Why do some guy's think that getting an escort will help me stop being a virgin & fix all of my confidence, performance, & dating issues?

Like I know getting an escort I guess will be good for the time being and having sex will feel awesome but it's not going to fix my loneliness, and also I'm just gonna get horny again. So, I would have to pay to have sex with someone 🙄 like will having sex with a "professional" really chnge me or just make me feel worse?
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  • The view of an Escort is too closely mixed to sex.

    a good escort is far more than someone to have sex with.

    A good escort will help school you as to what a girl likes on a date, how to socialise and relax with a girl.

    Who ever those guys are need to grow up and learn what a successful escort provides. If you want sex, get a prostitute.

    if you want to learn and have someone help you gain confidence in talking to a confident girl, get a decent escort.

    a good escort is usually very intelligent, has good life skills, confident and happy to help, as you are paying for her (or his company).

    I have even suggested to a mate to hire a male escort to get a guys point of view on what works etc (talk and not sex).

    Not getting sex is not the problem, not getting regular dates, getting the girls comfortable enough to go further in relationship and potentially sex when BOTH ready.

    • So are you saying that I should consider a good escort? What determines a good one vs bad one's? How much would I have to pay?

    • Referrals is best way. Depending on your friend base, friends of friends that you don’t know also work. It’s mainly a critique you are after and pointers. If you simply want sex, get a prostitute and save cash. Escorts come in various costs, £200 is likely a reasonable non sex amount.

    • Oh, okay I know there is a site where you can get a high class escort fo 500 an hour? So should I check those out?

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  • Don't listen to what others tell you.

    It's your life and body and morals.

    If you really want to have quick sex without attachment, an escort is perfect.

    But if you are looking for something intimate, like a connection, romance etc, an escort can't help you there, or she can only help you to the point where your "wallet" fails to satisfy her.

Most Helpful Girls

  • The men giving you that advice are thinking with their dicks. Zero thought about the big picture. You’ll be horny again in an hour, minus your virginity and your money.

    • Yup, that's why I want a girlfriend or friends with benefits so we can go again and cum inside her too 😉

  • It will do nothing for you except literally take your virginity. Won’t even make you a better lover.

    • I know that's why I hate when people say that? Like I'm still going to be lost, horny, and confused about sex and dating.

    • Exactly. And you’ll be horny again in an hour 😊.

    • Hehe sure I will that defeats the purpose of getting an escort right?

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  • hmmm...

  • Maybe because they don’t want to keep listening to you worry about sex and confidence. So it’s like they are telling you to just pay and get it over with.

    • I don't know probably freaking a-holes

  • It will mean you aren't a virgin anymore, but that's all.

  • I will say losing the v card lifted a weight off my shoulders. It’s certainly couldn’t hurt. So if you’re having trouble talking to ladies, clean the pipes with a legal hooker in Vegas. That may help you not be so over eager when flirting.

  • no one can tell you how you will feel, do what you think is right for you, an escort needs to earn money, so you will be doing her a favor

  • I'm sure it has helped many guys out

    • Yeah but it won't help me out for sure