Why do you think women rate guys differentially from how guys rate girls?

[Nandor]

[Aguysopinion4799]

Because from my experience, girls have only ever wanted the impossible from guys or are super picky with them and guys can't

Show signs of weakness
Have to not seem emotionally unbalanced
Physically OP
Popular

I'm not saying all girls are like this but a lot of the ones I meet have been like this and they refuse to even comprehend the idea of guys having emotional difficulties or that even men have trouble being physically strong but society has made it seem like we have to be that figure *Cries..*

[DevilsAdvocator]

I know why:
cf.girlsaskguys.com/.../...a-80d7-a5a521ea9277.jpg

media.lanecc.edu/.../Inequality.png

Isn't it strange how the distribution of wealth happens to be nigh-identical to the distribution of the ratings women give men? One might almost draw the conclusion that, when dating, women rated men almost exclusively according to their income rather than by their appearance. Wouldn't you agree?

[Malita55]

I honestly think it’s partly because men put much less effort into how they look, in general. There are far more overweight men in the world than there are overweight women. Women just care more and that’s what it comes down to

[Nandor]

I have to disagree

[DevilsAdvocator]

Um, actually...
assets.weforum.org/.../...NRQj86WGbH4uaLu9yPY4.JPG

[StickStickity13]

Women tend to be more obese

[Nandor]

Lmao Hungary. Where is Sweden? And yeah that is what I thought more women are fat. Its harder for them to lose weight so

[DevilsAdvocator]

Japan, Germany, Hungary, Romania and the Czech Republic are the only countries in the world where there are more overweight men than there are overweight women, and even then only by a relatively slim margin. In every other country in the world, female obesity rates are higher; in several cases, by a huge margin.

[Nandor]

Rip my people

[DevilsAdvocator]

@Nandor, at that time, Sweden had a female obesity rate of 13% and a male obesity rate of 9%.

[Nandor]

Thank you but was talking about Hungary. I live in Sweden thats why i wondered

[Mihaelle]

Women obsessed with weight and things like that and want to be skinny like some skeletons, are not really beautiful.

[Nandor]

They are beautiful. In fact the most beautiful shape a girl can have in my opinion

[Mihaelle]

No, they are walking skeletons. Nothing beautiful at them.

[Mihaelle]

I'm sure men prefer curvier women.

[StickStickity13]

@Mihaelle Skinny girls can be very sexy

[Nandor]

I dont skinny girl with no ass and no boobs are the most beautiful thing ever been evolved

[Nandor]

She doesn't know because she is a girl

[Malita55]

My bad I thought there were more obese men than women but I was proven wrong. And omg these men are fucking weird. It goes against all human nature to be attracted to a women with no shape, breasts or butt... that’s just wrong hahah. You’ll probably mature and feel differently in the future. Skinny women can’t be sexy, but fit women can be!

[Malita55]

Don’t get me wrong, skinny women can be absolutely beautiful, but sexy... no I’m sorry

[Mihaelle]

If we deal with a man that looks like a skeleton, he will prefer another skeleton next to him and I wish him "Good luck!" Bye, bye!

[StickStickity13]

You women are ridiculous

[Nandor]

You have not seen quality porn then. Search after "triciafox" and look at her anal videos like goooooood daaaaamnnnn she looks smoking hot

[Mihaelle]

Go and watch whatever you like. I think somebody there is smoking stupid when commenting.

[Nandor]

You just commented so you are stupid. Okie

[Mihaelle]

I couldn;t say it about myself! And you are commenting, too. So, who 's the stupid one? Look for the right answer carefully..

[Nandor]

Yes. You are a girl and dont know whit of what men like and dislike. Dont think that being fat is attractive.

[Malita55]

Lol being fat is not attractive. Being HEALTHY is attractive and being fat or skinny are both typically not healthy. Skinny women and fat women can be healthy but typically they are not. That’s why more normal sized women are seen as attractive because they are healthy

[Mihaelle]

If you are a skeleton, how could you find someone fat attractive? The opposite is also true. fat people laugh at skeletons. Hihi!

[Nandor]

*trump says* WRONG. Okay look just because you have fat on your bodie it doesn't mean that your bodie is more healhy. A skinny girl eating well but not gaining weight iant unhealthy get that into your heads

[Mihaelle]

Ok, actually I agree with you at last! Fat people are generally ill. They have thyroid problems or something else. It's not easy for them to accept the idea that they are fat, especially after having been skinny for more than 30 years in their lives. They have to cure that part of their body which makes them fat before hoping that they will lose some weight.

[Nandor]

Thank you

[anmari2001]

Because guys are more generous when it comes to rating girls

[StickStickity13]

Or men have a much wider view of what looks good than women

[Nandor]

Oh yeah how could I forget. Women are bixesual from default

[anmari2001]

True that

[Nandor]

Thank you

[anmari2001]

You are welcome

[GayHowellMeme]

Women are different and think differently in our nature

[Jmcmanning]

I have two ratings, the first is on their physical appearance and then their personality. If they have a terrrible personality, then it's going to lower their overall rating.

[Nandor]

Its about looks not personality

[Jmcmanning]

Well you do realize for females we combine both at some point, you can be hot and if you character and personality is shit - then we are going to rate you low. So for us, it's not all about looks - this is the difference.

[Nandor]

The reaserch were based on looks*

[Jmcmanning]

I understand, I can see you used okcupid. com - the details to the bar graph and summary with it isn't listed on your post. Like this post - has more details about the rating and attraction: theblog.okcupid.com/race-and-attraction-2009-2014-107dcbb4f060

[Nandor]

Some guys posted the whole reaserch to it just look after it. And I dont really care about what people vote and say I just asked something

[Catholicgirl22]

We are just wired differently. Men are more visual when it comes to attractive whereas women usual become more attracted to a guy mote and more as she gets to know him.

[Mihaelle]

Because guys are more objective.

[Nandor]

You think it looks fair or good?

[Mihaelle]

I like that they are not jealous when voting.

[Nandor]

Who the girld or guys? And why would any of them be jealous?

[Mihaelle]

Some people are just like that. I have noticed many times people voting for the ugliest picture instead of voting for the prettiest. It was obviously that a woman looked pale and old but she was voted in front of a way prettier and younger woman all the time.

[Mihaelle]

Pure jealousy or somebody was just playing when voting in a negative way.

[Nandor]

And how often does that happen out of 10000000 votes?

[Mihaelle]

The funny thing is that a woman can pretend she is a man, you never know!

[Nandor]

Im just going to ignore this

[Mihaelle]

Why?

[ThisDudeHere]

Because like women more than women like men.

[wankiam]

seen this a lot on here. women seem to be able to be more objective whilst you see loads of guys just hoping they may get a pm from the girl asking. stupid really because they just look like dogs on heat. either that or every single girl on here really is a 10

[wankiam]

i love the fact the women here dont seem to realise either whats going on... perhaps its vanity clouding their judgement

[ScottSummers]

lol agree. Just few mins ago some older woman posted pics and when i said they are not beautiful but average looking she called me by idiot and blocked me lol. Guys here rate 10/10 ANY girl/woman.

[britpop]

That's on her perhaps but what about life in general not online

[wankiam]

@britpop you know i hadn't thought about that but in many ways i think it would still be about the same

[CubsterShura]

Cause men don't put as much effort into their looks.

[alice55]

No idea, where I live guys are super harsh with girls and girls are nice with rating guys so

[JoyGirl]

I don't know why.

[aa180]

Well I think it's true that there are more good-looking girls than there are good-looking guys. Of course, I'm biased in saying that but those stats seem to support my claim anyways.

[Duvet]

Those seem like fake statistics

[0112358]

They're not, and based on huge pools of data.

[Duvet]

A link would be appreciated

[Nandor]

can't you at least relate?

[0112358]

looks like oktrends pulled the article at some point. here's the text on waybackmachine which speaks to the curves:
web.archive.org/.../your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e

I will quote two bits you can find in it: "Our chart shows how men have rated women, on a scale from 0 to 5. The curve is symmetric and surprisingly charitable: a woman is as likely to be considered extremely ugly as extremely beautiful, and the majority of women have been rated about “medium.” The chart looks normalized, even though it’s just the unfiltered opinions of our male users."

"As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh."

Anyway it's enough to hopefully confirm that those graphs were real.

Data wise was based on the entire okcupid dataset at the time, which was damn large.

[struggleslice]

kraft singles consumption is spread more evenly amongst women

[ddaisyyycx]

different tastes

[WeirdoWerdo]

I know why

[Nandor]

Tell me why

[WeirdoWerdo]

We're ugly as fuck

[Nandor]

Intressant

[AM-205]

I believe it's because they're much more observant than us men!

[SecondGuy]

Women have boobs. Men don't.

[Naydyonov]

1) Women have unrealistic standards nowadays.
This is true of an average girl expecting a Brad Pitt, or a far below average girl expecting a Bieber.
2) Men on these sites tend to be more average looking.
3) Guys are too generous. The thirst iS ReAllY rEaL.
4) Men are not created for beauty, they are created for ingenuity and hard strength.
5) Men's standards have fallen very quickly and greatly. Again, back to the Thirst.

[jasco]

Most men don't give a damn about looks unlike girls

[britpop]

Because we are different

[wankiam]

indeed and my reply may point to why

[CT_CD]

I know why

[Nandor]

Tell me why

[CT_CD]

Women are generally only attracted to the top 20% of men but men are attracted to even just average looking women

[Nandor]

Thank you sensei

[CT_CD]

You're welcome

[Revolver_]

Women are generally only attracted to the top 20% of men but men are attracted to even just average looking women