Why does anal sex make me feel like I need to pee?

It happens every time once he gets all the way inside and starts moving. I don't actually have to pee because many times I have asked him to stop so I can go to the bathroom and I never actually am able to pee when I do. Does anyone else have the same problem? Is there anything I can do other than using the toilet before sex, which I always do already? I don't want to stop doing anal because he enjoys it a lot and so do I, but feeling like I need to pee definitely takes some of the fun out of it for me.

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  • Don’t worry. Neglect the feeling.
    It’s only a pseudo (fake) feeling, due to the pressure from penetration compressing on the nerve roots of bladder fulness sensations.
    Also its mixed with the edge of orgasm sensation, so you think it pee, but in reality it’s just the strong orgasm and temporary pelvic muscles paralysis relaxation from orgasms.
    Also stress will play a role in bladder dysfunction.




    Here some hints and advices:
    1- Try to save time by doing the anal ASAP after foreplay, in separate occasions without having PIV before it. Because if you spend a lot of time in vaginal so you could collect urine by time.


    2- put undersheet to relax and avoid stress. Just enjoy & have fun.


    3- avoid humidity in room. Ensure good ventilation.


    4- change the position and try different positions to avoid pressing the nerve root of bladder.


    5- Reassures yourself that sensations are not real. It’s just because pressing deep nerves so the body or brain translate it as a urine fullness.




    I hope I found a girlfriend loving sex in general, horney all the time and anal expert too.

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  • You might not be used to anal. There is a g-spot there and if you're not used to having someone do it to you there, it can be very intense.

    I'd keep doing it because eventually, that feeling where you have to pee will turn into an orgasm. Maybe try inserting a small sex toy there and practicing with that for a while until you get used to having sex there.

    • Thank you. We have actually been doing it pretty regularly for almost two years. It has definitely gotten easier for me and feels really good except for the feeling that I have to pee. I don't get that feeling during vaginal sex, but maybe you have a point and the angle is different so there is more pressure on my g-spot.

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  • That happened to me when I first started having anal sex. The urge was definitely real but I think the greater internal pressure in that general area was telling my brain my bladder was full. The more I did it, the more conditioned I became and it just stopped. Maybe more frequent sessions would help. Just beware, early on I had that feeling while the boy was first entering me and it was real.

    • Thank you, that is encouraging. How long have you been doing it? We have been doing it for about two years.

    • A little over 3 years

    • OK well that gives me hope. Thanks again, really appreciate your input.

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  • exerting pressure on your prostate and your bladder causes this sensation. I think you should start slow and take breaks

    • Thanks for your response. I don't have a prostate so that's not the issue for me. And my bladder is empty, but maybe it's possible the pressure on my empty bladder makes it think it's full?

    • I wanted to add "or"😅. yes it really does that if you go really rough from the start or do it for long periods of time. if you don't go rough or do it for long periods of time than you should consult a physician as this problem could have more meaning to it then you think

    • Oh ok! :) He isn't usually rough during anal, but sometimes is is a little rougher. I haven't paid attention to see if the feeling is stronger when he's rougher. I will pay more attention next time. Thanks again!

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  • Have you considered your on the edge of squirting I believe most women confuse it with the feeling you need to pee

  • A lot of women describe the feeling of getting close to an orgasm as feeling like they need to pee. You have to remember that you have a thick penis between your hips; that's going to put presssure on your bladder.

  • That is not pee tour feeling, you are on the verge of squirting it sounds like to me. Put some towels down and relax. Let it happen. You will have the best orgasm of your life.

  • Because it puts pressure on your bladder.

  • When you get the feeling that you have to pee, do you also feel like you're going to start getting an orgasm? Years ago my girlfriend got that feeling that she was going to pee. She was also starting to get an orgasm. She ended up squirting during her orgasm just from anal sex

  • It's pushing on your bladder

    • I didn't think that was why because I know my bladder is empty, but I think no that's probably it.

  • The angle can sometimes put pressure on your bladder hence you feel like you need to pee. Try to relax and focus on what feels good. You can use a towel or latex sheets if you're worried about leaking.

  • As long as you go before and you're hygienic then do as much anal as you like!

    Your need to go is due to his penis putting pressure on your bladder. Much the the way a baby makes you pee more often.

  • I will not judge but may I suggest something that may sound a bit disgusting

    • You said you get the urge to pee , you stop and go to pee but you do not need to. Put a few towels down, just relax when the feeling hits and go with it. You will learn what it really is. Enjoy, have fun.

  • it stimulating your pee area more strongly from back and he must change the angle to avoid it.

  • Peeing is better than pooping

  • Do you cum doing anal?

    • Usually, but I think I probably always would if I didn't always feel like I have to pee.

    • I got it. Do you really like it or it is just to please him?

    • We both enjoy it.

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  • It hits your bladder

  • Because your shit hole is blocked and he is pushing your shit back. Your shit and urine rushes inside your intestines. Only hole it can escape through is the pee hole. So you have urge to pee.

    • Um, I think maybe you need to go back to your text books and study up on human anatomy.

    • 🤣 wasn’t it funny