Why does he cum inside me?

I’m young. I’ve been having casual sex with this boy at few times already. The first & second time we were super strict about wearing condoms. But after that we had a discussion about how we were both clean & how I’m on BC. So he starting coming inside me. I told him I like him, he explained to me that he doesn’t feel that way & doesn’t want a girlfriend, and I’m okay with that. But it’s just weird because... you fuck me raw... which are possibilities of getting pregnant... which means subconsciously u want me to mother your children...
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  • No it doesn't subconsciously mean he wants to have children with you.

    It feels much better raw, and some guys prefer to cum inside than anything else if possible (i'm one).

    It's risky, but most guys will take the risk if you're on birth control anyway.

    It feels good for him, thats why.

    Guys don't want to have to worry about pulling out or anything like that.

  • There is no subconciously anything going on.

    He is cumming in you because you are letting him because its less hassle and feels better, this isn't complicated.

    If you get pregnant thats going to be your problem he isn't going to want anything to do with that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Most guys will go bare if you let them... maybe you aren't okay with it and would rather use a condom? But I don't think he wants to get you pregnant since you had the BC discussion.

  • Yeah I don’t think he’s wanting you to mother his children. Doing it bare feels way better for a guy. He just wants the added pleasure.

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  • He's trusting your BC which should be okay if you're really diligent about taking it.

  • Cumming inside is amazing, healthy, and connecting. The connecting part is a major reason of why he should be committing to you. And yes, the factor of baby making, even if your on BC. I would say ether he decides he wants you and loves you enough to commit, or its no cumming inside. Better yet, no sex at all.

  • I fuck my girlfriend raw and neither of us want children. Granted there is a 0.1% chance I could get her pregnant if she wasn't on birth control, and she's on it, so it's pretty much guaranteed she can't get pregnant by me.

  • Because, according to Tom Segura, it feels AMAZING.

  • No he just doesn't want to use a condom cuz it feels better

    • Then why wouldn’t he just pull out... instead of risking it

    • Because like I said, it feels better

    • So basically I’m a piece of meat

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  • you are a piece of meat for him
    if you respect yourself, leave him, give up this relationship
    and have someone who respect and love you just as you are.
    :)

  • Feels better & is erotic

  • Kind of depends on his maturity level. If he realizes what is actually at stake. In all honesty though, it feels 1000x times better to finish inside, but he should still be careful. One of these days he will have a wake up call and realize his mistakes. I'm not saying kids are bad or anything, but if y'all ain't ready for one, then I'd recommend ending that until he gets a reality check

  • or he just likes it raw, dont overthink it. but I'd suggest condoms anyways