Why does he enjoy finishing in me so much?

So my boyfriend wants to cum in me every time we have sex. He says he enjoys "claiming" me. He also enjoys leaving little bite marks/hickeys on my bum, inner thighs, and back. Is this a dominance thing for men? I get it feels good to finish inside, but do you view you're claiming the girl when you do this? Just curious is all 😊

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  • It sounds like he's claiming you as a trophy. When someone leaves hickeys in places others can see them, like your neck, that means that person is claiming you as their property. I learned this when I was with my psycho ex.

    He probably enjoys cumming inside you because it feels good. Does he get jealous when you're around other guys? I know when my ex used to leave hickeys on me, she told me she did it because she didn't want other girls to even talk to me.

    Just be careful. It's not to be with someone, but being with someone claiming you as property is possessive behavior.

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  • that seems kind of odd.
    I have never thought of that ever when finishing inside someone.
    I thought sex was something intimate between 2 people, or it could be just acting on your urge with another person that felt the same way.
    But claiming someone is new to me.
    How you feel about his behavior is the important thing.
    You aren't just some prize that you claim by finishing inside, you are a person with feelings, opinions etc.
    That is the odd part.
    I'm not sure if it is a control thing or he just figures he "owns" you?
    It would be interesting to hear what a professional would say about this.
    Also do like the bite marks etc?
    Would he stop doing that if you asked him to?

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think that’s how most guys view it. Sexual ownership is big with them. In truth, I kind of feel the same. Once I start having sex with a guy, I feel I belong to him. I’m opening up the most intimate part of my body to him and when he cums in me, he’s leaving part of himself inside. It’s a sexual marking of territory. Him leaving bite marks on intimate parts of your body is the same concept. It’s marking you as his. It’s a primal thing but it’s real.

  • My guess is it is a dominant thing. I think guys will cum inside, on or make a girl swallow because its hot for them to see. That's just my guess 🤷‍♀️

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  • It feels amazing. For me it’s the thought of giving my seed in love and leaving a part of me with her. It’s part of becoming one flesh. It’s that bond created. That imprint. It’s the most beautiful aspect of sex.

    • But it only works one way. How is she leaving a part of her with you?

  • It does feel better during the orgasm to finish inside but even if I don't the orgasm is still fantastic. Just make sure that you are on birth control if he is going to do it again.

  • I think it's a natural desire. The thought of breeding is quite sexy.

    • Not sexy to me. Lol

  • I don't look at finishing inside that way, it just feels really good, is all. As for the bite marks and hickeys, not my cup of tea at all.

  • The entire point of sex on a biological level is to ejaculate inside the woman. Just the pure nature of it is exciting and hot

    • Which is probably why we like it so much. It's the way nature intended

    • @wanderinglovewizard Speak for yourself

    • I dont have to. I just stated a fact

  • No I don't see this as claiming a person just finishing inside her

  • I don't know about "claiming" her, but it definitely feels more intimate.

  • Personally I think hockey's are rather juvenile and leave them up to the young early teens. I don't know about the claiming part that sounds s bit juvenile too but there is no greater pleasure for a guy uo cum deep in a vagina or for that matter after the vagina in her mouth or if you're into anal in there but deep in the vsgina is definitely number one.

  • I think it’s natural for guys to want to finish inside. I know my husband feels like he is claiming me when he gives me his seed. But that’s ok, because it’s kind of how I view it.

  • Its the best feeling in the world to cum inside a pussy. For me it's about the feeling. The potential risk of breeding is also exciting. There's nothing more intimate than cumming inside your partner. Especially when you're deep into the throws of passion the last thing you think about is pulling out.

  • I wouldn't call it " claiming her" by finishing in her. You are not an object. He doesn't own you. It's just a nice feeling to be able to finish inside the woman

  • Yeah it's probably a dominant thing for him but if I cum in a girl I don't consider me claiming her or marking her as mine. There just guys that have the perception or kink think if they cum or leave marks on a girl they own her. I don't think he is a bad guy or anything it just people are kind of different person when they are in sex mode lol.

  • I mean where else would he finish… are you into finishing on your face, in your mouth, on your tits? I mean finishing inside a woman feels incredible.


    As for claiming, lol I feel that the moment I locked eyes and you got intrigued and came my way… that energy doesn’t happy when I’m in a woman. It happens from the initial meeting.

  • It feels good (?)

  • I've never thought of cumming in a woman as "claiming" her. He might be wanting to feel dominant. Also, it might lead to an unhealthy dynamic if he feels like you're "his" because he blew his load in your pussy.

  • because it feels really good... I don't do it for any other reason

  • Because it is so much of fun for him. having sex is the best fun

  • You must feel good to him

  • I think there's a very good chance you are overthinking this.