Why does he always wanna nap after sex?

My partner always wants to nap after sex whereas I just wanna cuddle while watching a movie as part of our aftercare.

Sometimes I wanna go again but he is always saying he’s too tired for back to back rounds.
Do I maybe have a high sex drive compared to him? Or he just got post sex blues?
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  • First, what the "f" is aftercare? Second, it's physical, the make body releases a hormone after orgasm that puts us to sleep. google this. Its' STRONG and trying to ruin this sleep makes us want to choke the shit out of you but we don't say anything because we don't want to turn off the pussy faucet. Trust me though, the hate is there and it builds. Give your man 20 minutes of naptime, and hell be much happier and loving and probably ready to go again. You can use this time as "me time" and then you and your man will be in perfect alignment. Trust me, 20 minutes and he'll be a new man

  • I can't speak for him but sex can be a workout so napping (while not for everyone) is a way for him to re energize

  • Wore his ass out 💪

    • That doesn’t sound like a good thing haha

    • oh it is... don't stop doing what you are doing lol

  • Tired 💤

  • Coz we just gave you all we got to pleasure you hopefully 🙏 😊

  • For a man after sex sleeping is the way for us

  • Has he ever wanted to go more than once?

    • Only once he did mention that he came a little while edging so we continued. Most of the time, he just wants to nap

    • Then if he’s feeling refreshed then we can go another round

    • @fallonsamuels hmm well I can see the frustration with that.

  • many men feels like sleepy, its sad that many men are one round wonder.

  • It is biological so there is nothing wrong with that. If you want to cuddle or go for seconds tell him as this can be solved only by communicating

  • It takes lot of physical energy from a man once he ejaculates. It's a building block of life and takes lots and lots of energy and nutrients out of the male body. Hence men feel tired lethargic and drained out after ejaculation. It's not easy and practical for a male to have multiple rounds of sex with a female.

    Have some mercy on a male... don't kill him for your sexual desires

  • Is he doing most of the work? because that gets very tiring too but we all want to rest for a moment after orgasm, but also depends on the time of day that you do it

    • If you want to get him going again, then start off with a BJ

  • At orgasm, men get dosed with prolactin. It makes us really tired.