Why do we sexually feel attracted towards our love/the person we like?

Since the time I fell for him, I desire him sexually too..
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  • Realistically, I favor the perceived short term, random order of chaos theory approach to love and sexual attraction, in relation too evolutionary biology, over the predestination "AND THEY ALL LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER" B. S. of the fairy tale story book genre's, model.
    That's what life really is, when you get down too brass tacks. Evolution. Plain and simple. Life. Death. Birth, and rebirth. Growth, development, and decomposition. What we do with ourselves, and how we perceive our experiences together, is up too us.
    Sexual attraction is influened by many different factors, contours and coloration of the human body being amongst the least of them.
    For the most part, don't fight it. Unless you know the outcome with a particular perspective love interest too inevitably result in ruin for you.
    If you were raised too "save yourself for marriage" and actually want too be happy and healthy in life, choose which path to follow, because not choosing is choosing, and you will not be happy with the result.
    Experience as much protected, responsibly health conscious sexual activity as you can, before even considering an engagement in matrimony. Sexual chemistry should not take priority over emotional well being, but be symbiotic too it. The person that makes you feel good in many ways, may not necessarily be the right fit for you, in a lifelong commitment, but they can help you discover things about yourself, and life, that can have lifelong benefits for you and your future spouse, if you can learn too keep things in their proper perspective, and that perspective can only be gained with an open mind, and experience. That shoots your "save yourself for marriage" B. S. straight down the crapper, where it belongs.
    Your question doesn't have a diffinitive, one size fits all, answer, because such an answer doesn't exist. Experience is the key too finding your answer, and it must be done your way, in your own time and places.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Your subconscious is attracted to his subconscious. Most likely, something from your past ignites the pheromones and serotonin. Think daddy complex for example.

    But 90% of attraction is in the head.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I do not know. But all I know is that it's pretty natural to develop sexual feelings for a person we have love and romantic feelings for. If you have a friendship with them, then those feelings are even greater due to bond.

  • Because sex is included in love too.
    Because there is sexualty in love. Like enthusiasm, joy, fun, excitement, sadness, break up, fear, anger, curiosity, jealousy, trust, caring, respect, kindness, missing..😏

    • so you agree that caring is a sign of love?

    • Yes, I care about the person I love. I read your feelings for him in other people's answers. Well, who says this? In real life you or online you?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • The two are linked internally.

    • This ^^^^^

  • Because romantic love and sexual feelings go together.

    • For guys too?

    • Yes and no. Just because a guy wants to bang you most certainly does not mean he loves you. However, if a guy loves you (in a romantic way) he most certainly will want to bang you.

  • Well...
    Thats how life works...

    • Does everyone feel sexual attraction towards their crush? Guys too?

    • Yes we do... Thats a one way to show love...

    • If you don't mind can you write what GENERALLY guys fantasize (sexually) about their favorite girl?

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  • Because there's a connection beyond words and you sex to increase that bond.

  • Sex is love

    • Not always!

    • There is only one true love Between pussy & dick they are the one who made for eachother. No !

  • Evolution

  • Because that is how humans evolved.

  • its natural

    • Does everyone feel sexual attraction towards their crush? Guys too?

    • I think so. They kind of go hand in hand

  • Sex is something special not just a lust at least for me that's why i hate hook ups

  • A lot has to do with pheromones.

  • a lot of it is chemical... pheromones, visual.. hot... sexually persomality... mutual interests...

  • I dont know. It doesn't work that way for me. If it works one way it doesn't work other way.