Why do some men, with high "body counts" only want women with low body counts?

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  • Hypocrisy/ double standards

    you’ll have the guys that will say it’s not in a man’s nature to be monogamous or it’s in men’s nature to procreate (yet those same guys will try to force their partner into an abortion🙄)

    but it’s simply just hypocrisy and double standards…

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  • There’s only one practical answer to that. They’re hypocrites and insecure misogynists. They apply moral standards to women that they don’t apply to themselves. Guys like that aren’t worth your time. You will never be judged equally and that misogyny will manifest itself in other ways in the relationship, mark my words. When they start hounding you for a body count, which I never reveal because it’s none of their business, it’s time to check out.

    • Normally when girls get flaky on that question thats a sign they are only for the sexzone

    • @cjmtherfcker yup… over used and expired always get triggered by this

    • Yet you two brainiacs were triggered enough to attack me for speaking an uncomfortable truth. I was expecting it. Your insecurities are showing and proving my point. Lol Next I’ll be called a whore or a cunt to sooth your bruised egos. The funniest part is my body count is probably lower than both of you clowns.

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  • Men’s body counts are irrelevant.

    Men don’t get mentally invested through sex. Women do (regardless of what they claim). Oxytocin is released during foreplay/sex/orgasm and estrogen enhances its affects

    • So men are insecure?

    • Nice try. Your shaming tactics only show that women like yourself can not except responsibility for their poor choices. the more “attachment” you have, the more mental baggage you bring to the table.

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  • is that true or did that happen to you.. I dont look at body count at all ever.. she is a mystery to me and that is all that matters is that I like her..

    • I didn't say you did it. I said some men. No it doesn't happen to me since I happen to have a low body count.

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  • Because the rightly realize that a slut has no value as a partner, and women let them get away with it. If women started treating male sluts the way that male sluts treat female sluts, our society would be in much better shape.

    • Men have a biological reason to devalue promiscuous women vs. Chaste women. Shame will never fix that

    • So do women. A manwhore will always be a vastly inferior spouse and father. And shaming clearly does work.

    • Literally has no effect on a mans ability to protect/provide for a woman and her kids.

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  • No idea, I want a woman with a zero body count, but I'm a virgin too soo.. yeah..

  • Its Biological

    • I prefer a man with a low body count as well... does that make me a man biologically. No. But my body count is not high... so it doesn't make me a hypocrite either. Hypocrisy can't be blamed on "oh I did it because I'm a man/woman"

    • Its a biological double standard. Men can't commit praternity fraud. So women care more about Resources, and Swag/Confidence as a signal that man can protect and take care of her and her kids. Men look for low body count as a signal she will give him kids with his DNA. We seek opposite things from each other. Its ok

    • I just said I actually would prefer a man with a low body count. So that is not opposite. And a low body count does not mean she won't cheat. Promiscuous doesn't equal untrustworthy.

  • Because they are worried about penis size. It makes no sense, because it is what it is. I talked to a young guy who wants to marry a woman who's fucked a thousand guys. He said he doesn't want a wife that wonders if the grass is greener.

    • @cjmtherfcker What?

    • @cjmtherfcker And my comment was correct.

    • How? you said it was about dick size. When its actually a biological response to defeat paternity fraud?

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  • They would prefer to avoid an STD

    • If they would prefer to avoid an STD why do they have a high body count then?

    • Because they wanted to have lots of sex at one point in their lives. Usually when they are younger and not ready to settle down

    • But if women do the same those same guys who had "lots of sex" in their youth reject them?

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  • Because they may be hypocritical but they're still rational. Honestly I don't blame them.

  • First off I don't care with body count it was all in the past and I don't care if she has low or high body count. As long it's currently one and it's with me is fine.

    • I didn't say that you care. I said that there are a some men that do and that those are hypocrites

  • Insecurity / lack of self confidence I would guess. They don’t want to be compared to others or they are just jealous individuals.

  • You like what you like

  • "Body counts" are stupid. SO what if someone was more active than you were or were not.

  • A personal body count does not determine the desired body count of people you are looking for - even though women apparently think it should. That said - EVERYONE lies about body counts.

    • So in summery, all whores are untrustworthy liars. Thanks for pointing that out

    • @LazerBean On this particular topic, probably so. Probably not in everything. Also - asking about a person's body count is actually VERY intrusive and doesn't deserve an answer at all.

    • It's only intrusive for whores. Virgins who want virgins deserve to know and are proud to answer.

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  • Their hypocrites. They don’t live by the same standards they set for other people

  • So they can 'impress them'

  • I want woman with high body count

  • There Is a saying that goes "A key that opens many locks is a master key, a lock that opens with any key is a terrible lock". It's the fact that women ultimately decide if the sex happens.

    • I dont think that's what the saying means. It's just hypocrisy explained in a way that makes it seem smart and it really can't be applied to real life.

    • Ok let's put it this way. If you are an employer, which would you think would be a better investment? Hiring someone who has had very few jobs but lasted several years at each or someone who had ten times as many jobs and each lasted a couple months at most?

    • Metaphors aren't going to make the real thing less hypocritical. We are not talking about a job or a key.

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  • because they're hypocritical manwhores

  • A man is a key and a woman is a lock. A key that opens many different locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many different keys is a shitty lock.

    • That's a beautiful way of trying to talk your way out of blatant hypocrisy.

  • The real question is, why do women have such low standards on this issue? Women should raise their standards instead of expecting men to lower theirs..

    • No. Men like this are hypocrites. A person can only expect others to follow a standard that they themselves follow.

    • So men should be looking for masculinity and women should be looking for femininity?

    • @cjmtherfcker No what are you talking about? Standards don't have a sex. If you judge someone you can not bear the same trait that you judge them about.

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  • Men are territorial and no man who wants to make commitment wants to picture his girlfriend being banged by other guys and having them cum on her body maybe even face. Men want to think of his girl as only his. by the way, i am low body count and don't do hookups or friends with benefits so I'd want a girl the same.

    • Women are territorial as well though...