Why do some guys say "who's your daddy?" when they are fucking you?

I was wondering why some men will say "who's your daddy?" when they are fucking you. Or who's pussy is this? I just don't get it, what's up with that?
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  • It's a dominance thing. Many women love to be dominated, to feel "owned", and to have the guy use her for his pleasure. These girls are very submissive and get very aroused by anything that makes them feel more submissive. They love saying "Oh, fuck me, Daddy!" or "That's YOUR pussy, baby!"

    If you aren't submissive, then it probably does nothing for you, which is totally fine - different stroked for different folks. But understand that many girls really want this stuff.

    • Very well said Mr Oracle. You are right.

  • It's definitely a domination thing, but the daddy part has always seemed really creepy to me. The last thing I want to think about during sex is my parents, and if they guy is trying to imply that he is the girl's father...gross.

    • Thank you, this is exactly how I feel.. complete mood killer. I"m thinking its my pussy.. last time I checked you didn't have one lol and the daddy thing... creepy creepy :s I don't want to remotely be thinking of my dad at that time lol

    • absolutely

    • Whoops, that should be "the guy." I hate typos.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's a matter of dominance. Personally, I hate it and I get turned off by it. Probably because I am more on the dominant side myself. Also, the word "daddy" would remind me of my father and it would ruin the moment for me.

    I'd probably crack up if I heard the phrase "Whose pussy is this?"

  • I love that. Although "who's your daddy" is a little cheesy... some other sexy dirty talk involving daddy is definitely hot though.

  • Sounds it's just a turn-on for them to hear it... or like a control thing maybe? :o)

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  • It flows better than "who's is your dentist "

    Technically, anyone that asks such an odd question in the middle of see has a focus issue...

  • It's a dominant slag saying

  • WHO IS YOUR DADDY AND WHAT DOES HE DO?

  • It’s definitely a Dominance thing. It isn’t for everyone but some people really get into it. If my dom asked me those questions I know exactly what I’d say

  • Like others have said, it's an act of female submission and male dominance. Personally I go crazy for this kinda thing and my girl gets it extra hard and extra rough when she starts calling me papi (she's Hispanic) as I fuck her.

  • Kinda corny, thought that only happened in bad movies.

  • dominance

  • It's sort of like when you ask the quarterback what day it is, after he gets knocked cross-eyed in a sack. He is concerned that he might have caused you to have a concussion or some other trauma that could cause cognitive impairment. He is just being considerate.

    Or he could just be a douche nozzle who thinks acting like the male lead in a low-quality p*rn flick is sexy.

    • Now I'm curious. Who IS your daddy?

  • It is probably due to the guys learning about sex through p*rn instead of a parent that will guide you to the right way to treat a lady.. They will produce more orgasms that way instead of degrading them.. nothing like making her think about somethhing else by asking dumb questions..

  • well, wasnt/isnt your daddy the most dominant male in your life?

    since you women do love to be dominated in bed then we men use that phrase while fucking you ""who's your daddy?"" as a way to express and remind you that we are the once that are dominating you at that moment

  • LOL Guys have said a lot of things to me when we're having sex but none of them have said those things to me.

    • Same here. Thank god

    • :)

    • How about this: Say, I love you Honestly. I will be a friend who is always true. And maybe, "You have a great ass, wife"

  • it means "what are we doing".

  • I don't know. I'm not into that. However,. I've seen a few guys call their partner "momma". I guess some people are into dominance.

    • Eww lol

    • lol

  • Hi please help me maybe I'm. old skul or what. My boyfriend during sex likes to ask who's your daddy and I always ignore him because I be like what to say whether should I say his name or says its u my love I dont knw please guys tell me how should I respond to this.

  • What MrOracle said. I've always been surprised at how many of the women I've been with have loved that sort of thing. Nothing wrong with it, just interesting.

    • I highly doubt you've ever had a woman.

    • You'd be shocked how many women I've "had". Nice try though...

    • Lol you have me blocked but I can still comment. Thanks for the downvote loser.

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  • Their messed up

  • It's a domination thing. I don't understand the daddy thing. If a guy ever asked me that I'd say, "Edward." lol