Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Why do some people put a stigma on premarital sex?
Anonymous
2 4
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Related Questions
Latest Questions
What’s your favorite part about going down on women?
Higher levels of dopamine and testosterone by 0.3% population? Is abnormal sex mania a good thing if there is self control and discipline?
I have been questioning my sexuality lately, Am I Bisexual?
Guys, does it bother you if your girlfriend uses a vibrator or dildo?
What Girls & Guys Said
19 54Because their religion disagrees with it so they want to impose it on others is often the case.
They don't. Everybody does it. It's like a test-drive.
If you get the sexual compatibility thing wrong you sign yourself up for a lifetime of frustration and disappointment.
Choose wisely, treat kindly. __Dr. Laura
Dr Laura would never encourage test drives. Real intimacy involves passion and emotions coupled with sex.
@joesheks - So then, what's your point? You have to be married to experience 'passion and emotions'? Methinks you don't know what you're talking about.
Sex outside of marriage is great for men, but leaves women feeling used and abused. I know more than you do obviously
@joesheks - More like I forgot more than you know. You're like a beginner, a noob, a greenhorn. And instead of coming here to learn something, you spout off. I guess ya just can't fix stupid. You really are clueless.
For god's sakes...27 or 12? You act like you're a teenybopper.
I sure as hell don’t.
I don’t know about some people but I do know God does.
“Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.”
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
Says there fornicators won’t Inherit the kingdom of God. Meaning those who die in their sins and have made that a lifestyle choice from which they never repent won’t see heaven. All sins are forgivable by God except for blasphemy of the Holy Spirit and very likely taking the mark of the beast but there is no forgiveness for those who sin willfully without repenting.
Would you buy a car without a test drive and how long do u plan on being mairried you only keep a car for maybe 10 years
I know your too young, but by that analogy yo will be never in a relationship more than 10 years human beings are more complex than cars and you cannot change the person if you truly love them no matter how flawed they are
Stigma? It's not God's way of doing things.
because some people still take the bible litterally.
You are never wrong if you side with God as His way is the only one that counts on Judgement Day.
@Daniela1982 well except if you sided with the wrong god. cause most of the gods will put you in their hell, if you don't follow them, so you're fucked with pretty much everyone you follow anyway unless you got incredibly lucky and pulled the golden ticket xD that's why i decided to not even get started with that nonsense.
Yep, if you make the wrong choice you are toast. That is why you should consider all of the religions and compare. Some, like Mormons, believe they will become a god some day and some religions in many gods. I guess it goes back to the Tower of Babel where everyone who were once united went their separate ways with their separate beliefs.
@Daniela1982 well if you "compare" then by what "measure" do you determine which one of them is right? i would say you are already god, just like me and everyone else, cause the human brain has the immense power of taking an introspecitve postition and then assigning tratis to that introspective position. by assigning superior traits you get a psychological observer that looks at you from a perspective that is better than you. humans have developed that trait to improve and survive. Sigmund freud calls this the superego but as it seems to be "not you", people who didn't know much about psychology in the past assumed that this must be a connected consciousness, cause this "higher order consciousness" seemed to make similar judgements across different people, leading them to the assumption that it must be something external. something that is somehow connected. but we know it isn't. it is just similar across people in the same culture, as those share similar experiences. it has proven to not be the same interculturally, allthough even there are some constants. so you see in some sense you are god and in this case "god" can be improved by improving yourself. but how do you determine the quality of those gods that are claimed to exist by different scriptures?
I get the feeling, that they convinced themselves for the sake of the comfort of believing it rather than doing some fact checking. Say like they're taking into account 1 to 10 failed cases of 100 cases, they completely ignore the 90 normal and harmless cases. And normal people usually don't talk about how great their sex business is.
ignorance is a bliss we say.
Uh... well most people don't, I would say, but the ones who do, well... no guy wants a chick who's been run through by a bunch of guys before him. I don't know about a stigma regarding guys.
Because they’re guilt tripped by some religions
Religious stigmas or pride or a convoluted mix of the two
Indoctrination.
That stigma is fading.
Because its morally wrong.
Not sure how people have decided that one was right and one was wrong.
Because a book about an invisible magic man told them so. 🤷♂️
Well fuck that 😆
@TacocaT6969 lol. Magic man. It's just traditional.
Ya who's tradition, did the Greeks approve of this? Nah they were busy loving those orgies
An outdated tradition that will die very soon.
@Stonernights it was a tradition of loyalty and respect.
Is that something natural or something that was taught throughout the years. Because most animals on earth aren't concerned about that.
No I still firmly believe that premartial sex is immuloral. It's not about the act it's about the considcinses of that action. Like bringing a child into the world before your ready. It's not dumb or old fashioned it's a way of respecting procreation and teaching slef disapline.
I'm bored so I'm going to share some lewd thing I've done.1. In high school I sold my panties2. Once in high school I went to a party and my friends little brother fell asleep and I was dared to touch his dick3. I've been to a glory hole 3 times and sucked 7 cocks4. I've flashed, got naked and master bated in public a lot5. My ex loved to pee on things I owned
Belief.
Bitterness.
Envy.
Resentment.
Ideology.
Prude.
Fitt in.
Religion.
Culture.
Why do people glorify it?
Their faith.
Religion, or it's what their parents believed. I'm sad to see the stigma go, tbh.