Why do some girls like spanking?

In the past when girls have asked me to spank them I've always agreed and thought it was hot. But I have never really thought about what it is that girls like about it. Why do some women like spankings. Is it a pain thing. Feeling like their man is in control?

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  • Most girls like spanking, at least in my experience with a few dozen over the years. We raise our women to be at least in part submissive sexually and they generally like their man to dominate both physically and psychologically. Spanking is dominant. Spanking also REQUIRES that a safe word be in place (see next paragraph). It requires her to submit, sometimes easily, sometimes not. I love it when (as agreed beforehand) she struggles and fights and protests as I pull her over my knee. Most women in my experience also enjoy some level of erotic pain, pain associated with sex. Spanking is that kind of pain. The combination of submitting and being in erotic pain satisfies her need for submission.

    Now, I believe it's mandatory to have safe words if you're going to play this way. When she struggles and fights, she'll tell me to stop, that I'm hurting her, etc. but it's all part of the role play and not genuine. A safe word gives her control by having a way to stop the action immediately if she is hurting too much, is in fear of injury, or just starts to freak out. Red light is one safe word phrase that a lot of people use. Also a safe word that says he's getting close to her limit and should stop escalating for a minute or two while she "catches up" is also useful. Mercy works well for that.

    All that said, we also agree that if, on reflection and discussion, she used her stop word unnecessarily, she gets a punishment spanking for that, one without safe words that really hurts.

  • The girls who love spanking find it erotic to be submissive and letting her man take control of her body when making sexual intercourse. It is their way to allow their men to be dominative and manly to them. Such girls are great at sex and want to enjoy it to the fullest.

    Beside, spanking is not a bad thing. It is an erotic way to transform from a little pain to a more rewarding sexual pleasure.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Women like being spanked for just a few, precious seconds they are transported by the pain of their own choosing away from the limits of power that we must exercise to survive and be female at the same time. I’m choosing to let my guard down and give up control when I allow myself to be spanked. I also enjoy when there is aftercare and we cuddle, and he whispers how good sex was.

  • The dominance the man is taking from you making you feel like you are bad and you deserve it. I love them!

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  • Dominance is a very very sexy thing that both genders love to be on one end of or the other

  • I would ask how guys can get off from watching there girl get fucked at this point questioning why people find shit kinky is pointless

  • Women naturally want to be dominated sexually. It's a bazillion years of biological programming.

  • Because girls need to be trained and kept in line. Simple logic.

  • Also boys might like to be spanked

  • I think they have a slight masochistic streak