Most cultures and religions respect virginity because of many social and emotional matters. Anything first time is exciting, and sex is not different, but for me and my husband sex is always exciting and pleasant. We both were virgin till marriage. Having sex for the first time can be a pretty big deal — and while losing virginity may be the subject of a lot of excitement for all girls and guys mostly because it is hard to imagine what sex will actually be like when it happens beyond what they may have learned in sex education class or from friends. “Virginity” is a concept created to talk about never having had sex, for most people, the idea of virginity is tied to penis-in-vagina intercourse and for some engaging in other types of sex including oral sex is also equal to losing virginity. The concept of virginity is a social construct. It is not a medical condition, or anything. It is often used by society as a measure of someone’s worth or virtue. “Losing” virginity implies it is something taken or missed.
First time sex is different for everyone, because sex can mean so many different things. some people feel mild soreness after their first time, some might experience bleeding, some may notice more emotional changes rather than physical and they may feel closer to their partner, or more grown up.
One thing to be aware of is that losing virginity may introduce a new dynamic into relationship. You will have to work out things like; will you always do it now? Will you do it every time you are together, or was it a one-time thing?
First time is different for everyone, and many do not experience a first-time orgasm. Having sex first time, can lead to sexually transmitted infections too. When it comes to losing virginity, there are plenty things to talk about. You probably will not orgasm at the same time as your partner, or experience a first-time orgasm at all. Many feel embarrassed about not finishing at the same time as her boyfriend. Movies, Medias and books made most girls think her sheets would look like the scene of a horror film afterwards, but many do not bleed at all. For many, sex does not feel super emotional as described in literature or built-up magical moment with someone they are deeply in love with. Sex did not feel good/amazing/life-changing the first, second, or even fifth time, it may took several times before it started to feel something remotely enjoyable. You both may have major performance anxiety initially.
Having sex actually brings you closer together as a couple to share an intimate moments, even if neither one of you had experienced before. Be in a committed relationship, and understand what real love should feel like.
It depends on how you were raised. Virginity aside, I try not to look down on anyone’s views. They usually have a good reason for having them, and a lifetime experience with them. I do tip my hat to those who choose to open their eyes and see outside their boxes. Not everyone is going to do that, that’s ok too.
It doesn't make it break you as a person, but it makes or breaks your social status. And in the kinda society we live in that's accounts to a lot. Especially in dating look at the men that get the mist attention, look at the men we are told are most successful and taught to be like. They are usually guys with a lot of money who have multiple woman that want them. Men are taught the more woman you have the more desirable you are. Woman respond to it the same, ever notice you get more attention from woman when your taken or when they see other woman that want you. It's because if those girls want you then you must offer something of great value and they wanna find out what that is. Or even just brag that they fucked a guy that everyone else wanted but couldn't get. There's a lot of subtle psychology that goes into human interaction, that when said our loud sounds crazy but it's so subtle we hardly notice but we do do a lot of these things.
Well obviously men and women are perceived and looked at differently this regard, if a woman is a virgin passed a certain age, she is seen as a prude or asexual, or lesbian, or just someone who doesn't like sex, for a guy however, he is seen or labeled as being socially awkward or socially inept, socially retarded, a guy who lacks "game".
There's a reason why men are praised and held in high regard for being able to attract women a lot more than compared to women being able to attract men, probably because it is seen and viewed as men doing the effort to attract a mate, that men are the ones who work to attract a sexual partner but not the other way around.
That's probably why men get praised for this
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Yeah, people are too preoccupied with it.
I don't think it's that sacred.
nr much manhood
It is pretty ridiculous considering it really isn’t anyone’s business.
I know, right? It's a big deal to a lot of people. They think that having sex makes someone better.
I wonder if sex is the most important thing in life for them. It sounds like it is.
Being a virgin is definitely UNDERrated these days. It’s a wonderful thing, but it seems to not really be appreciated in society.
Why is it powerful? It's good for nothing
Its a dumb holdover from outdated religious values. Being a virgin is some sign of being pure and special, and you should only give it up to the one true special person that truly means something to you.
Its all so stupid and everyone should lose it to someone experience that will help you truly enjoy your first time as soon as possible! Sex is literally the best thing in the whole world and there's no reason to torture yourself with not going for it!
Except for your first sentence, I agree.
The loss itself simply happens. What you do to secure it, however, forever influences and shapes your attitude about your fellow humanity. And your partner's. And if it leads to betrayal later on, sex always makes the betrayal worse
Don't fool yourself. You dodged a bullet 8 times. Number 9 could be your Russian roulette luck run out.
Hopefully as they mature into young adults, they will grow out of this immature behavior, we hope.
In my culture people will shame the hell out of someone if they’re NOT a virgin by character assassination. Kinda glad I’m from this culture sometimes. It means we don’t compromise ourselves to the devil over these type of nonsensical comments from losers.
Well when you’re a girl your first time is supposed to be a big deal I don’t care if you think it’s “Christian brainwashing”
It's Christian brainwashing
Because they want to experience the sexual desire or feeling if wanting to lose it then when they lose it they may regret it being taken away side note
Lol it’s really pathetic like let the kid enjoy is life
exactly
I agree
Very stupid people for wanting to lose it
I just don't want a virgin guy now
A few people said I “look like a virgin”. What does that even mean? 🤨
The reason is that people place too great emphasis on the having of sex.
Because it has to do with virtue.
Sounds like you’re offended
I never looked at it as much of a big deal… *shrugs*
Because someone can only find self worth in the amount of pussy/dick they've gotten
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