Some guy and girls doing it by instinct or because they seen somewhere. I have a girl suck me off and then try and shove finger up my ass... first time she suceeded second time i just grabbed her hand remove it since it was kind of weird sensation that i don't think i am going to get used to any time soon. I didn't say anything but she did ask me after she finished giving head if i didn't like it. I told her straight i had issue with some trying to shove foreign objects up my ass. Mind you i was kind of a hypocrit since i didn't mind doing the same with her but she was a dirty girl who had sex on her mind 90% of the time. She is probably a nympho these days. But since i had issue with it she didn't let me play with hers <.<. and i did try a few times. So i guess if you want to go down that route then you got to be okay with it being done to yourself. I don't have ass fetish but i wouldn't be against humping my next girlfriends ass if i got the option but only she was okay with it.
Never be afraid to say no or stop. Your body is your body and if he's a half decent and non retarded human being he will respect that. If he tries pushing you tell him to stop. If he still does it leave his ass
Thank you for your reply! I would like to tell him to stop, but I want to go about it in a nice way without upsetting him. Do you have any suggestions for what I could say when his fingers start to wander there?
you're welcome. Dont worry about being "nice". Just be straightforward and tell him that you dont want him to do it because it makes you uncomfortable.
Ok thank you! :)
When I'm riding my partner on top he would put his little finger in my ass and it changed the way everything felt - for the better. I wasn't the type of person to be on top but from the day he started doing that I'm free willing to volunteer instantly. It feels amazing if done right
@EmmRodgers did it lead to anal?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'm guessing that he just finds it a turn on. It doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to put his penis in there. You can always ask him though, couples are supposed to be able to discuss intimate things.
I know, whenever he's done it, it has taken me by surprise so I haven't been able to discuss it with him at the time. He has watched a lot of porn so I wonder if it comes from that.
It might well do, yes. Unfortunately guys do get ideas from porn and they often don't work out exactly as expected, lol
Did you ever ask him?
No, it's kind of hard to bring it up there and then!
I don't understand that. If was me... I would say... stop it! But you must like it
@timeversestears would u be down for anal?
It could be, but then it could also just be trying to stimulate your butthole with his finger. If he does go inside your butt, though, he shouldn't put that finger back inside your vagina.
Not necessarily. He may think it will arouse you more.
he probably is just trying to find out your boundaries
Yeah.. you should be be carful to not cross contaminate. You should ask him, are you willing to do anal?
No I'm not. Surely he should ask me before going there?
Yeah he should
He's digging for chocolate Easter eggs.
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He watches to much porn and trying to get you to do anal sex.. it's good
he probably thinks you like it... do you want him to stop?
Why would he think that? Yeah I'd rather he didn't - I don't really like it.
well then tell him that you dont like it
its just another way to get you off
He wants to give you something new.
yup, he wants anal sex
He probably wants to be sure you wipe properly when you go the bathroom.
I don't know...
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