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  • Here's the thing dude, so many of you get all moody and disconsolate when confronted with the idea that you're not fantastic lovers that it's just easier to let you think that you are and pull the toys out when you're gone.

    Is it fucking stupid? Yes. Of course it is. I can't imagine doing it, personally. Regardless, many women have been successfully programmed to appeal to and appease the male ego, and it is those women who will fake orgasm.

    • Why did you go anon? I know exactly who this is lol

  • Because they can’t finish and I’d bet it would be embarrassing to ask the guy “hey I didn’t finish”.

    • Exactly

    • Correct me if I'm wrong, but you would rather continue to fake orgasms instead of fixing the problem?

    • It’s awkward as hell to fix the problem Lmaoo

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  • A lot of literature on women's sexuality is directly relating it to how positively the woman is received by the man. Meaning that most women grow up primed to believe that being desired by men is good. That a guy exhibiting a positive reaction to you in bed is good, even if it's as a reaction to thinking the woman is enjoying herself.

    I've never faked an orgasm but I have been told/read plenty of times that it's impossible for women to cum from PIV, as well as that a guy going down on me should be like.. a super special treat. That it's 'disgusting' for most guys so if I'm with someone who's willing to go that extra mile, I should enjoy it.

    Naturally, it's not hard to imagine that most women would combine those two points ('I must feel desirable to the guy and also come off as a total sex panther to achieve that' + '... what a gem. I better make it obvious that he's a total wizard in the oral department') and feel like it's almost necessary to orgasm. Even if the orgasm is faked, many view that as preferable to feeling undesired and.:. a failure.

    • The idea that women do it to avoid feeling like a failure *themselves* is probably the most insightful thing I’ve ever read on the subject. Thanks for this.

    • Fuuck I forgot to give this MHO

  • Several reasons they we would fake orgasms: One would be that guy is so bad at sex and girl is so bored she wants it over with.
    Another would be a girl who really cares about her lover, but he is not great at figuring out how to get her off so she fakes it to make him think he is better than he really is. This girl should be slapped for not having the guts to teach her guy how to have sex with her properly and get real orgasm results.
    Another would be girl just doesn't want to have sex at that moment but partner does and persists so she soon fakes the orgasm to get it over with.

  • To keep your ego intact

  • They do it to boost the guys ego. Thats my best guess. I personally have never faked one. I'm too much of a bitch I'd tell it straight to my husbands face If i didn't cum but usually he can already tell from the immediate crying after sex that I didn't cum.😂😂

    • Just sit on my face already

    • I forgot the sister part

    • Hmm fuck it why not, get that cute face over here😘

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  • Because most woman don't even have orgasms from intercourse and men don't really 'get that' because you barely look at a penis and it cums... So its easier to fake it, partly for the guys sake, because he's done in like 5 minutes.

  • It's a participation trophy. "You tried."

  • Because many guys can't get a women to that point

    • How are they ever suppose to get someone to that point when their being lied to?

    • You would be surprised how many guy don't care to make a girl finish

  • To please the guy

  • No idea. It's a really stupid concept.

  • To make the guy feel better but I never did that, if its bad its bad I won't fake it

  • Because they want the damn thing to be over already.

    • Update: Thank you for sharing my post, lad.

    • Welcome

  • Honestly, the only time I fake it is when I know that I’m not going to get there no matter what he does. Yes, there are times that it just isn’t going to happen.

  • Sometimes you don’t need to finish but some kinds will try to keep going so it lets the guy know it is okay for him to finish lol

  • Guys who don't love them enough don't inspire them. Some of it is about (lack of) attraction.

  • To get it over and done with...

  • It's easier than continuing to let the guy try, when you know it won't work

  • They just do

  • Don't worry you are not alone

  • They don't want to upset the man and make him feel he pleasured her.

  • Cause they see there's no way they will cum and wanna be done so they finish themselves (some)
    But how do you guys don't know when they do fake? Cause when we do cum , there are some contractions happening, and in some girls you can really see and feel that and even those who don't visibly twitch, you can still should feel her body and facial expressions... it's obvious when it's fake. Also , you feel a lot more wet... at least one of these. We're not such great actresses, I don't think a lot of men care to... for example finger/lick /suck make her cum and look at her pussy while she's cumming, learn what we like , it's not rocket science.

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