Why do so many people already have a sex toy at a really young age?

I am 20 and I do not have a sex toy (yet), because I still live at home.
I'll buy one, once I have moved out of my parents house.
I think this is reasonable, but it seems like I am quite late to the party.

Apparently, a lot of teens already have sex toys at the ages of 15 or even 12 years old.
At that age I did not even think about sex toys.

I wonder how do they get these toys? From their parents? They are after all underaged.
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  • Mostly yeah they will find it in their parents bedroom but the other times they'll buy it online
    I think it's because parents aren't good at explaining sexual things to their kids, for example my parent just told me "some people can do some stuff with their body, you don't do those kind of stuff" I was 14 and I didn't understand a word I just shook my head in a sign of understanding.
    But if I were to teach my kids I would tell them this is your genitalia it will do this if you do this and this is why you shouldn't do this or why you should do this

Most Helpful Girls

  • This mainly depends on the relationship between the child/teen and the adults that surround them. Some kids have really good relationships with their parents/Aunts/Uncles where they actually talk about that stuff and the parents/aunts/uncles will help them attain their toy.
    Personally, I wish growing up that I had someone who I was close enough to talk to about that kind of stuff, but I didn't get so lucky. It reduces the chances of a child running out and having sex at an age they aren't ready for it, while their bodies are telling them that they are their minds aren't quite there yet but most kinds experiment with their bodies anyway.

  • Dont wait invest in your sex life now. We get them young because we're horny n toys are better than boys at times.

Most Helpful Guy

  • My thoughts are teens should learn to masturbate without any toys first and once they master this then add a simple toy like a simple masturbation sleeve for boys and a small vibrator for girls. Boys should be given condoms to masturbate so they learn to use them and learn to orgasm in them. Most start masturbating at 11 or 12 I think 14 or 15 would be a great age for toys!

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  • No idea im 18 and dont have one. But I am sexually active

  • My mom bought me any I wanted until I was old enough to buy them myself

  • It’s kind of a big deal in Korea so not many people have one but I bought mine when I was in Canada around 16 years old

    • I was traveling to South Korea a lot before the pandemic. I have always seen many shops that sell sex toys there. I did not know they put an age restriction on purchasing. Anyone can buy vibrators and dildos in Japan. In some places in Tokyo, they are actually sold in vending machines. Lol

    • Yeah but it’s scandalous to have one. Anyone is allowed to go and buy it. It’s like high schoolers buying condoms, they still do but it’s a scandal when people find out

    • That is because South Korea is predominantly christian, now. The americans have been trying to convert Japan since the 1860's , but they haven't had much luck at it. Is it really scandalous for high schoolers to have condoms? It's not even that bad in america.

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  • I thunk all girls should have one once they start masturbating. Bought one for both my girls at age 11

  • curiousity

  • what is wrong with masturbation that you have to wait until you move out.


    i think it’s heathy and perfectly good!

  • Age shouldn't be an issue. The 'toys' are for having fun and heightening the sensations of sex.

  • What’s wrong with that?

    • Nothing, just curious considering they are underaged/quite young to experiment with sex toys.

    • Not really. They use their hands to masturbate at that age

  • I'm not sure I was always horny since I can remember I wish my aunt's or someone bought me a pocket pussy and give me the ok to watch porn😢 at 10 years old. They could of just said here you'll need this🙂

  • I wonder how they get them too..

  • Good parenting

  • If you masturbate then you should definitely get a sex toy! (and everybody masturbates)

    1. Sex toys feel so much better!
    2. Sex toys are healthier for you (no death grip!)
    3. They're not expensive considering how much you will use one.
    4. There's no difference morally to using your hand. Nothing! You are just doing the same thing right now with your hand.
    5. You need more reasons?

    *** IMPORTANT! ***
    If you're reading this now, consider this YOUR SIGN!
    You can now finally grow up and get an adult toy.

    So now you've got the 'whether you should' out of the way...
    Your first toy should be a Tenga Spinner. They are quality and not expensive - and most importantly discreet. They look like a face cream container and you can hide them anywhere. They feel amazing! You can even tuck one inside your underwear if you hear someone coming! (you can't do that with a big Fleshlight)

    Do the following right now:

    Create a new Amazon account for your sex toys so nobody will ever know (nobody actually cares if you have one, they assume you already do!)

    Seriously. Do it now, I'll wait...

    Now add a Tenga Spinner to your cart.

    Add some lube - or a large Aloe Vera pump dispenser for lube - this is something you can leave on display in the bathroom. It's great for your skin post-shave!

    Go to the checkout and choose a pick up point delivery (local shop or locker) - your package will be in a regular Amazon box - no ID needed. I've bought loads of sex toys and they've always been well packaged.

    Make sure you choose next day delivery. Trust me, you'll want it fast, and this way you have less time to think about it.

    Okay, now the big moment. No more excuses.

    Take a deep breath. Now press Buy Now!

    YES! WELL DONE!

    Now you should NOT masturbate until you get it. Trust me this is the most important step. Do whatever you can to stay 'interested' so you don't change your mind.

    When you get your toy, don't wait! Use it immediately, even if it's for a few seconds. You need to make it yours!

    Long post, but you needed to hear this! It's like you are being visited by your future self and giving you the best advice :)

  • Live and let live. Who cares?

  • My mom got me one, it wasn’t anything weird she’s open about that stuff with us.

    • At what age?