Why do some guys only want a hook up but not a relationship? Is it because of the girls?

This guy I used to work with said guys will only boo up 10/10 girls and the ones below average they will just use for sex

is this true?

so for example will a girl like this ever be used for sex or will she always be seen as girlfriend material due to her looks?
Will guys always view her as girlfriend material and not a booty call?
Will guys always view her as girlfriend material and not a booty call?
surely guys don’t just go off looks? Surely it’s 50/50.. But I could be wrong
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  • It all depends on the person but if both girls meet the traits they would both be considered relationship material, looks got nothing to do with it

  • Some guys are assholes just wanna bang everything in sight. They do it cause they can (except for the ones who can’t and just wish they could).

  • Sometimes the biggest issue with a girl like that is that every guys wants to hook up with her. A guy might get tired of having his hand stabbed every time he tries to get the last big juicy steak off the plate and may settle for the hamburger on the side.

  • Once you find a real one, a ride or die, a girl who truly down for you, how could a man bust for anything else, that makes your family

  • It's probably because they do not want to commit or be in a serious relationship at the moment.

  • Guys would fuck anyone, except straight men who are homophobic and chase pussy like dogs chase freebies.

    If u want a guy to take a second look, be better than a magazine cutout.

    • Troll 🤡

    • Excuse me?

  • Some people are just sucky in general. But I will tell you that it's more common for a guy to genuinely not know what he wants with the girl and then change his mind after sex, than it is that he intentionally uses her.

  • That's not true. Men are ready to settle for average ones

  • Some people just don’t like being in a relationship including women also. It’s the avoidant attachment type.

  • It's a bit more complicated than that.

    Some guys are like that, others only want hookups, and others won't have casual sex at all and only want commitment, and for all of those, what they consider a 10 will vary.

    I only want a committed relationship, I get nothing out of casual sex because I don't need help reaching an orgasm, I don't want kids, and I don't want stds. And the available forms of protection against those things are garbage in terms of effectiveness.

    Also if the girl in that pic doesn't play the video games I like, she's a 1, not a 10 to me.
    Same goes for a slew of other personality type dealbreakers.

  • Because women think they're being "empowered" by being promiscuous. So they'll sleep with a guy without getting commitment from him first, so he learns that he can just get sex without strings attached. There are guys who use women for sex because these women ALLOW them to.

    • I’ve seen it where they both start off as friends with benefits then it turns into a relationship

  • Definitely not true, people have different attractions and values.

  • Its pretty simple. Guys and girls are programmed differently. Millions of years of evolution have conditioned men to have as many children (sex) as possible. And it has conditioned women to shy a way from high risk one night stands.
    Having contraction for 50 years or so is not going to wind this back

  • You will find all sort of people in this world. Just have to cautious on what you are in to and don’t judge someone and get going with someone in a short time.

  • Cause men don't get anything out of commitment. Girls do.

    • Speak for yourself, I would actually get a lot out of a committed relationship, it's casual sex that has zero value to me.

    • @TheSpaceGnome i speak for most guys. they want companionship and mostly sex. because for for them it's harder to find sex than companionship. for girls it's opposite. that's why guys look more for sex, cause they can get everything else easily. that's mostly young guys.

    • I can easily find women who want sex, its companionship I can't seem to find. If I found it I'd marry it. Finding a person I relate to feels harder than finding a living thylacine.

  • It's because when a guy commits to exclusivity with a girl, he's foregoing his opportunity to have sex with other girls. So he's going to want to pick the most attractive girl he can get. He's going to want to lock her down before another guy does and he loses access to her. However, if looks is the only factor a guy uses to determine commitment, then he's probably not going to be in too many emotionally satisfying relationships.

    • So even an average looking girl is capable of getting into a serious relationship?

    • Yes, of course

  • Yes. If the girl puts out sex then don’t expect the guy to want to give the girl a relationship leading to marriage. If she sleep with him that easy, how many men has she had before?

  • Because girls can be annoying and bothersome. Why not just get the sex and avoid having to hear the bickering and whining. I had a girl once that would just stand around Wildwood playlist baseball game that I was into at the time. Anger you just roll the dice and had a board. But it was pretty complex. She would just stand there and smoke a bowl of weed and talk for literally like 3 hours. I just got to the point where I could take her out like she wasn't there. Eventually I got an EPO on her because I thought she was going to kill me in my sleep. . When she was doing her talk and I was playing the game may have been some of the most peaceful time we had together.

    I found a girl who doesn't do that eventually. Into my early 30s. God set this up. I swear only by fate could we still be alive and still be together. Years of heroin addiction together, and I'm a basket case some of the time because of mental issues. 40% suicide rate of the males on my mom's side of the family. I'm emotional I guess you could call it. But if it wasn't for my wifes stable nature to balance out my unstable one, I would likely prefer to be single. Men do it too though. When I'm talking about the bickering and fussing. I do it more than my wife. I wouldn't want to be with me. Lol

  • Why do girl keeps playing games with us and takes their revenge out on us when we are looking for serious relationships 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • I feel like so many girls have become what I would consider "bottom of the barrel". Girls that you don't want to spend much time around to be honest. They are obnoxious, unapologetic, entitled, crude, indulgent, argumentative, and narcissistic. Seems like the new normal is women tricking a man into impregnating her at 36 right before her fertility runs out and she becomes a shell in society.

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