Why does he cum so quick?

Whenever we have sex he cums in like 30 seconds even in missionary? Is there something wrong with me like he’s lasted long one time but usually
its 45 seconds and he says he just can’t help it?
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  • Clearly your sexual prowess is too overpowering for him.
    I mean, might be.

    Could be anything. He could have a premature condition. Could just be new to it. Getting overly excited. As long as he can go for a round two and that is satisfying both ways I see no real issue.

    To fix it, an easy instant fix is of course to make it round two, use double rubbers or alike. Slowing down, controlling the pace. Even right out stopping for 30 seconds can substantially improve endurance.

    A more longterm solution that is somehow always overlooked is to have the guy do some kegle exercises. It is that funny looking thing where guys lift towels with their members. Outside of how funny it looks, the fact that it has almost only good effects like mitigating future prostate issues etc it also has an often overlooked effect of directly strengthening the pelvic muscles. Which is of course instrumental to "holding back" for a guy. And so it can help a guy last much longer than you will ever want him to.
    And as a sidenote general exercise also helps. Being fit typically means better sex all around.

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  • firstly nothing wrong with you... lets get that one straight.

    most guys have the problem at some point in their life and its just a shame that you are experiencing it with him.

    he is getting too excited during sex and needs to control it better, lots of advice on here as to how to increase time.

    could also be that he has a kink that he's imagining during sex. if you know what that is and your happy to forfill it, then do so, next time he will not be so stimulated and should last longer

Most Helpful Girls

  • He is probably inexperienced and doesn’t know how to hold in his cum yet. Most men are ready to Cum 45 seconds, but experienced men knows it takes more than 45 seconds to make a woman cum. Are you his first?

    • Noo im probably like his 15th body I’d say, he’s got a lot of experience that’s the thing

    • Hmmm he may be lying, or he just hasn’t had sex in a while. I know when my man hasn’t had sex in a while he will be like “sorry” and then cum within 2 minutes

    • Yeahh the thing is we had sex the night before, he did last longer that time I’d say like 5-6 mins

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  • Guys cum quicker in missionary and doggy from my experience. Maybe start out on top and go slow.

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  • I'd say he's just not experienced. Try the cowgirl or similar where you can control that action. Five to ten minutes is normal for most guys to cum. More experienced guys are able keep control and last much longer. A lot of us cum when our girlfriend wants us to.

  • There's nothing wrong with you, why do so many girls often think this way? If he is inexperienced then its common, if not inexperienced then it's something he needs to work on and practice pacing and edging. But it's not you and you need to stop thinking that way.

  • That's an actual health issue and he should consider getting help about it.

    And no, there is nothing wrong you.

  • Some guys cum sooner than others. Your comment seems to indicate that you're not being satisfied. Let him know that you like it when he does other things besides intercourse, oral, manual stimulation of your clitoris, fingering.

  • A lot of it has to do with him being either nervous, having a pre-existing medical condition, not having had enough experience and thus not desensitized enough, OR he's honestly THAT strongly attracted to you. Guys dont try to end it early unless they are selfish lovers. But I'm thinking he's either nervous or inexperienced and you should tell him to relax and go slow. Bring his face close to your's and look him in the eyes and tell him something from the heart and tell him how fast or slow you want it. That does help.

  • That happens to most guys, ask him to jerk off before you have sex and he should last longer.

  • In time he will learn to control his cumming.

  • Find new and a real man for yourself

  • As a boy growing up I masturbated a lot every day. So I did not get caught, I would try to hurry up and cum. I do believe that this had conditioned me to cum fast. It was an issue for me early in my marriage,, through time I have been able to re-condition myself and now I can last longer at least most of the time.

  • Probably because you're soooooo 🔥 🥵

  • how old is he?

    If he hasn't had sex or masturbated in a while he may cum fast

    A lot of us guys cum really fast on the first orgasm

  • bad dick!

  • Make him cum during foreply, then have sex

  • The average guy will cum in 90 seconds. He needs to train himself. He should masturbate more.

  • what @kyleelyn199723 says is true. Cuming whenever you want requires experience and mental focus.

    It is not because of you but him. He needs to learn his way and get better

  • He is tensed

  • I assume you lost your virginity at 16