Why do some men say a man with a small dick will have a hard time having sex with a girl with a bigger butt? So do men with small dicks prefer flat?

So do men with small dicks prefer having sex with girls with small to flat butts? I'm not talking about fat women I'm talking about curvy women with big butts. I don't understand what a big butt has to do with vaginal sex i don't see the correlation
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  • LMAO, it's because if ___ has a 3-4-inch dick when mixed with an ass that is about 2-3 inches deep that doesn't leave him a lot of room for variety now does it? Ya know when it comes to the possible ways that he could have sex with ___, right?

    Naw he's only going to be able to do a couple of positions + depending on how her ass sits up he may have to fuck around and arch his back on top of "hit it" at an upwards angle all day in doggy style. Which can/will be tiresome for them depending on their heights/weights etc. Heck 1 of the 2 of them are going to have to hold her butt cheeks apart also which would also get annoying.

    So that's why right there + I've had plenty of friends who were girls say "I couldn't even feel him inside me" I wonder why? Oh yeah it's because only 2 inches could go in out of 5 total LOL

    Now when you get a "petite" girl all of those problems go away for ___. Since there's no excess fat right there, right? Which allows for __ to use next to his whole dick on her. He'll also be able to do more position since he'll have a line drive shot at her "pussy" + have better strokes etc

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    • This is about vaginal sex

    • Now this depends on how thick she is in relation to the size of his D. Cuz a lot of my thick friends have said that little dick guys couldn't "hit it" right because of their lack of size... ya know when compared to a guy packing a 6-7 incher ^_^ Unless you're into that Japanese fast - short stroke shit LOL

    • Don't guys get grossed out doing a girl with a flat ass doggystyle because they can see her butthole

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  • So, some women I know were just discussing this a couple of weeks ago. And, yes, depending on the size of a girl's butt, and thighs, and how her overall body shape is, it's very possible for her butt (or butt and thighs) to stick out so much farther from her body than her vagina that a guy with a 5" dick wouldn't be able to penetrate her - unless perhaps she was pulling herself open, but that's usually not a sustainable position.

    This could be possible even if the woman in question had a thin waist - if her butt and/or thighs were really big, then they could block her holes enough that you'd need to be pretty long to reach them, much less penetrate them.

    Not many girls in their late teens/20s have butts or thighs this big, but people tend to get heavier as they get older, and many women in their 30s have this problem with smaller guys. Or, at least, that's what these women were talking about, and it makes perfect sense.

    • Well there are women who have thick thighs and a flat butt

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  • It would only be a problem with doggy style, which I guess is the only way guys know how to fuck?
    Regular missionary would be easy, girl on top might be difficult since the girl won't have much to bounce on and wouldn't be able to go too high

    • Girls who have really thick thighs often can't do missionary - they can't spread their legs wide enough for the guy to get between them and get to her pussy. She can do Deck Chair (aka missionary with her legs on his shoulders or knees way back), but may have trouble staying in that position for very long.

  • I'm with you.. I always thought of it like the butt would push up the vag (like putting a pillow under the butt) to give a natural lift for easier access...

    • @trainwreckadvice... I think they mean more doggy style. A shorter dick needs more length to get paste the cheeks. Missionary could be difficult because a girl with a fatter butt usually has fatter thighs too. A longer penis would be better here as well.

    • Oh oops lol. I didn't even think of it that way..

    • @trainwreckadvice... Do you have a big butt? Have you ever been with or does your current man have a small dick?

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  • I have a big butt and it doesn't affect any position I do with my boyfriend

    • I have a big butt too and I never had this problem

  • Butts can make a difference, more cushion for the pushin

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  • I never had sex with fat women, or how you call it, curvy with big butts so I have no idea. But I could imagine the ass getting in the way of having good sex. I think even thick thighs could get in the way of having sex. But I have never heard the saying either.

    • I never said fat women you need to learn to read

    • I did not say you said fat. I said fat. Because what is curvy with big butt for you is fat for me.

    • There is a difference between a huge and bigger butt Minka Kelly has a big butt and she's not fat

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  • From what I heard, this may only be half true. While I have heard stories (true or made up, perhaps a mix of both, I don't know) about men of average size or smaller having trouble penetrating big butted women from behind, I've heard other stories about men of average size or smaller successfully doing it without any problems. If a man (regardless of his size) has trouble penetrating a thicker woman from behind, I think it might be because one or both of them isn't positioned right. In doggystyle, the woman has to arch her back (often times resting on her elbows with her legs spread out too) so that her booty is lifted up, the cheeks are spread apart, and her vagina is more open and accessible. Similarly, in prone position, the woman has to have her hips raised (not necessarily planking, but in a way that her booty is arched) so that the man can get in. I really hope this is true. If BPEL counts as true length, I am around 6.75 inches (significantly above average length, but just below 7 inches), and I really want to do prone bone on a thick chick cause it looks like it would feel so good with all that extra booty cushion added to vaginal penetration ^_^

  • I see no correlation either and I've never heard this saying.

    • It's not a saying

    • If some men say it, then it's a saying. Maybe not a popular saying, but a saying nonetheless. My mother used to say, "a stitch in time saves nine." Not everyone says it, but it's still a saying.

    • Well maybe you never heard of it because you do not get lots of sex

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  • ummm I've never heard that cause only guys with small dicks say that.

  • In doggy style, the guy's penis must reach the depth of her ass crack before it actually enters her. If her ass is big, and her ass crack is deep, then there might not be much left to enter.

  • I guess it depends on the size of the guy, how he would see it happening.

  • I don't like bigger women. I am small down there and smaller women are better fo e sexually

  • I think i'm average size and I love a girl with a thick ass. I don't think it matters

  • I have a small penis So I can speak from experience. Just can't get it in doggy style if you have a big butt

  • They do? I've never heard any guy say that. Anyway though, I don't prefer bigger butts, it's just not my thing

  • Butts have nothing to do with it!