Why do you enjoy pain during sex?

[roughntuff1993]

To those of you who enjoy bdsm, what is it that turns you on personally to receiving or administering pain or humiliation?

[crmoore]

I like how dominant it feels when she accepts the pain I administer without any sort of avoidance or opposition. And I like how it seems she values my enjoyment of such a thing more than her dislike for pain (I still feel this way even if I know she likes the pain).

[roughntuff1993]

Hmmm 🤔 thanks! 😊

[crmoore]

No problem 👍

[Makeushiver]

It's like adding a little salt to something essentially sweet. It makes everything a bit more exciting. Not extended periods of pain but you could run your nails down my back of leave a few love bites on me and I'd be happy

[roughntuff1993]

Thank you! 😊

[MrsCM]

In the simplest terms is just the feeling of doing something wrong that feels great haha

[roughntuff1993]

Very nice simple explanation! 😊

[Gagname]

@mrscm So are you into path or humiliation (and is it the giving or receiving)?

[MrsCM]

Howd you mean? Sorry

[Gagname]

*pain

[Gagname]

@mrscm The question asker’s sub-question was: “To those of you who enjoy bdsm, what is it that turns you on personally to receiving or administering pain or humiliation?” So I was asking you: 1. Are you into the pain or humiliation aspect of S & M? 2. Do you prefer to be the giver or receiver of pain/humiliation?

[MrsCM]

Yes and recieving

[Gagname]

Receiving—ok You like both pain & humiliation? (What types?)

[SarahP080102]

Yes, I enjoy some pain

[roughntuff1993]

Care to explain, if you can, why this is enjoyable to you?

[SarahP080102]

Scientifically it releases endorphins which are chemicals in the brain that trigger pleasure to be heightened

[roughntuff1993]

Scientifically I agree with your assessment smile! 😊 im interested in the psychology though

[SarahP080102]

I just like the feeling of being dominated

[roughntuff1993]

I get it, thanks!

[Bidensucks2020]

not me

[Iron_Man]

I don’t

[DiversityHire]

I enjoy inflicting pain, humiliation, etc, but I'm not one to happily take it.

[Toterbear]

I've never tried much of it really, I'd be down to try it, in both being the dom or the sub

[Dave31989]

supposedly, it turns them on, and even helps them get off. I'll never understand it though

[Anonymous]

I'm not a fan of pain, but from what I understand of others it comes down to sadistic pleasure and power of dominance and control. Not judging at all, just my 2 cents

[Anonymous]

Yeah that’s not me. Lol. I don’t like pain during sex. Do u?

[roughntuff1993]

Occasionally I do, but I’m usually on the administering end.

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh ok. So u like anal sex? Isn’t that painful?

[roughntuff1993]

While having sex with the only man who can dominate me, my loving husband, some rough handling is natural of course.

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh ok I get that.

[roughntuff1993]

With my clients however, I do get satisfaction from their devotion and obedience, as well as their desire to compensate me properly of course.