Virgin or not. You know it’s a sin to sleep around outside marriage. Right?
The concept of it being “sinful” is pretty centric to christianity and abrahamic religions, which I’m sure you know not everyone follows. Yes, there are definitely risks to having unprotected sex, especially when you’re still a teenager and getting pregnant carries a higher rate of birth defects than in your 20’s, but having sex before marriage is something that’s been happening for thousands of years. Just look at Roman brothels, for example. You think every person that went in there was unmarried? This is one of those things that’s very easy to use to tell yourself “I’m better than you because I don’t do this because it’s morally wrong.” And the reality is, it’s not “wrong” as much as risky — especially 2,000 years ago when contraception was a joke and there was no way to protect against STIs.
Ethically speaking, as long as everyone consents and takes appropriate measures for protection, there’s nothing wrong with sex before marriage. This is very much a gray area that religious institutions try to turn into black and white to keep more people out of those risks and people will use it as an excuse to call themselves better. Think of all the christians that call teenagers whores and sluts, because this behavior is ALWAYS aimed at teenagers. It’s adults who don’t like new things and don’t want to admit they did the same things and they pass on this bias that being with someone you love is somehow evil because you’re not married, like it invalidates any feelings you have just because of that status. I’ve seen those marriages, you know. The ones where sex doesn’t happen until the wedding night. You know how many usually end in divorce because of sexual dissatisfaction? Half of them, the other half either end because of finances or wait until the kids are grown. Having premarital sex is sexual exploration, a psychologically healthy thing go do to find out what you want, what you like, and who you’d want to spend the rest of your life with and what you’d like to do with them. Saying it’s a sin is taking a moral high ground that just makes you feel better but the reality is, you’re looking down on someone when you’re on the same level they are and just making yourself out to be an a-hole.
So you are saying that in general, sex before marriage is a sin. You do realize that not everyone is the same religion as you, and that there are even people who aren’t religious. I personally do not agree with “sleeping around”, I think that’s nasty and it can also lead to a lot of mixed feelings.
You got that last part right. If people also don’t want opinions they shouldn’t ask. They’re literally soliciting ir
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Yes, I agree. However, you are cloaking this with the opinion that sex before marriage is a sin, which I personally don’t agree with.
It is (according to Jesus) sinful to even feel lust, outside of marriage; the only reliable way of avoiding that, short of mutilating your body, is adjusting your hormone levels via sexual release.
If sin is bad, and avoiding it is impossible, then the next best option is minimizing it, no?
Maybe they are schizophrenic? Or just continuing that teen boy silliness of bragging about conquests when all that happened was a kiss on the cheek. The virgin claim is probably true more often than not.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Sleeping around after marriage might be a sin, but sleeping around when you are single is certainly not a sin.
With your husband it isn’t a sin. Sleeping around on him is. The Bible clearly says so. A book you should pick up and read from time to time
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I guess I was a very big sinner before I got married but the sex and the orgasms were great!
It can’t be proved what you claim is a sin though. Nor is there proof that this specific “sin” carries consequences. You really just choose to believe what you say as fact.
I dont care about sin making it sin is stupid
Aren’t you Christian? May will cry LORD LORD but won’t enter DEPART FROM ME YE WHO WORK INIQUITY
Not realy christian and I think jesus would forgive and like that people spead love and enjoy live
Yeah if you repent……..
What- it ain’t no sin. I’m at 15
It’s not miserable, i have no negative feelings about my body count but I also don’t think its anything to flaunt. Nothing wrong with having sexual experience, and I don’t think anyone should be ashamed or scared of it being a “sin”. It’s just a part of life, there’s a reason it’s pleasurable. Im in a very happy relationship now with my boyfriend who loves me and accepts me for who I am. See how all I did was be honest about my body count, and you tell me that my life is miserable, called me a slut, and basically said that nobody will love me? I thought religion was about love acceptance and forgiveness…Seems a bit backwards to me. I would never judge you for what you do in your life, let alone call you names for it. Everybody deserves respect and love. If your god is okay with you treating people this way, then he is tainted. If “sinning” means living my life the way I want to, and doing what makes me happy then so be it. I will not live my life afraid of judgment.
Well if you have no negative feelings. Seems you are just too far gone and have no sense of right and wrong anymore. I feel bad for you and ain’t even reading all that garbage.
I could remove it. But I will let you look like a idiot instead
I'm not sure
People playing games?
Probably just trolls 💯 👍 🎯
I meant to mention trolls. 😂
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Yes I will
For me, it's less about if it's a sin or not. I respect my soul and body. I truly value the connection with a person and am honest with myself about how connecting intimately with a man affects me. I naturally become more devoted to him and want a relationship. But if you just sleep with a man outside of a serious commitment, often the men have different intentions. They don't respect you enough and don't feel a sense of responsibility to take care of you and love you. Even if it feels good in the moment, it causes me as a women, a lot more harm then good. And many of my girlfriends, even if they don't want to admit it, will experience similar struggles. The rule is there to help protect women and encourage men to respect and care for us. And so I understand where this wise teaching from many religions is coming from. And for other women who don't understand, I hope this can give you clarity on why sleeping around don't really benefit us as much as we sometimes don't want to admit it. Of course, there might be exceptions to that. But even women who preach against monogamy, from my experience were also going through a lot of unhealed inner pain. I think the more you connect with your authentic self, the more you just understand where religion comes from. It's not necessarily to control or oppress. There are some valuable teachings in there to help us live better lives. I'm not particularly religious however I follow many religious practices. Because there is much wisdom in them.
None of that makes any sense.
Neither do you
And why even go anon to post that? I mean out of all the comments I got here. You would think they would at least have some shame
"Why does everyone" Everyone doesn't. "defending sleeping around" On this site? LMAO It's the most prudish site on planet Earth "The Bible clearly says so" God didn't write the bible, Forest Gump did.
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