Why do some girls have very low sex drive or even no sex drive?

I have heard from men in real life and on the internet as well that their partner (wives) hardly ever have sex. Its like having sex once in 2-3 months. Why is that?
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  • Not feeling connected to partner. Stress. Health condition

  • There are several reasons as to why.
    -Hormones
    -Self esteem issues
    -Attraction issues
    -Having children, busy lifestyles.. too tired when he comes home
    -Medications (like BP meds)
    -Depression

  • For me I noticed my sex drive went down when I went on Prozac. Then I’m only on birth control which birth control is known to lower sex drive

  • For some it's just natural, not everyone has a high sexdrive from the get go, for others it can be cause they are stressed or emotionally tired or for some (not everyone who use it) it's the effect of the birth control pills. There are just so many reasons why

  • Because everyone's different.

    Personally I hardly know any women with very low sex drives.

  • It all comes down to hormones.

  • Some girls just have low sex drives. Men do too. I've dated guys who had low sex drives before. Everyone is different.

    • was it difficult dealing with guys who had low sex drive? i mean did it frustrate u at times?

    • Very. I've always had a high sex drive so it's never worked with guys who don't want me as much as I want them

    • No wonder u moved on.

  • Don’t know 🤷‍♀️ never met a woman like that.

    • You’re surrounded by them just not your immediate friends.

  • Do people really think that marriage its sex everyday? When you stay with the same person, sleep on the same bed wake up see the same face... that "apetite" of having sex fads each day..

    • Nope, not everyday, but i know people who say that there partners have sex "once" in 2-3 months. Thats what i am referring to.

    • Yeah, when you get used to the person, and between couples there are serious problems, it can cut off the sex drive, that's why others cheat

  • I wouldn't know, I have a high sex drive

  • They probably don't enjoy sex (for that could be several reasons)

  • Men have a higher sex drive earlier in life
    Women have a lower sex drive earlier in life
    Men have a lower sex drive later in life
    Women have a higher sex drive later in life
    It's called hormones

    • and thats why men cheat more :D

  • What Mombie said...

  • - not enough hormones
    - self esteem issues and body image problems
    - too lazy to shave or whatever
    - not sexually compatible with her man
    - not that attracted to her man
    - tired from busy life
    - medications that mess with hormones
    - depression or any mental disorder that messes with one's desire for sex

  • For me personally I have a very low sex drive, but if my boyfriend wants it we help each other get into the mood and all is well. Hormones are a big factor in sex drives too, some girls have raging hormones that crave sex more than other girls, in my experience I don't have a desire to just fuck every dude I see or even my boyfriend more than maybe once or twice a week or two.

    Also my second reason that kinda relates to what I said above is that I'm really shy and insecure about my body, so naturally I'm picky who sees me naked and stuff.

  • The same reason some guys don't feel up to it at times.

  • Most girls have a high sex drive... but we usually don’t show it. It’s just like guys not showing emotion or acting all tough, even when he feels vulnerable

    • To the girl who downvoted me - I’m sorry I spilled the secret

    • Good point

    • This is true, but I think a lot of women don't show it because they think its a turnoff for men

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  • Having a partner who SUX ASS in bed is about 80% of the women who aren’t interested or care to ‘DO IT’ cuz they prob haven’t had a good/great fuck partner. I really didn’t enjoy sex, but I loved oral. Got with my boyfriend now and omg... now I gotta have it an d he brought the SEX DRIVE into warp speed in me.

  • They don't feel emotionally connected to the guy

  • Never had that problem lol

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