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Why do so many men believe that buying someone dinner or drinks entitles them to sex?
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21 110You won't have this problem if you don't drink alcohol.
Just another male-idiot-idea.
Why do women think that being born a woman entitles them to having their meal paid for by a guy?
Just pay your own way. That makes things fair. Nobody feels used and nobody feels obligated. Both people get a win that way.
If you asked someone over for dinner would you expect they to bring their food or pay you?
"Buying dinner" for someone usually implies taking them out to eat.
Time is money you either take the time to make the food or you pay someone else to do it..
Why do so many women believe that men believe this when we don't?
Just take a moment to read through the guys comments and you will see a plethora of those who do…
I buy you a drink because I want too! Not to get a freepass for having sex later that night 😂
This is why I pay for my own drinks
Because they see it as transactional. I bought food and drink, so I bought time between your legs. Imagine that logic, if I bought them food, by their logic, I can shove a dildo up their ass, because I'm entitled to it now. Or if they bought their parents dinner, are they entitled to fuck their moms?
Because there are women who agree to that. Yes, not all women do, but there's no harm in trying.
Perhaps they believe all the woman is worth, that's what they are technically symbolizing, they just don't say it
Which tbh these are the type of guys women should avoid but you know... shit happens
I always thought guys who are this way are just trying to manipulate a woman into sex. Like, “Come on, you ordered steak... what do you expect?” It seems absurd to me, but then again I’ve met women who fell for it.
Clueless.
The vast majority of dates that I have been on we go out, have a good time, usually, and if we like each other plan another date.
There have been a few dates that for what ever reason we end up undressing each other with our teeth and have sex like there is no tomorrow.
Sometimes it just happens.
I don't expect sex when I go on a date, if it happens that's fine, but it can take a while to get to know someone so you feel comfortable enough to have sex when and if the time is right.
Because a lot of women back in the day would go on dates for food in exchange for sex... it was a natural thing. Women were and still tend to be prostitutes in that regard. And men know this
really, i must have missed that
@clemdenim actually that was back around the mid 1900s when women did not have equal employment, the ability to have their own line of credit and the few jobs they could get didn’t pay enough to be able to survive off of
Actually no. That lasted way longer
But that is how it started…
I was around then, and single. Having sex with a date was never related to dinner. It was a lot more than that
Ok I know.. but doesn't negate that women still did and still do it now. Or now ask for more things to get sex...
I never felt that way! If she WANTS to fuck me, that's fine but, I only ever intended it to be a night out with her in hopes that at SOME POINT in the future, she MIGHT get to like me enough to want to be my steady girl and THEN fuck my brains out!.
It's the easiest way for them to try their luck.
Not all, some.
Usually they're wealthy and have escorts and stuff with them, the ones that are paid for. They don't have experience with normal women, that's all.
No one said all…
My bad then
never had that experience
Consider yourself lucky it hasn't happened yet.
let’s remove the “yet” lol… I’m very particular and selective about who I go out to have a meal with in that sense, even MORE when it comes to letting someone pay for my meal and drink. if I don’t know his character, there’s no way he would get the chance to take me out. so I don’t think I’ll ever experience that…
If I ask a girl out to dinner I don't expect it to end up leading to sex
I am not sure that this is a real thing but I might be wrong. I would never expect sex. When I was dating it was something that never entered my mind. Maybe some guys have a different idea but I bet they are in the minority.
Because you don't think like a man.
We see buying you stuff has a investment for booty calls. Kinda like a down payment for sex.
Because once we marry you, the booty is gone.
Just ask someone like me thats been married for almost 30 years. Thats someone is me
That’s like getting upset that things don’t stay the same when things change.
I hate change, the biggest change I hate is the automobile. I wish they stay in un-computerize and stayed with carburetors
The only constant thing in life is change. People change as they age, their brains, bodies, hormones etc
Why do some women think that saying yes to a date and being present entitles them to a free meal even when they fully intend to never talk to the guy after?