Why do submissive men prefer giving oral more than receiving it if giving oral is a dominant act?

I have ready many cucks', male subs' and self hating men's opinions on what they like in bed. All of them said their biggest turn on is eating women out and how it is the meaning of their lives. They also said they won't let women give them oral as they should be the ones worshipping them.

That's so pathetic and weak of men. Lol

Do you think these men are extremely dominant as they only perform a dominant act aka give oral sex? To me giving it is submissive by the way

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  • While I lean towards the sub end of the spectrum I don't see any act as inherently submissive. It depends on how the relationship works.

    My ex was very dominant and loved to tie me up and spend time going down on me to edge me for hours - literally not figuratively - to drive me crazy. She basically weaponised fellatio to the point where I was actually scared!

    I loved going down on her, but she wasn't into it so it was an exception when she let me.

    • Sounds like rape

    • No, I definitely consented!

    • You didn't tell her to stop?

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  • If a woman asks or starts pushing his head toward her pussy for a guy to lick it, he's being totally submissive. If a guy grabs her and positions her, with her legs spread, and begins eating her, he is taking control and being dominant over her. It has nothing to do with giving her pleasure. She may even think it's gross, like you apparently do but she ALLOWS it to happen. In other words she is submitting to him.

    • If he asks me I might lose some of my lust for him as I view it as a submissive act. It doesn't matter how forceful he can be to me it is a submissive act to use your body part where good goes to to please the body part where pee comes from

    • #1) A dominant man wouldn't ask. He'd just do it. #2) It doesn't really matter how you view it. The facts back me up. #3) It seems, that just because YOU think it's gross and someone shouldn't want to do it, that it means they're submissive. That isn't how it works. #4) It seems guys have done things to you that you found degrading to you, because you allowed it, so to justify you submitting to it, you're pretending YOU were being dominant one. Again, that isn't how it works.

    • 1) depends on what he does 2) it matters because you are commenting on my opinion on it. 3) it's submissive. Look at cucks and manginas 4) never happened such a thing

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  • Lol so agree and with being queeny to several I have to agree.

    But for them it is giving pleasure and being let to give their pleasure cause they think oral is the best sex they can give!

    Think they are useless cowards that need a collar and a leash to do anything worth our time!

    Kinda prefer making my pet into a chair and sitting on them for a while before bringing them over and pegging one to getting oral by a pet who can't even do it well!

    • I mean when a man is submissive he wants to get used which is giving oral not receiving it

    • Right I think I just do what ever I want with them and enjoy myself usually they want to be fucked with their gfs and pegged before I fill her with my toys!

    • @CubaPirate so I guess you assume every dominant women is a troll? What about her? She a troll Omg is the troll trolling? O look a report button... Girls let's press it

  • What turned a wolf into a dog?

    Once upon a time, there were gray wolves dominating the forests and scaring the people away.

    But how did a wolf turn into a dog?

    Someday, people started GIVING.

    And wolves learned TAKING.

    And they took and took and took, until slowly they became dogs.

    There’s a power in giving, and that power can turn a Gray Wolf into a Dog.

    Think of it.

    • Who’s dominant now? A man. The one who was always giving and giving so much that wolves could no longer live without them. What is a real dominance? That’s a question we can talk about a lot.

    • I think it all depends on our views on dominance

    • Get all philosophical…but if you would like to never have oral…🤨

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  • Beta males, I don't want to give oral, I am not sub.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/EaCvFNH28lo
  • Is giving oral a dominant act?

    • I view it as a submissive act

    • I wouldn't say its a dominant act or from them as they view it as service

    • They serve pleasure.

  • In my opinion its dominant but I think it being dominant or submissive depends on the way they do it, the worshipping part is pathetic tho 😂

    • How is it dominant when the giver uses their head to pleasure the reciever's private parts

    • Okay let me give you an example of what I mean If the woman's legs are wrapped around the dudes head that is a submissive way to give head to a woman but if the guys arms are wrapped around the woman's thighs and they shale and the guy is trying to hold them stiff, that is a dominant way to give head to a woman in my opinion.

    • Shake*

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  • Cunnilingus can be either dominant or submissive, depending on how the guy does it

  • Because they don't see it as a dominant act. They see it as "I must please her. I want to please her."

    • Pleasing is submissive, right?

    • No, but they put your needs before theirs, that's the difference. They get the most fulfilment from serving their partner.

    • To me it is a submissive act to serve them pleasure

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  • My wife is mostly dominant when giving or receiving oral. She often asks me to go down on her. When she wants to give oral she likes the control and feels powerful with orgasm denial games.

  • I am submissive and i love to give oral. Eveey sexual act can be seen as dominant or submissive. It depends on who is in control of the situation.

    When a woman is riding my face until she orgasms, while i get no orgasm at all, it is a very submissive act to me, and i love that 😁

  • I don't see giving oral as dominant. But the idea of pleasing my partner excites me so I think is the same for them.

  • giving to receive = masculine energy

    receiving to be able to give = feminine energy

    so if u give the oral then ur dominant bc it's more masculine

    • Serving is not masculine

  • If you only knew the secrets of giving. I’m not saying there aren’t whacky guys out there, and trying to demean you by bringing up your inexperience is pointless and kinda mean. Both partners should participate in the give AND take throughout. Worship is too much, in my opinion. Mutual appreciation and willingness to please was always a better experience.

    • They are obsessed with my virginity like I am lol. We never stop talking about it. Nevermind im not offended

    • Is giving someone a gift submissive? Giving a back rub, bringing breakfast in bed, helping do laundry, cooking and cleaning?

    • Putting your head in between her legs is submissive

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  • Fuck stereotypes. Forget all this dominant/submissive nonsense. Sex is supposed to be about having fun sharing erotic energy with the person you love. You shouldn't overthink it.

  • Different sex acts can be dominant or submissive depending on how you view it and how you go about doing it.

    Giving a woman head can be a very dominant act on the man's part or a very submissive act.

    • When is it a very dominant act?

    • You have some pretty sharp teeth right near their genitalia, they are totally exposed and vulnerable to you. Also you are controlling there pleasure while they are a passive receiver.

    • *their

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  • Cunnilingus can be dominant or submissive depending on how it’s done. There are definitely dominant ways to give it…

    • So bj can be a submissive act? Lol

    • Yeah a girl giving a man a BJ can be very submissive. It can also be very dominant depending on how she does it

    • Give an example where it's a dominant act

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  • giving oral is not dominant

    • When I say that some people claim I think so because I'm a virgin

    • lol. really?

    • Yes. Read my questions and people's answers. They can't elaborate on their stance but still bring up my virginity

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  • I think giving oral is a dom act and receiving is a sub act because your there “helpless” and giving it all to them letting them control when you can 😈

  • Have you gave oral to someone yet?

  • did that 15 year old kid say giving is masculine?🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • Nothing to do with being sub just love ❤ to give her pleasure that way and she likes it too. She doesn't particularly enjoy giving bjs and I'm fine with that

  • Dm me

  • I agree

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