Why do some men close their eyes during sex and oral sex?

Aren't most men visual? I like to be watched but my partner always has his eyes closed. What's up with that? lol
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  • Either he is fantasizing or just enjoying himself... plus I sometimes find it alittle awkward to just watch

  • We are indeed visual but the sensations can be so intense that we need to close our eyes to process.

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  • Perhaps because most guys don't know where to look because they're used to looking but trying to not let it show.

  • It's for the same reason you close your eyes when making out. It's the same reason you sometimes close your eyes when you feel strong pain. It's something built into our neurology that's designed to block out irrelevant competing sensory data.

  • Sometimes is better not to what that hot girl with who you are doing it and think at bugs or any turn off so you don't just blow your load too fast :)

  • I'm just trying to learn how to do it lol

    • lol well not to toot my own horn but I know I'm good at it. I just like to be watched. Its all about learning what your partner likes. Different men like it different ways!!

    • Tell me how to be good at it

    • lol the only thing that I can tell is the sloppier, the better. You still have to take time to learn what your partner likes. Its different with different men so you have to explore your partner's body and try different thing. Mine likes it best when I suck the head and jack him off at the same time. I just make sure that his dick is already super wet while doing it. That's just him, though. Once again, all men don't like it that way. Maybe you should ask your partner what he likes. It's really all about being confident. You can't be shy. Just go for it!!

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  • When you close your eyes it's easier to concentrate on what you're doing. During oral, eyes won't help you navigate down there.

    • That's understandable. I know he enjoys it, but I want to make it more exciting. Should I maybe talk to him dirty while I'm doing it? He won't look so I need him to talk to me or something lol

    • Maybe run your hands through his hair? I like it when girls do that. But you don't have to entertain him when he's down there. I'm sure as long as you're giving him the signals that you're feeling good, he's happy.

    • lol I was actually talking about when I'm doing him. Everything is perfect when he does me because I'm very loud and talkative. I just want him to be as talkative and loud as me I guess. I just like feedback. The more he's enjoying it, the more I enjoy it!!

  • He's in fantasy city... enjoying the ride... sometimes I'm actually imagining another chick doing it with just the right outfit on!!!

    • lol so even if its your partner doing it, you're imagining someone else? lol WOW!!