Why do women think it's ok to ride the chad carousel in their 20s, but then expect some average guy to work for sex when she's past her prime?

[Anonymous]

[lightbulb27]

It's really simple... some are selfish and lack your sense of values, for their upbringing was crapola.

Believe it or not... some of them can do that, and get what they want... if they have the sexual manipulation to get what they want.

Others, find the error in their ways... late and pay the price for it in loss of offspring, and suffering.

Everyone is individual. There is forgiveness, understanding... and that is where such whom discover values have to hope they find in a suitable partner.

[Effably]

Here's a quick thought experiment.

Do you feel that in future relationships they should look at your posts, like this one, determine you're unattractive and whiny based on that and dump you? Or is it okay because or context? Because it was in the past? Because it isn't a permanent statement of who you are and there wasn't any active intent to try and pigeon-hole yourself into a stereotype although you did?

If you feel that your message here does not invalidate you from ever having a girlfriend, then doesn't that also mean there can be a separation of actions? Making the whole question moot? And if so, are you not just venting to us and asking for sympathy or agreeement? What are we to do with that?

[Asker]

Why should guys work 10x harder for less? It's one thing if she was throwing sex at average guys in her prime, but she wasn't, Chad only. You seem to lack self-respect.

[Effably]

Why would she? And what entitles anyone to anything here? If we assume 'chad' is the prime quality guy and she can get that, why not? Are you dating down to be nice? Skipping the 7s to date the 3s because at 40 you'll be balding? Of course not. Who does? As for me mate, I've reached this dating epiphany that if I just talk to people. Flirt a little. Things work out. No need to be any sort of category for that. Self-respect has nothing to do with it. No one is waiting 10 years for a hand-me-down. Its your perspective that needs change.

[Asker]

You got a hand me down starfish sex boy

[Effably]

I advocate in favor of complaining. But you need to complain about real things. Your current narrative will never achieve anything and alienate people. If you are going to shoulder the burden of complaining, do so in a meaningful way. Not pointlessly insulting people being nice to you online with assumptions that are probably missing the mark anyway. Make a real difference instead of whatever this is.

[Asker]

Betabuxx

[Effably]

Look man. I am just saying there's a lot of valid stuff you could complain about when it comrs to us men. Mental health, grading, systematically disadvantegous educational systems, lack of support networks, intrinsic disposability and so on. And you choose to complain about... good looking girls in their 20s not sleeping with you? Get a grip.

[Asker]

All of these things are because of women, women are a fucking joke

[slatyb]

Losers may believe that, but most women don't think that way.

[Agape93]

The hell are you talking about?

[Asker]

You know exactly what I speak of Becky, you ain't no Stacy

[Agape93]

Becky? Stacy? What the fuck lol

[mandyfire98]

@Agape93 This is normally incel/redpill jargon. Not worth wasting your time over. It's toxic.

[UniquelyBasic]

There's going to be different rules for the different outcomes she wants. If she just wants sex of course she's not going to make the guy wait. Relationships are a little different as she may want an emotional connection first to make sure he's serious about something potentially long term. It doesn't really seem like it's a big deal honestly.

[Asker]

Lol no, she only makes non chads wait for sex

[BJP21]

Maturity and define past their prime.

[Asker]

You silly naive simp

[Anonymous]

Because they can, or at least think they can. Just like most women actually convince themselves they're something special because every guy tells them so. They never think thier age is going to catch up to them eventually. It's always fun watching when reality hits to.😆😆😆

[Anonymous]

If you're gonna get married you gotta get her in her early 20s. It's always better to be her first ex-husband who had her when she was sweet and hot, than to be her last ex-husband who lost everything to her.

[Opinion Owner]

If you wait too long in life you end up with the situation you listed.