When adolescents discover masturbation, the last thing they want to do is get caught. And often the times and places where this takes place isn't exactly the ideal situation. Naturally, you try to take care of business asasp! That definitely is the way it begins. From that point it's all about the end result and no thoughts or concerns as to prolonging the process from a young age. That's the foundation. Some build up anxiety about this. They want nothing more than to last longer and satisfy the woman, but get embarrassed when they don't. It can be a major issue that's more psychological than anything. Some guys are more prone to develop this than others. Circumcised vs non can also make a difference. The average time is around 4-7 mins. For some 4mins could seem impossible, others that haven't had many issues in this area probably think about it very little. They don't get overly concerned or have anxiety about the length of time they will last. Definitely something that is easier for some to overcome than others but it can be done.
oh wow !
anyway i was giving this guy a handjob, just a handjob for like not more than 10min anyway he said let me f*** you so he did, and believe it or not, he came like a minute after.. and all i thougth was what the fuck... then he said, you are just too good i couldnt help it.. is that normal? :/
The girl and/or the situation being hot are certainly factors that can make a guy cum too soon. And it happens to everyone once in a while. But over time, most guys learn to read their own bodies and slow down, breathe, and pace themselves in ways that allow them to last until both them and the girl are ready for him to cum. One thing that sometimes helps is if he is in control enough to get close to cumming, and essentially lets a small squirt or drop of cum out. For me that takes off the "hair trigger" but I still stay hard and can fuck as long as we both want. Viagra and similar meds also help, even though they are not designed for that
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They do it because they don't want to ever be fucked again in their life.
When they realize they're not going to get any, they begin to learn.
By the time they reach 40 years of age, if they're getting any they're damned good at it.
They do it because you excite them so much that they lose control. Take it as a compliment, but don't let em leave you hanging.
Work around: a handy or a bj half an hour before the main event can make most guys last a lot longer.
There are a number of factors than can influence how fast a guy goes off.
1=you are indeed sexy, and he is just overcome with desire for you
2-you have a tight pussy
3=he hasn't cum for a few days, and is anxious to release
4=he hasn't learned self control. and just went for the gold
If the guy cums and you need more, then get him up again and have another go.
He will take longer the second time.
it happens to me and I fucking hate it. Not so much for my sake but I just feel like a complete dissapointment to her, I'd rather my girl get off the myself.
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