Guys, Why do some guys try to pick and choose when he wears a condom?

Is it a control thing?
He wore a condom before but now he's acting sloppy.
When you ask him to wear one he doesn't want to and makes excuses.
Even though he knows you're not on contraception.
And vice versa when you tell him to take it off he insists on wearing it.
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  • Not a control thing. For one, it feels better without a condom (especially for bigger penises that they don't make all of those special condoms for, seriously regular trojan have like 20 versions all for increasing pleasure and trojan magnum xl don't have any options other than basic). And once he has it on it is probably laziness, unless he actually has concern about it (in which case he would never do it without).

    • You do realize you're supposed to use lube in and on the outside of the condom right, which gives a more pleasurable experience?

    • Most condoms come pre-lubed, but I have done that as well since it helps squeeze into the tight space. lol It doesn't make that much difference in sensation actually (in my experience) as long as the woman is properly turned on.

    • Fair enough, maybe lay off the tight grip for a while and use lube whilst self pleasuring. It helped an ex. Could help you, but I don't have a penis so what do I know

  • That's an especially irrational idiot you found there. Confront him about that nonsense!

    • I'm not the only one, a couple of my friends have experienced this at different times different guys. It doesn't make sense what's the motive. And talking leads to an argument or tantrum

    • I couldn't imagine that this was common... But than again, making a tantrum about something that should give pleasure to both of you is so immature that I can't come up with any advise for you, sorry...

    • Thank you for considering it and answering :-)

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  • If need for condom be used, then is not negotiable.

  • I have never wore a condom in my life, i tried once and i'm pretty sure i done it wrong because it wouldn't fit.. so i guess maybe thats why i dont use them 🤔

  • They think they can get away with it.

    Guys, Why do some guys try to pick and choose when he wears a condom?
  • Bc we lazy after the first time sorry lilyanony lol

    • Lazy= no sex

    • Not really mean I after the first time we kind stop trying , sorry

  • No clue but ultimately it's your choice on what he does because you can always say no sex unless you wear it

  • He's tryinf to lpck u down... run

  • Well it depends but I think the best moment is when girl wear condom on boy's dick

  • Never wear one

  • Honestly, sex feels a lot better without them

  • Sex feels better without one. If he won't wear one though and your not on contraceptives a conversation is needed ASAP

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