Why do we keep branding sub women/dom men couples as original when it's been the norm for so many years?

Whenever I read comments about women talking about how kinky they are cause they want to be sub/men who want to be dom, I just want to laugh... They're sooooo common in the BDSM and vanilla worlds as well.
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  • Well it's called original since like it is the usual type of relationship.
    Girls want a dominant man to give them the best experience and men want to give sex.
    I'm a sub though so clearly I ain't normal lol

    • Like I said : it's "normal", not original at all.

    • I think people go between terms. What bothers you? Are you a dom?

    • What bothers me is people telling things that are false

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  • Most people don't think it's kinky when women are sub or men are dom. That's just natural human sexuality, always has been.

    For those who find it novel or kinky, maybe it's because feminism has tried to create the perception that men and women are the same in ways they really are not, so many women think anyone being dominant or submissive is wrong.

    • I don't think it's the actual "core" reason but... In a way, yes.

    • I think it's the biggest reason.

    • I think you're wrong.

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  • I find it funny so many think that Dom / sub is about sex

    even with BDSM, if it was a large tome, then a chapter would mention sex.

  • Cuz they are really vanilla and fantasize about bdsm

    • BDSM dynamics with male dom/female sun are common as fuck.

    • Duh. So people who think it’s kinky are vanilla af

    • That's what I criticize...

  • I like it the other way around dominant women

    • So do I lol.

    • Yeah that's hard to find a good dominant female

    • Not more than finding a good sub guy...

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