Most of the time, men tend to lead woman on just to have sex then calls her crazy.
I think the most important FIRST step is for men to be upfront and honest but that won’t happen in fear of them missing the chance of getting in between her legs.
I actually don’t get attached unless we both agree on wanting more then sex and even then I still don’t get attached much. (I’m a Gemini lol)
If it’s just a sex buddy then it’s just that, I don’t cross boundaries but if you’re telling me something completely different but your actions not matching your words. I call it quits And we never have to talk again and I’ll be fine...
By the way, I love cuddling... I even cuddle with my guy bestfriend (he is a gay male)
So I don’t think wanting to cuddle means much, it’s just a guy leaving right after sex might make a woman feel low unless she’s comfortable with her sexuality like I am..
You can cuddle with me or get THE F*CK and I’ll be good with both. Just don’t lie to me or the Caribbean comes out of me then you’ll really call me crazy... ha ha!
ahhhh ok I see what you're saying
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Because it's biological. Not all, but a fair amount of women can't help but get attached. We produce hormones that make us more likely to become attached after sex as opposed to men. Personally I don't get all that attached unless I've really grown to like that person over a long period of time. But 90% of the partners I've had I'm not at all clingy with. There's a bit of a bond/familiarity with that person and that's normal but nothing strong.
*correction. None of them I'm clingy with but one I definitely like more then just a casual fling.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I agree with the other answers. One point to add that our bodies release hormones that affect very much. Plus different biological functioning than for men.
it's not the sex, it's the person. I don't really had an amazing sex in my first time. But I never forget the person I do it with. Because I learned to love him, even with simply having sex
Sex makes us feel very vulnerable. I think it has to do with being the receiver. Imagine taking a dick up the ass... I am sure you would want a cuddle afterwards! Lol 😂
Wtf? I don’t even want to think of anything going up my ass
We think 🤔 the same way!
It’s all about the science crap and depending on the connection. I mean, I’ve never had hook ups. And people I’ve had sex with I was madly in love or crazy for them before it led to it. So XD.
First time as in virginity or what? Well for me, it was like i do have hard time to differentiate hormonal and emotional 😂
first time having sex with a guy in general
If we are having sex then our body thinks we are trying to have a baby with that guy and that is what makes the attachment happen
Because it’s doing something extremely intimate and especially if you already liked him it strengthens a connection or a perceived one at least
I don't. Good, bad, whatever. It won't change my feeling for/against you.
I don't because I hate cuddling. Allergic to it actually.
Interesting
Yes isn't it.
i feel like its a reassurance type thing, Like that he's not going anywhere and he cares too. Also i just shared my vulnerability with him so i need to feel like its not just a fuck, get dressed and walk out
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