Why do some girls like being degraded and humiliated in bed?

[Anonymous]

Why does this turn you on? What's the best way to go about it?

[udolipixie]

Why do some girls like being degraded and humiliated in bed?
Possibly because those gals are feminine and I find feminine gals tend to seek humiliation, degradation, domination, being controlled as they idealize being weak, submissive, pathetic, etc.

Why does this turn you on?
It doesn't. I'm fortunately not feminine.

What's the best way to go about it?
Probably asking what her boundaries are and using a safe word.

[Taffi]

Because most girls are a little submissive by nature. Personally, I'm a complete control freak when it comes to school/work/every day things, but sometimes it just feels really good to completely let go and let someone else be in control.

[cmr530]

My girlfriend says the same thing. She is in control of so much with work and other parts of life, she likes it when i take control and dominate her during sex. She doesn't want to be degraded, but she does enjoy me being dominate and controlling and doing whatever i want.

[DisastrousQu33n]

Why would anyone ever enjoy being treated like dirt... I'm so done with people.