Why does he always cum so quickly?

I lost my virginity to a guy I’ve known for a while now and the first time he wore a condom and came in 2 minutes and we had a second round and he lasted 3 minutes. Usually he lasts about 2 minutes with a condom but yesterday he literally lasted 1 minute with a condom. He said the sex was amazing and it was but I feel like he cums too quickly
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  • He may be new to having sex and getting used to just how amazingly pleasurable it is for his penis to be inside a vagina (even with a condom). I think girls sometimes don't realize just how extremely pleasurable that sensation is and how quickly it can lead to his orgasm and ejaculation. Usually with more experience he will last longer. The comments about him cumming first with a blowjob or handjob, and then waiting a bit for him to get another erection are good. After he's already cum once he should be able to last longer when he's inside you. When guys are new to sex, and especially at your age, they generally don't go for 30 minutes or so like you see in porn.

Most Helpful Guy

  • That is so easy.. depending on how much he is turned on a guy can cum in 30 secs... a lot of guys masturbate before sex,... so they last longer... I won't lie my first time i lasted maybe 2 mins but the few times after that if the foreplay is that intense he will cum REALLY FAST... work with him... could be worth it

Most Helpful Girl

  • Because he doesn’t have experience. The more sex you have the more he’ll be able to last longer.

    • that's not entirely true

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  • He can control himself. You should insist that he do so. If he needs to pause to regain control, go with it while keeping the mood.

  • its okay he will get some practice and keep trying for round 2 or 3 until he learns to hold it fora bit

  • He also was virgin? maybe you should go on pills, so can try to do better with less obstacles.

  • Why does he come so quickly? He really, really likes you and is just happy too see you!😍

  • Guys have to build up stamina over time.

  • He can get some desensitization lotion and use just a tiny bit... may help

    As he gets older and more sexually experienced he will last longer.

  • Learn to "edge" him.
    Slip some benzocaine into his condom.

  • he's having a really good time i guess

  • He thinks you are sexy and beautiful and have an amazing tight or wet pussy which excited him so much he couldn't wait to cum

  • give him a blowjob first and he'll last longer inside you 🍆💦💦💦

  • Maybe he was too fast on penetration, in a sex act, it must be start slowly, with touches and kisses, feeling each other, than, when the act gets too horny for both, time to go harder

  • How young is he? Age plays a role.

  • Well that can be the case for u if its really tight and he can't hold it in, either that or he just doesn't have a high tolerance

  • Yeah he needs to work on lasting longer. Lol.

  • How old is he?

    • 21 turning 22

    • The issue is most likely inexperience

  • Yes, much to quickly. Doesn’t give you near enough time to cum.

  • You must be doing something right.
    Have him get a prescription for Viagra.

  • because he is inexperienced

  • Girl, he’s just excited to be with you. I hope he builds up his stamina so you get some pleasure out of it too.