It's good for you to look out for your own needs. Don't knock it till you tried it right? Also, if there is any abuse from your past that you may be projecting onto him than that's a red flag. I'm not asking you are, but it's something I consider. He wouldn't deserve that. If you actually love him, than his needs are your needs and vice versa. 7 or 8 months is a long time to wait lady. That or possibly he isn't doing something you find appealing enough to stimulate your sexual drive. If you are stringing him along for attention than you are not a very good person and are manipulative. If you aren't than it's okay. I understand little of the situation, and I can't make that judgment for you. You should really consider what your actions are doing to him. It could also be him who is the problem. There are a countless number of different possibilities it be based off the few sentences I've read. If his behavior turns you off well than it doesn't matter how he looks. Look, don't drag this guy into you simply because of attention or validation. If he isn't good enough, be a strong person for both his and your sake and cut him off. I'm being real and honest with you. Either scold me for it or criticize me for it. Either way, I'm being as morally justful, insightful, and truthful as much as I can with you to help you understand what he may be thinking. Men can be very complex and complicated just as women are, but you can't really change the way you feel about him. Only he can change his demeanor to suit your needs and sexual willingness.
I love him but I'm not ready because I'm a virgin and I'm 18
You should be thankful. You are lucky. Take your time with him, and have open and honest communication. Don't always wait for him to initiate those conversations. It shows you think about his needs and care about him. You posted this right. You responded quickly. It's something that you've probably thought about a lot. I get it. If he's smart and kind he gets it too. He's also nervous about all it too I'm sure. You should be happy. Let out what you feel to him in a meaningful conversation. I'm sure it will go a long way. It'll work out better than you probably think. I honestly envy you and him. Things never really worked out for me in my past, and it's something that really bothers me and upsets me. It was always my fault I feel like, and I had to improve myself a lot. It really hurts me. I attempted suicide. I got lucky. Life is better now, but I had to work very hard on myself make it better with pretty much next to no help. I really hope to experience something like what you have with him soon. I'm still not fully healed out of this depression out of 3 or 4 months of rigorous self improvement. I know my problems aren't other people's problems and as a man I need to be strong. I struggle daily to be happy and enjoy life even though I probably look fine. Sorry if I went on about myself. I don't need any pity. My decisions growing up were my own to make. I hope it works out for the best for you too and you can enjoy a healthy sex life. I missed out on it. Don't be me. Be adventurous and live life. I never really did, and I carry a lot of pain and regret because of it. I'm sure he is very supportive of you, and a conversation on the topic will go miles to strengthening your relationship with him. Sex is very important. I'm sure you two will make it work much better than you think it will go.
understood thanks. I'm so sorry for you, I hope everything goes well for you too. but as i said i am only 18 years old and i don't want to rush
Perhaps because he loves her. It happens. It sounds like you are trying to friend-zone a guy who's in love with you. Don't. It is an insulting and very cruel thing to do, and very painful for him. Better and kinder to sever all ties. For some bizarre reason women consistently fail to understand us when when we love you with all our hearts and all you want is companionship.
i love him but im not ready for this because I'm virgin and 18
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im 18 so i dont
Well he obviously likes you. And as much as some people try to claim that we are naturally polygamous we are actually monogamous and he only wants one girl! You…
Trying hard to have sex? Most man doesn't pressure women for sex that all I know
Because we like to fuck
they like the hard t get type
If you dont want why do you talking with him yet?
I love him but just because people love each other doesn't mean they have to have sex
If you live and like him then why you dont want to sex with him?
IMMM VIRGIN 😔
Because its pleasureable
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