So my partner age 40, been with him since he was 36 is very healthy. He eats good, he is in shape, slim/muscular, does sport, doesn’t smoke and never did, don’t do drugs, only drinks small small weekends. I am pretty sure he doesn’t cheat or have porn addiction. His dick often goes soft during sex since the beginning, also when I give him blowjobs and he isn’t able to have a very hard erection for very long. He is always able to orgasm and finish, but it often goes soft and I don’t get why.
Before him I was with a guy also age 35/36, he had a bit of a stomach, not in very good shape, drank more, smoked and he always naturally had the hardest erections.
I don’t get how there can be such a big difference or why my current partner has these problems. Sometimes I don’t even enjoy it is often getting soft halfways and sometimes I don’t feel much because it is so soft and I always feel bad giving blowjobs because it never stays hard. It has been like that since the beginning. I don’t think it is a new problem, he said from the start he take a long time to cum and I was the first ever to make him orgasm from a BJ. I don’t think it is because he is nervous or something, he is very confident and has been with a lot of women before me and otherwise he is really the best in bed so caring and attentive and he can do magic with his tounge.
Why does he always go soft during sex?
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0 24My guess is, you have a preference for guys older than you
Haha well guessed. 😩 I have also dated guys my age though
My guess is you are around 23
24👌😊
So 16 year difference
Yup 16 year difference
Why you guessed 23
I was just making a guess, also, I assume every boyfriend you had, he had to pursue you or make the first move, ask you out first
Yes. I have asked guys out like on a second date but only once for the first.
Why do you think it's in a girl's nature to wait for guys to make the first move or ask them out first?
I don’t know why, but sure a girl should be able to ask a guy out
Yeah but it's still happens too rarely unfortunately
Your previous lover could have been taking the blue bill, other maybe your current guy is becoming pre-diabetic...