Why do some girls think that if you're a virgin beyond a certain age something is wrong with you? Even some guy's do it too?

[poneglyphs]

There was a guy I met once in university who found out that I never had sex. He was basically in shocked and was telling me how I didn't have sex in the past? He just didn't believe that I was a virgin at 24. I felt kinda odd and it hurt my self esteem a bit.

[Zeus_66]

You have nothing to worry about. He was probably in shock because many people are fast to give up their virginity, like it is something they want to lose. Interestingly, some regret how they lost it, yet can never get it back. Remember, being in your 20s means you still haven't reached full mental maturity. However, it is mature enough to know that your hard work and schooling was a priority. If you desire to have relationships and soon lose your virginity, then so be it. You've earned that. But no matter how old you are, having sex still comes with the same responsibilities. Live it up! But be safe and try having sound relationships first before jumping into the sack.

[ValleyofDrakes]

Because something "is" wrong with you.

It's not normal to be so old and still a virgin. Not that it's a bad thing, it's just not a norm of society.

You live in society. So people expect certain things of you.

[poneglyphs]

oh well, when do most people lose it?

[ValleyofDrakes]

Basically if you're at least 20, people expect you to have already done it, otherwise they sort of think you're a loser. However if you can keep it to yourself for long enough no one has to know. I really don't think it matters.

[poneglyphs]

oh, well, what should I do to improve my chances?

[ValleyofDrakes]

Dating sites. Tinder, Hinge, Plenty of Fish, etc.

[poneglyphs]

I tried those and never got any matches. I do want to date and have sex but no luck

[ValleyofDrakes]

I felt the same way. I just never gave up. Eventually I started getting dates. I just have a lot of patience. I can do anything as long as I get to bitch the whole time.

[poneglyphs]

well, do you have any tips? I been trying dating sites for 2 years on and off?

[ValleyofDrakes]

Don't waste your time on feminists.

[poneglyphs]

so, mostly everyone?

[ValleyofDrakes]

Exactly.

[ValleyofDrakes]

Your job is to find the diamond in the rough.

[ValleyofDrakes]

I'm sorry you're a virgin in 2020. It's not gonna be easy.

[poneglyphs]

Ahh, well that's kinda hard. Also, it's harder to date now with the pandemic.

[ValleyofDrakes]

Yyyyyyeeeeep.

[boredguy01]

Because it's very uncommon to be a virgin after turning 20 unless you're abstinent for religious reasons. Also, a lot of adult virgins are weird and don't have good social skills

[SeanshterMonster]

I have no idea. I think its honestly more respectable to still be a virgin. It just means you aren't tainted by the horrible world we live in yet

[poneglyphs]

Uhh, but we are tainted by other thing's like war, famine, disease

[SeanshterMonster]

True. But but that's just another thing to add onto the pile

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, so how would having sex be tainted?

[SeanshterMonster]

Humans get so addicted to it that it becomes a need, people seek it all the time and even become consumed by it. People break up over it and even fights happen because of either too much or too little or not good enough.

[In_Trance]

100% true. It sends a very definitive message about your self esteem, confidence and lack of empathy and social skills

[atlas1212]

Dont listen to anyone

[Anonymous]

Id want to have sex with an experienced guys more than a virgin guys at the age of 24 of course

[poneglyphs]

Oh, does every wants to have sex with an experienced person. I'm 25 right now and I'm not getting laid or girlfriend this year at all.

[atlas1212]

See perfect you two should definitely get it on