Why does boyfriend go MIA after cumming too quick?

Every time that boyfriend cums quickly and doesn’t finish me off, he goes MIA for a week or so. Is he embarrassed or what?
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  • Sounds like either embarrassed, frustrated at himself or just not a very good lover

    • Yep!!

  • A week? That doesn’t sound like a boyfriend. Did you mean a FtF?

    • He only does that when he sums quickly after sex. Otherwise we don’t ignore each other

    • Cums* Also you look like an incel lol

    • Lol I do? First time I’ve gotten that feedback :)

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  • Yes, I'd say he's embarrassed, and isn't mature enough to know what to say or do, so he tries to avoid you entirely - which is in itself immature. He should be communicating with you and seeing if you're willing to try to help him improve his performance/stamina.

  • Probably embarrassment. Talk to him about it and let him know that your needs aren't being met. If his penis isn't up to the task, he has other body parts.

  • He is ashamed that’s why, try to gently tell him that’s okay, chances are he is just inexperienced with holding it, and try to both learn how to orgasm, he can easily make you cum after himself by rubbing you, most girls will be very aroused by the time a guy cums so after he cums he can rub your pussy or he learns how to give good oral, the important thing is to make it clear that you’re both learning and don’t make it like you’re pointing out his shortcomings “no pun intended” and it will be a comfortable position for him to improve

    • Haha shortcomings made me laugh

    • 😂😂

  • Sounds like embarrassment to me yeah. You say he goes MIA - does he like run out of the room or something?

    • No, but we end the night on a good note with him feeling bad about it but he still goes MIA for a week and I don’t reach out because I think he needs to do that

    • Sounds like he feels bad about it or is worried you're pissed at him and he's waiting for you to reach out too. Probably should just talk to him about it to avoid the cycle.

    • He is really embarrassed when it happens, but I do try to give him space

  • Hard to say. If he shoots too quick, he is probably feeling embarrassed. Maybe he disappears for a time, tries jacking off thinking about and the fucking and tries to practice hold off shooting for he next time. My girlfriend told me to jack off, right up to shooting my wad, and then stopping, and hope that would help me last with her or stay harder, longer.

  • Yes. The solution is for him to bring you off orally *or by hand) before he ever mounts up. Then he can go as fast as he wants.

  • This would be a question for HIM, don't you think?
    Maybe you just hear from him when he gets the hornies.
    Sounds like a relationship made in heaven, no? You kids don't TALK?

  • likely embarassement

  • Embarrassment.

  • He's embarrassed, or he has another unsatisfied woman on the side, lol.

  • Id say immature and embarrassed..

  • He’s shutting off the live stream that he was filming so nobody finds out that he can only last for 30 seconds.

    • That sounds so funny, but what do you mean by it?

    • He’s probably just embarrassed even though it doesn’t sound like it bothers you very much that he cums too quickly

  • It just sounds like he doesn't know how to communicate his feelings to you or care about how you feel.

    • Sounds pretty much how he is

    • If someone loves you that won't happen.

    • We haven’t said I love u yet, so maybe he doesn’t love me, but is always having a nervous break down when I threaten to end things, so I don’t know!!

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  • He is in it for himself he nutted and he only comes back when he wants to

    • He only goes MIA when he cums quickly so not always

  • He needs to work out more and also needs to take viagra because he has premature ejaculation.

  • What is MIA?

    • Google

    • I Googled it but the only think I found is a Band from Germany

    • Then you don’t know how to google properly lol

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  • I think he’s embarrassed

  • quickly cum is embarrassing for sure, it it happens often.

    • It happens really frequently nowadays

    • It’s sad! How could you manage it? It’s frustrating talk with him!

    • I’m done talking. I’m ignoring his ass.

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  • I think his appetite is less.. will return when the tank refills.. he needs treatment

  • Yeah probably is