Why does boyfriend go MIA after cumming too quick?

[Anonymous]

Every time that boyfriend cums quickly and doesn’t finish me off, he goes MIA for a week or so. Is he embarrassed or what?

[Drumlin2001]

Sounds like either embarrassed, frustrated at himself or just not a very good lover

[Asker]

Yep!!

[BarryLiverstone]

A week? That doesn’t sound like a boyfriend. Did you mean a FtF?

[Asker]

He only does that when he sums quickly after sex. Otherwise we don’t ignore each other

[Asker]

Cums* Also you look like an incel lol

[BarryLiverstone]

Lol I do? First time I’ve gotten that feedback :)

[BarryLiverstone]

Has he ever apologized?

[Asker]

He’s constantly apologising for it, but it still happens sometimes

[BarryLiverstone]

Ya it’s def a reason he goes MIA. He feels guilty. But why not go for round 2 when he does that?

[Asker]

Because he can’t go round two. He’s so out of energy that we end it there. He’s a smoker and doesn’t have the best diet so sort of not fit to go round two; which is starting to annoy me so much

[Asker]

,*****

[BarryLiverstone]

Ohh damn. He can’t get it back up? Well that’s going to be a problem, no lie. If he doesn’t get into better shape and quit smoking then your needs will not be met. Sounds like a big problem

[Asker]

Yes he is so lazy to quit. He has a nice body naturally, but he’s not really fit on the inside. Sometimes it goes back up after 30 mins or so, but last time it didn’t

[BarryLiverstone]

Guess if you keep seeing him make an investment in some good sex toys. Frankly he’s not getting any younger so this is likely to increase over time

[BarryLiverstone]

Too many he can’t go multiple rounds, they can be fun!

[Asker]

Sometimes we do, but mostly it’s me unsatisfied. Should I end things?

[BarryLiverstone]

Ending things just based on this? No. But I don’t know details of your relationship. In general if your needs aren’t met and he can’t meet them then yes you will break up. But that’s only after he’s been given the chance to meet you’d needs and decided he wants other things.

[BarryLiverstone]

But sex is important and if he isn’t giving you orgasms he doesn’t realize lots of guys will step up to replace him

[Asker]

We’ve had that talk many times. He always does agree to make me happier, but he never really tries. It doesn’t make me feel wanted when I compare it to my ex.

[Asker]

And by the way sorry about the incel comment. That was a joke and you don’t look like one lol

[BarryLiverstone]

See that’s more details. Then yes, he’s had opportunities to change and ending things makes more sense. Clearly he prioritizes nicotine Over you

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh I knew it was a joke, that’s why I didn’t feel offended. Lol, I’m confident enough to know I’m not an incel :)

[Asker]

I’m thinking of ghosting his ass. Do you think that’s a good idea?

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope. Better to give him an ultimatum. Ghosting will be seen as Immature. Just lay it all out on the line what your needs are and tell him if he doesn’t stop smoking or improving his health by a certain day, you must go find a guy who does. It’s not fair that you prioritize your health and he doesn’t. You have the ability for multiple orgasms and many rounds; let him have his cigs and right hand lol

[Asker]

You’re right lol his right hand will have to be enough because I’m done as far as I’m concerned. I don’t really care whether he sees me as immature, so I might still ghost his ass so that it hurts.

[BarryLiverstone]

He wouldn’t know what he’s missing because you sound in need

[Asker]

What do you mean? He’s the one who’s more attached to me and he has had the chance to end things, but he has always a flight for us, butso I know it’ll hurt.

[Asker]

Fought**

[BarryLiverstone]

I meant you aren’t getting off. So you have sexual needs and he can’t provide

[Asker]

So you think ghosting him will make him alter his behaviour?

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope

[BarryLiverstone]

Honestly I don’t think he’s going to change. Maybe if he knew he was losing you it way trigger something but he sounds too lazy to step up and be healthy

[Asker]

Sounds about right. Thank u for your help

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. What will you do?

[Asker]

When he reaches out soon as he always does, I will ignore it for a few days to send a message and then I’ll tell him about my concerns regarding the partnership

[Asker]

And by the way that’s not really u in the picture is it lol

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s me

[BarryLiverstone]

Thank for MHO. Either that or longest option ;)

[Asker]

Cums* You were really the most helpful to me. Thank you!!

[MrOracle]

Yes, I'd say he's embarrassed, and isn't mature enough to know what to say or do, so he tries to avoid you entirely - which is in itself immature. He should be communicating with you and seeing if you're willing to try to help him improve his performance/stamina.

[NamerOfStars]

Probably embarrassment. Talk to him about it and let him know that your needs aren't being met. If his penis isn't up to the task, he has other body parts.

[Mark-IV]

He is ashamed that’s why, try to gently tell him that’s okay, chances are he is just inexperienced with holding it, and try to both learn how to orgasm, he can easily make you cum after himself by rubbing you, most girls will be very aroused by the time a guy cums so after he cums he can rub your pussy or he learns how to give good oral, the important thing is to make it clear that you’re both learning and don’t make it like you’re pointing out his shortcomings “no pun intended” and it will be a comfortable position for him to improve

[Asker]

Haha shortcomings made me laugh

[Asker]

😂😂

[CaptainRonnie]

Sounds like embarrassment to me yeah. You say he goes MIA - does he like run out of the room or something?

[Asker]

No, but we end the night on a good note with him feeling bad about it but he still goes MIA for a week and I don’t reach out because I think he needs to do that

[CaptainRonnie]

Sounds like he feels bad about it or is worried you're pissed at him and he's waiting for you to reach out too. Probably should just talk to him about it to avoid the cycle.

[Asker]

He is really embarrassed when it happens, but I do try to give him space

[Bricealan]

Hard to say. If he shoots too quick, he is probably feeling embarrassed. Maybe he disappears for a time, tries jacking off thinking about and the fucking and tries to practice hold off shooting for he next time. My girlfriend told me to jack off, right up to shooting my wad, and then stopping, and hope that would help me last with her or stay harder, longer.

[Dargil]

Yes. The solution is for him to bring you off orally *or by hand) before he ever mounts up. Then he can go as fast as he wants.

[Browneye57]

This would be a question for HIM, don't you think?
Maybe you just hear from him when he gets the hornies.
Sounds like a relationship made in heaven, no? You kids don't TALK?

[magiusX26]

likely embarassement

[DaveToo]

Embarrassment.

[Wise4myage]

He's embarrassed, or he has another unsatisfied woman on the side, lol.

[Philyouup]

Id say immature and embarrassed..

[Mangospacho]

He’s shutting off the live stream that he was filming so nobody finds out that he can only last for 30 seconds.

[Asker]

That sounds so funny, but what do you mean by it?

[Mangospacho]

He’s probably just embarrassed even though it doesn’t sound like it bothers you very much that he cums too quickly

[2021biguy]

It just sounds like he doesn't know how to communicate his feelings to you or care about how you feel.

[Asker]

Sounds pretty much how he is

[2021biguy]

If someone loves you that won't happen.

[Asker]

We haven’t said I love u yet, so maybe he doesn’t love me, but is always having a nervous break down when I threaten to end things, so I don’t know!!

[2021biguy]

Try not to threaten to end things, that could be the reason.

[Asker]

How do you mean?

[Asker]

I’m not sure

[2021biguy]

People react to threats differently so it makes him upset or nervous. Maybe just take a break with each other if he makes you upset.

[Asker]

We’ve taken breaks before, but he ends them prematurely and we go back and the cycle goes on

[2021biguy]

ok I'm here if you need a friend

[Asker]

Thanks that’s sweet

[Maspolomas]

He is in it for himself he nutted and he only comes back when he wants to

[Asker]

He only goes MIA when he cums quickly so not always

[Coolkat12345]

He needs to work out more and also needs to take viagra because he has premature ejaculation.

[Seppel]

What is MIA?

[Asker]

Google

[Seppel]

I Googled it but the only think I found is a Band from Germany

[Asker]

Then you don’t know how to google properly lol

[Seppel]

And you seem to be too unfriendly to give proberly answeres.

[Texasguy99]

I think he’s embarrassed

[Hotboy_booblover]

I think his appetite is less.. will return when the tank refills.. he needs treatment

[MasterKS]

quickly cum is embarrassing for sure, it it happens often.

[Asker]

It happens really frequently nowadays

[MasterKS]

It’s sad! How could you manage it? It’s frustrating talk with him!

[Asker]

I’m done talking. I’m ignoring his ass.

[MasterKS]

getting a new dick?

[Anonymous]

Yeah probably is