Why does every guy I talk to ask for a threesome?

[Anonymous]

I’m so tired of this sh*t. Why don’t they just want to have sex with me and only me? Am I just not good enough or something? They always go on and on about how I’m sexy and gorgeous (I am pretty attractive I won’t lie no cocky shit tho) but yet they turn around and ask for a threesome? If I’m so god damn sexy and beautiful why tf do you not just want me only. I feel like garbage. Is it because I say I’m bisexual? Do they think just because I like girls they get a free threesome? News flash buddy until you DESERVE one I’m not giving you one or you can find one else where. Matter a fact if you REALLY want one because I’m bi and you think you can use me, I’ll give all the attention towards the girl and leave you RIGHT AFTER. While you were too busy fetishizing me , I’m busy finding someone better , the girl you and I fucked ☺️

[HighValue]

Are they the kind of people that have had casual sex before? Because then they are likely mostly interested in sex and not a relationship.

I do believe however that a bisexual person will never have a successful exclusive long term relationship with only 1 other person because they will always feel like they are missing out on something they really want. And long term doesn't mean just a couple years, I mean like 20+ years of being exclusive. I have never met any bi person that has had a successfully exclusive relationship for that long.

[Asker]

Yeah they usually had a lot of casual sex before me. I did end up dating a guy who wanted a three some at first but ended up falling in love and never asked for one again so you’re right they probably do just want sex in the beginning 🤦🏻‍♀️

[HighValue]

Try to avoid anyone that has a past of casual sex if you are trying to find someone for something serious and long term.

[Deed211]

Probably its how you look. Work on your appearance.

I know because as one of those "Hot guys". All the hot girls chased me. They eventually wanted to have sex with me only and one of my friends who was in the room that was chasing the girl, she always asked that I get involved if he and she ever did something sexual.

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[Asker]

It’s not my appearance , they all usually think I’m hot

[Deed211]

They think you are hot, that's why they will be willing to have sex with you. But I think you need to be hotter for them to see you as a whole package. Did this reply help?

[Asker]

I don’t think my attractiveness is the issue here

[Deed211]

If they are ask for threesome that includes 2 girls 1 guy: both girls isn't that attractive enough for one on one. 1 girl 2 guys: She's so hot AF it takes 2 guys to fuck her. See what I'm saying? I'm not saying you are not attractive, its just you need to be a tad bit more attractive for a 1 on 1. Did this reply help?

[Asker]

We 1 on 1 all the time , he just wants to have a three some one day

[Deed211]

Oh no, that's not good if they (or he, as you put it) are asking for threesomes all of a sudden. u lost your attractiveness girl. Beauty fades as women typically get older these days. But if what your saying is true. I reccomend you heavily focus on your appearance if you want to have a 1 on 1 again. Get your attractiveness back girl. Your beauty is fading.

[Deed211]

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[rachel776]

porn makes it seem like everyone does it

[Havthrills]

Straight and to the point. I like that

[LaMiSch]

I never understand this obsession with a threesome either. Sure, you can be curious, but I've never asked a woman about it. I would feel bad about it and logically most women feel bad about it too. Of course I know that there are exceptions for some couples.

[LaMiSch]

I think you've only met the wrong side of men so far 😩

[Asker]

I have unfortunately 😭

[Asker]

I wish I could find the right men but I don’t know where to look 😭😂

[LaMiSch]

Here 🙋‍♂️😂No, im from germany so we will never met 😅

[LaMiSch]

But we can chat if you want 😅

[ThebestIndian]

I would not mind having only you. That would be great, I guess. Give me a follow?

[Anonymous]

Well, it's a standard request. You should make less problem with it.