Why do Some men invade my Personal Space?

[Anonymous]

I noticed this especially at work when a few Male coworkers would stand Next to me or behind me and Lean in so Close To me that their head was almost rested on my shoulder and our faces almost touched While we were Looking at the Screen.

This happened when we were Alone but also in Front of other coworkers. Some men lean their knee against mine and don’t move away Even when there is Plenty of Space when we Are Sitting and Talking about work.

My question is:
Are men aware they Are invading my Space? If so, why do they do it? Are they just horny? Does it indicate Attraktion? Or do they just Want to seem More dominant Because they don’t like me?

[nolabels]

I've found that the mannerisms and/or body language of any particular lady can elicit different behaviors on my part, up to and including those of which you speak.

Yeah, those encounters have been hot, and I've tried to "read the room" as they say, to determine if my reactions were warranted.

I hope that I've never over-stepped. I don't believe that I have.

I'm a human male, subject to all that entails, evolution and sophistication notwithstanding.

I'm sorry that you've felt that your personal space has been invaded. I believe that I'd be able to accurately "read the room" in any case.

I feel that my personal space is invaded every time I'm in line for something. It is not a good feeling.

[MementoMori777]

I don't know but I didn't know dudes did this cause from the sounds of it, it seems common in your life, maybe they just being weird and are smelling you? Can't say I really know the answer to this 😆

[Asker]

Would you Really sit cheek to cheek (Face) to a Woman you don’t find cute just Because she wears a nice fragrance?

[MementoMori777]

I wouldn't invade a woman's personal space period, that's simple cause I have manners and respect, these dudes just wildin tbh

[jorfan3]

I kinda had this issue at work too. I was dating someone and told the guys not to touch me. They insisted on poking me with objects like brooms or kidding around like they were gonna poke me.

It sounds like they like to be near you and are trying to be close to you. Does it bother you?

[Asker]

Im just trying to Unterstand. I think think invading Space in this way is a Bold move and i would only Do it to men i Really like and know well. The coworkers who did this to me don’t Show any interest in me and ignore me Most of the Time which is why i can't Interpret their behaviour at all

[jorfan3]

Do they go out of their way to actually touch you?

[Asker]

Except for the knee they Sometimes pat me on the Arm or shoulder but very slightly and it happens Rarely

[jorfan3]

It could be innocent. It could be a subconscious attraction.

[Asker]

Subconscious Attraktion Because in Not pretty enough? :D :/

[jorfan3]

Stop beating yourself down! -pulls out stick-

[jorfan3]

WHACK!

[Anonymous]

Same thing here it is wired and i can't explain it either

[Asker]

Do they Flirt with you?

[Opinion Owner]

No nothing it's professional

[Asker]

Do they flirt with other female coworkers tho?

[Opinion Owner]

Nop just me and i have this problem with one coworker he likes to stand so so close sometimes i can feel him sniffe me it's so wired and confusing

[Asker]

Maybe they do like you

[Opinion Owner]

He's married 😌

[Asker]

That does not mean much to men unfortunately

[Opinion Owner]

Lol he's hot i dont mind it but it's still super wired and if you feel uncomfortable you should just say something or just move away you don't have to do something you don't like honey

[TheThingALing]

Because you don't make it clear apparently that they are crossing the line. That it happened once is a testament to how you carry yourself at work. That it's happened more than once is because you allow it

[shades777]

they like your perfume

[brandon1122]

They are horny and want you in bed

[Asker]

They don’t find me cute Tho, am i Right?

[brandon1122]

I don't know I don't know them, I don't know you. But from your post all I can say is they want sex

[Asker]

Yes but would you Want to have Sex with an unattraktive Woman if you were horny enough?

[brandon1122]

I won't have sex with anyone just cause I'm horny. But yes, most guys will

[nudeNhorny]

most likely horny, depraved and eager for some physical contact with a female, it sounds pathetic, but men are like that.

[Asker]

Nice. So apparently no guy Really Finds me attraktive Because this is the only Type of attention and receive

[nudeNhorny]

no I didn't say that no guy would find you attractive 😅, I'm just saying that guys would do that with any girl they might be working with whether she was attractive or not.

[Asker]

Yes that was my conclusion Because i Never receive any other Kind of attention from men

[nudeNhorny]

usually men hesitate on making moves when they fear that the woman might not appreciate such a move, so have you been showing signs of hostility?

[Asker]

No Never

[nudeNhorny]

men can be intimated sometimes if the woman is attractive, successful and have a strong personality.

[Asker]

Well Thats Not my Observation Because I See the Most unattraktive men Flirt with very intelligent accomplished beautiful women all the Time :D

[nudeNhorny]

well I'm out of excuses then 😂

[TheMrRobot]

It's just the sexual desire they feel towards you. I can bet they are horny and they want you.

[Asker]

So they could find me unattraktive and still Want Sex with me?

[TheMrRobot]

No... They definitely find you attractive that's why they want this close proximity thing where they can feel your heart or smell your scent. You must be sexy! I can imagine ;)

[TheMrRobot]

Heat*

[Anonymous]

Maybe you look hungry?

[Asker]

What does that have to do with anything?

[Opinion Owner]

Nothing at all.