairs on the bed got more involved, it was quite enjoyable...

  • What makes you think the guy would be doing all the work?

    • Thank you for missing the point completely.

  • Why is the guy responsible for your orgasm?

    • That may actually be the dumbest thing anyone has said to me all day. A few hours at least. Had someone bitching at me for ignoring her then blocked me earlier when I was asleep. So I’m not sure which is worse, but it close.

    • Seriously, He is responsible for all three of you?

    • Is that even remotely on topic? Or are you just making up bullshit in the attempt to sound like a victim?

  • This biased 😎

    • How do you figure that?

  • I don't think that many men can't please a woman to be honest.

    • You would be surprised then.

    • How do you know the proportions of men that supposedly can't satisfy a woman?

    • Because I have had sex with all of them, duh.

  • Yeah that is true a mfm is way more practical

  • Your question made me crack up. But I think the point is for them to have the when there to satisfy the man.

  • Because everyone thinks about themselves, so it's about satisfying them, not the girls

    • Sure, but it doesn’t take a genius to realize that if you keep your partners happy you will get to play again.

    • True

  • You just ballbust kick a lot guys here😂

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